How does Devil Training Camp make your expression more logical?

sometimes when chatting with others, your mouth feels dry, but others listen to it in a fog. Either others talk endlessly, but we don't know what to say.

I heard a joke before: the office building next door caught fire, and the employees rushed into the boss's office and said loudly: The boss is not good, it's on fire. As soon as the boss heard this, he jumped up from his seat and was about to rush out the door. The employee gasped and then said, The fire has been put out. As soon as the boss wiped the sweat on his head, he was about to sit down when the man added, but it's revived. When the boss heard that his heart was pounding with anxiety and he was about to run out, the man said: The office building next door is on fire and has been put out. After listening to this sentence, the boss fainted directly to the ground.

Although it's a joke, it's not hard to see that a logically confused expression makes people worry more. This is why the original simple communication sometimes escalates into a quarrel, because the expression is illogical, just like a cow talking to a frog.

So, why is there no logic in speaking, and how can we improve our logical expression?

as the ancients said, look before you leap. The same is true of speaking. Do you know what you want to say, how to say it and why before you speak? Often many people blurt out without thinking. So I don't know what I'm talking about, what I want to express, what's the basis of what I'm talking about, and what I want others to do after talking so much?

so, think it over.

the logical expression is unclear, which can be summarized as four reasons:

1. There is no clear goal

2. There is no core point of view

3. There is no argument to support it

4. There are several corresponding points to make your expression more logical

1. Clear communication and expression goals

Goals and < And problems are divided into problems to be solved, preventive problems and creative problems.

Many people will be flustered when they encounter problems. We can find a solution through the decision matrix and team innovation in "If there is a problem, ask the cause".

2. Dare to express your views correctly

Many people like to play Tai Chi and beat around the bush for various reasons when communicating and expressing. Others are unable or afraid to express their opinions because they are not clear about what is a fact and what is an opinion. Facts are not equal to opinions, because there is no risk in facts, but there must be some risks in speaking opinions. If others want to understand their intentions, they should dare to express their views.

There is no right or wrong opinion, only approval and disapproval.

so how to express your views accurately? Conclusion first, focus on key words, simplify and generalize, and know how to choose and use time effectively. Not only will the audience have the desire to listen, but they will not be bored because of the long content. More importantly, they will know what you want to say from the beginning.

When refining and clarifying opinions, we can use deduction, induction and questioning.

Zhihu mentioned the common logic:

in time: past, present and future

in space: from geographical location

triangle: through arguments, factual data support arguments

Zoom: small, medium, high and low, point to local and then to the whole

Pendulum: a good, b good, a. A is not good, B is not good, so I recommend you C

Income logic: positive: What benefits does this have for you? Reverse: If you don't ... you will lose because ... (This is a bit like the "objective truth transaction method" mentioned in the logic expression class-stating objective truth or authoritative standards in sales, expressing yourself in line with truth or authority, so you should choose me. )

3. Arguments make your expression justified

What can be an argument? Everyone's feelings or impressions cannot be used as arguments, but generally scientific knowledge, opinions of others, common data, information, objective materials and personal experience can be used as the basis. Including some practical cases.

4. Establish an expression framework

When we want to express ourselves, we can think clearly: what do you want to say about something, what basis are you based on, what examples you can testify, what action you want to take in the end, or what others need to do. Refer to the 5P principle.

the final conclusion is better at 3 o'clock, not too much.

in our daily life, how can we improve our expression through training?

1. reading: in the process of reading, we should have critical thinking and cut into the conclusions of the book from different angles

2. writing: writing is one of the most effective ways to improve logical expression. From the choice of theme, the structure of the article. Only when both oral expression and written expression have structural expression can there be logic.

3. When communicating with others, listen more and ask why. Think about why others say this.

4. You can take part in the debate.

5. Expand the knowledge and reduce the blind area of thinking.

6. What is more important is long-term deliberate practice.