What are the reasons for the contradiction in college students' dormitory?

I personally have a lot of experience to share with you, but I don't know how to say it. Let's divide it into the following points. The reasons for the contradiction in university dormitories are actually very complicated. It is also very simple, simple because it is a very ordinary little thing, and complicated because people's hearts are very complicated and they will think very complicated. Before it's too late, let's get started.

① Poverty difference

Why do I say poor? Because some people can't play together at all. There are different ways to think about this problem. Imagine people from all over the country crowded into the same dormitory. Getting along well is good for personality, and maybe personality differences are obvious. Like ordinary dormitory dinners, those rich people will invite ordinary people at home to dinner, so it is difficult for them to stand on the side of a student with less favorable conditions. If he is a careful person, things will be solved. If he is not very careful, he will choose some expensive dinner places to embarrass you. It would be embarrassing not to go. If you go, you can't afford it. Anyway, it will be complicated. Moreover, the example I gave is only a small point. You will find that many trivial things in life are like this, such as sharing expenses, buying something, or paying electricity bills. Even when it's time to turn on the air conditioner, some people just don't have so much food expenses to spend on these aspects that make them comfortable. Of course, I'm talking about some contradictions caused by objective factors, but it's up to you to solve them concretely.

② Unwilling to communicate.

For example, the more people talk, the more things in college. If you don't communicate in time, you will misunderstand others. If you misunderstand, there will be contradictions, and everyone's personality is different and the differences are different. It is difficult to agree on three views, let alone classmates from all corners of the country. Therefore, in the dormitory, only tolerance and mutual understanding can lead to a better life.

③ Life and rest are different.

Some people don't work and rest until their later years, but they feel normal. This is a selfish idea, but he doesn't consider other people's feelings, and some even suffer in work and rest. He is also more patient, that is, he won't fight with him in some words. If he fights with him, he will choose to fall asleep. But relatively speaking, they don't consider other people's feelings, and they are also very concerned. So when you see people who quarrel over trivial matters, most of them are ordinary people, and these things will happen after a long time. Therefore, we live in a university dormitory environment, and we should consider other people's feelings more.

4 do not pay attention to hygiene.

Northerners take fewer baths, while southerners take more baths. Although this is a question of mutual understanding, it is still recommended to some people who love hygiene. Therefore, there is another contradiction. If there are differences, if you don't communicate them in time and solve them in time according to the above points, you really spend all your time quarreling. This is simply a very bad thing, and a person's hygiene is also very important, so the reasons for the contradiction are also among them. You usually pay attention to hygiene and don't pay attention to doing it for others for a day or two, but after a year or two, you will find that some people really don't mean it all the time. But others will mind, so it is really important to recruit people. Here, the senior suggests that you speak less ill of others, do more things and tolerate each other, which will definitely solve the problem better and cause less trouble!