Give birth to a child joke

hahaha. Seeing this question, you are the same age as me, son 18. I also saw the policy liberalized. I once asked myself if I wanted another one.

As a parent of an only child, I also feel that I have raised a baby for half my life, which is a bit of a loss. If I have the courage, I will have another child.

There are many people around me who have a second child in their forties. When I saw them, some of them were very nice. They are young, but you can't tell their age. Others seem to be the parents of their children. They are a warm family of four, full of happiness and enviable.

Parents who also have a second child look old-fashioned. It is often mistaken for the children's grandparents to pick them up. Children often say: your grandmother is here. Some directly said, why is your father so old? In this way, children will cry, or get angry and feel inferior. Such embarrassment is very painful for parents. This makes me afraid to have children, because my hair is gray.

In fact, others won't laugh. Children are their own, so it's good to have the ability to raise them. At this age, there are quite a few second children, and the state also supports them. Isn't that what everyone says? No matter what you do, people who love you will love you. People who don't love you don't like it, no matter how good you are. So, don't care what others say.

Take care of yourself, be a beautiful mother, make yourself happy and make your children healthy. Your future family of four will be very happy and will be envied by many people.

43 years old, daughter 18 years old. Will having a second child be laughed at? I want to say, in fact, I worry too much.

Tell me something that happened around you. A colleague is 46 years old. Recently, we found out that she was pregnant. Her son is a sophomore, not only 18 years old. Because she always wanted a daughter, after the second child policy was released, she wanted to have a daughter, but her husband disagreed, but she couldn't let go of the idea of wanting a daughter, and finally persuaded her husband to get pregnant successfully.

When I first let go of my second child, I heard a cousin who is a doctor say that many 70-year-olds who want to have a second child go to the hospital for consultation and examination, and are ready to have a second child.

Of course, you should be very cautious when you are pregnant and have a second child. After all, 43 years old is an elderly pregnant woman. It is necessary to combine the thoughts of other family members such as personal physical condition, family economic situation, spouse and children. If all the conditions can be supported, it is not bad to regenerate one.

The idea of being afraid of being laughed at is actually unnecessary.

After the release of the second child, there are many elderly parents. There is a mother in the mother group who gave birth to a second child when she was almost 50 years old, and now she has gone to kindergarten. Someone was there when she took it out. Is this your son? She said others said she was my grandson. How could you say she was a son? Then the man said, I think you look like a child, the second child is released, and age is not a problem.

Not only now, but also in the past when family planning was not practiced, people did not have the habit and technology of contraception. Many women did not have children until their forties and fifties. And now the tolerance of society is getting higher and higher. When you have a child in his forties, there are no jokes.

However, pregnancy at an advanced age does have risks, so it is necessary to pay attention to timely check-ups.

43 years old, daughter 18 years old. Will having a second child be laughed at by others?

1, having a baby is your own business.

Having children is your own business, so why care about other people's eyes, otherwise people will not live in this world. As long as the family agrees and the daughter agrees, it will be born. Its realization is that many people want a second child even as they get older. Neighbors and bosses are at work and have a second child. My son, classmates, parents and boss have all gone to college and want a second child.

So we should have a correct attitude and don't care too much about other people's opinions. What matters is what your family thinks.

2. Are you worried about looking old?

Mentality is more important, and physical condition is more important.

As long as the body can bear it, there is enough energy after giving birth.

And with a second child, we must maintain a good attitude. Frankly, I've met it, too. I thought it was the grandfather of the child, but it turned out to be the father. But I really admire him. I am also playing with my children outside, and I am very happy with my baby. That's all that matters.

People living in the world, everything should consider the feelings of others, really tired. As long as you like to love children and your family supports you, there is no problem with your health. If you want it, you need it.

It's okay. I was born with you. Why do you care about others? I am a 43-year-old girl That's good. As long as you are healthy, your husband and family support you. Anyway, I feel quite happy.

A lady who lives near us is 45 years old and her daughter is 23 years old. She gave birth to a son in September this year. Her daughter is very happy. She hugged her brother every day after work, saying that if her mother didn't have enough money to support her in the future, her parents would feel very comforted. I feel that her daughter is more receptive to a younger brother or sister who is quite different from her age.

Don't be afraid of others laughing, but look at your own actual situation:

First, my physical condition. Being a 42-year-old woman is dangerous. If my body can't bear it, give it up as soon as possible.

Secondly, can my daughter accept it? Don't think that my daughter 18 years old, there is no need to ask her advice. In reality, quite a few people don't accept it. In high school, several friends and their mothers all gave birth to brothers and sisters, with a difference of 16 and 17 years. They are actually very reluctant, and their parents take it for granted that "you are like this."

Then there are economic conditions. Raising children is not just talk. Milk powder costs money, and diapers cost money to go to kindergarten, not to mention how much it costs to have a second child, but at least the basic materials should be guaranteed.

Although it is up to you to decide whether to have children or not, the support of your family is still very important. If you don't support it, at least you don't strongly oppose your regeneration, then there will be fewer problems in the future.

So, if you look at the above question, it doesn't matter whether others will laugh or not.

First of all, congratulations, you can still get pregnant normally at this age, which shows that both husband and wife are in good health and their relationship should be good. Since you are pregnant, consider it a gift from God. Take good care of the baby and have a healthy baby! Don't be afraid of jokes. What's so funny? This is your own business, which is allowed by the national policy, but it is too late to envy anyone who is mentally healthy.

Personally, I still don't want to give birth!

1, insufficient energy.

Old age can't keep up with physical fitness. Lack of energy and slow response. There is also backward thinking and can't keep up with the times. Generally speaking, it is more difficult. Women who worry too much tend to get old quickly. After all, a one-year-old person is one year old.

2. Older women are at risk.

Everyone's physique is different. If you risk having children, if your life is in danger, you will lose more than you gain.

3. Be idle for a few years, and then wait to have grandchildren.

Give yourself some annual leave and take care of your grandchildren in a few years. Nowadays, young people are under great pressure. Share some with your children so that you can enjoy taking care of them and help them share some. Promote family harmony. If you think one is too few, you can let your child have two. Everyone takes turns to bring it. So everyone has time to rest.

4 1 year-old, the second is eight months, unlike you, the eldest is younger. Less than six years old! Don't care what others say if you want it!

Amitabha was born at the age of 43. Saving a life is better than building a seven-level pagoda, not to mention being his own child. He will only come because of your fate. What others say is someone else's business. Why bother? Everyone lives behind closed doors. Why bother them? Besides, you are not a celebrity, even if you are discussed, it is only temporary. There are always new news reports covering the old ones. It is true to live your own life.