What should I do if I meet a pretty girl on the bus?

1. What kind of first impression should be left on MM (Time: just started to contact MM)

1. I think the most important thing is to let MM see you. ambition.

The greatest charm of a man lies in his successful career. Young people do not work long hours and cannot be considered "successful". At this time, you have to make your girlfriend think that you are a motivated person.

You can talk nonsense about other things, but this question cannot be vague. You must tell MM that you are full of confidence in the future, that you are not satisfied with the status quo, and that you already have long-term plans. In short, your future Not a dream.

2. Be confident and responsible

Don’t be like a child. Girls are lazy and hope they can find someone to rely on. You have to show your confidence and responsibility. Heart comes.

It is better to have a wrong choice than no choice at all.

3. Don’t be too serious, but don’t be too casual either.

Be serious where you should be serious, and laugh when you should be ridiculous.

Girls like men who are a little cynical, so don’t appear to care about anything, as that would be too dull.

4. Look more mature

Men who are calm and unhurried in situations are fatally attractive to girls.

2. How to have further contact with MM (time: the beginning of chasing)

1. The most important thing at this stage is not to be anxious, not to make things so clear, let People can tell at a glance that you are chasing them.

Think about it, most people will not fall in love with you at first glance, but they will also not hate you at first glance. They are all ordinary people’s children (unless you look like Chow Yun-fat, Andy Lau or Kevin Coster) (Na), goodwill needs to be realized as understanding continues to increase, so the key to the problem is the opportunity for further development you want.

Think about it from a girl’s perspective: If you rush over to find someone so directly, the girl must be under psychological pressure. If I find out that I don't like you after being in contact for a while, wouldn't it be like playing tricks on you? So if you come out with a determined attitude from the beginning, you will basically be put back immediately.

2. Start with a low profile

First of all, you must position the relationship as a "friend". It is originally an "ordinary friend". You hope to become a "good friend" with good taste

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You can also ask the other person to become a "confidante" or something, but never say "chasing you".

Think about it, if you don't mention "chasing" at all, then the girl will have less chance to "reject" you - how can she reject you if you don't pursue her? !

This can reduce the psychological pressure on girls and enable you to have a smooth relationship. Don't imagine that you will agree to marry you after only three days of knowing each other. You need to fully communicate and understand each other. Feelings do not arise out of thin air.

Lesson 1: Absolute Confidence

Self-confidence is the basic condition for doing everything, and chasing girls is no exception. If you want to successfully chase girls, you need to have absolute confidence. Self-confidence, you must have the belief: "You must succeed, no longer alone." And you should adopt a "self-reliance" approach and rely on your own strength to pursue girls. Try to avoid relying on friends and family. Not only are friends and family not always available to help you, but too many people who know your partner are more likely to backfire on you, and girls don’t like people who rely on their friends to chase girls. But to fulfill your ambition, the most important thing is self-confidence. Even if you are not a "Prince Charming", you can still dress yourself up like a prince. The important thing is that confident temperament and demeanor that makes the other party irresistible. In short, that is: Confidence, confidence, confidence.

Lesson 2: Men who confuse women

Most women don’t like men who are overly honest, it’s so boring! In fact, the conditions they most welcome in men are those who are well-liked, cheerful and lively, unable to reject others, have no opposite sex, are easy to compromise, are a bit overconfident and a bit romantic, and are a flippant lover model.

In fact, as long as you have any of the above points, it can be said that you already have the conditions to attract women. It’s just that the more of the above points you have, the more advantageous you will be in the pursuit process, and the smaller you are, the more difficult it will be. Break out of the siege. But even so, even if you have the above conditions, there is no guarantee that you will be able to please any woman, because while you have any advantages, you cannot also have some shortcomings that the other party cannot accept or tolerate at the same time, such as: poor Generally speaking, men have to use their eyes, voice and body language to attract women. When you first meet, you can naturally look at her ears. When their eyes meet, turn your eyes to her ears. She will naturally be deeply impressed by you. When you have the opportunity to talk, your The voice should be slightly higher than hers, cheerful and loud, which will attract her to continue talking with you. When listening to her words, your eyes will shift to her lips, making her feel that you are listening to her attentively; as for placing your hands on the table On the top, with four fingers side by side, people will feel your neatness and beauty, and they will naturally have a good impression of you.

Lesson 3: Encounter

You must always remind yourself that the word "eye edge" is almost the most inexplicable concept on the road of love. It is enough to make two people fall in love. Fall in love quickly and even go to church. Therefore, when you meet the woman you have been waiting for for a long time and have a perfect match in any place and occasion: bus, subway, street, restaurant, banquet, workplace, etc., don’t hesitate, the opportunity may be gone forever. To seize the current opportunity and seize the current person, the only way you can do it is to go forward and talk to her, so that she can get to know you and have an impression, good impression, love, longing, etc. for you. Anyway, you have to take the first step. But there is no doubt that this requires a lot of courage and you must act cautiously. Moreover, if you say the wrong sentence, you will be able to save yourself later. Therefore, in daily life, you must always learn until it is useful. You can handle it easily.

Below, try to give some opening remarks for your reference:

1. Look at her with attracted or uncontrollable eyes and look back from time to time. (With this trick, even if the other person is not attracted to you at all, they will feel complacent about your own charm and can't help but look back at you.)

2. A smile. (They will believe that their appearance must be lovable and make others like them, and then they may smile in return.)

3. Ask her the time in the most natural way, but you must not have a watch on your hand, but you can adjust it slower or faster first. (She can't find any reason to refuse to answer you.)

4. "Hello!" Smile. (If done properly, your chic attitude will definitely attract her, but most importantly, she will be convinced that you are attracted to her.) The purpose of the above is to reduce the alertness of strange girls when they meet them. More ideal way. Since they don't know each other, if they speak too glibly and have an attitude, they may offend the other party, which may be self-defeating. In fact, any woman believes in fate and obeys fate. They will believe that every man who appears in front of her may be her future husband. Therefore, as long as you use the appropriate method, she is always ready to let go. Take what you accept. Sincerity is always the strongest weapon to capture a woman's heart. To win her heart, she must believe that you are absolutely attracted to her, and even she is the only one who can attract you; then, she will gradually release her psychological vigilance and turn to you. Smile. However, if the other person is introduced by a friend, or you know that you have some relationship with the other person (such as school, work), then things will be much easier.

5． "He [someone] said that you are the school beauty of XX Academy, so you must be busy dealing with the pursuit of different boys every day." (Even if she is not a real school beauty, once you tell her, she must think that her beauty has already attracted many people, but the most important thing is that she must deny it and explain it.)

6. "Your job seems very interesting. What are your daily duties?"

(She is definitely embarrassed to refuse to answer at this time, but gradually she will be attracted by your serious and candid eyes, and she will answer attentively.

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7. "You must spend a lot of thought and time on clothes. Have you cultivated this experience since you were a child?" (This is undoubtedly an implicit compliment, both complimentary and subtle.)