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My husband accused me of being a full-time mother. I can't even take care of my children. Should I forgive him?

This kind of thing really happens too much, whether around or online, but in the end most wives choose to forgive. Girls should have their own considerations in mind.

First of all, under what circumstances did your lover say this? If the child is sick or hit, as a father, he cares too much about the child's health and speaks this sentence in a hurry. As mothers, girls can understand this feeling and put themselves in each other's shoes. Maybe we will rush to say something accusing. Although your husband chose to apologize afterwards. When girls choose to forgive, they also show their attitude, "I can understand your feelings, but this sentence hurts my self-esteem, so don't say it again."

Of course, there is another situation, that is, when the husband says this sentence, his attitude and psychology are on the high side, and he despises or even despises the full-time wife. I often say such kind of particularly hurtful words. "I can't even do housework well" and "I can't even take care of my children well" and so on. Such a man is too masculine, and it is very love rat's performance. They think that if they earn money to support their families, they are superior, while their wives only do housework and take care of their children at home every day, and they can enjoy a quality life without paying anything. His mentality is wrong. Although his full-time wife did not contribute to this family economically, she also played an indelible role in this family. Every day, they are also very hard, taking care of their children and cleaning up the housework for three meals a day, even more tired than men who work outside the home. When a man comes home, he not only doesn't help his wife to do something within his power, but also accuses the other party of not taking good care of the children. This behavior is too bad and shameless. Every member of the family is indispensable, and they all contribute to this family with their own abilities. Family status is not only based on economic income.

If your husband apologizes to you for his bad attitude afterwards, I suggest that women forgive him. After all, it is for the harmony of a family and a complete family for children. But if your husband not only often says such vicious words, but also doesn't care about you in life and feelings, the two of them rarely communicate. Then you need to think about how to live your life in the future. Do you want to live like this all the time? Look at other people's faces. Life? Leave this man, maybe you will meet a happier day.

So I don't recommend that women have children after marriage and choose to be full-time wives. This is your initiative to give up a woman's right to independence. Don't make excuses for your laziness in the name of children, using excuses such as no one to take care of children and being afraid that children can't eat well. Only when women are financially independent can they have their own confidence in life and marriage. Don't trust a man, he will always be good to you and so on. Such a man is rare. Take your destiny into your own hands, and the other party will not dare to criticize so unscrupulously, so as to live a chic and exquisite life.