A story of temper

British biologist Darwin said: "If a person wants to lose his temper, he will take a step back on the ladder of human progress." Say: "Temper is an empty thing." This statement is true, saying it is a special noun, not suitable for spleen? Dedicate to ... is a dynamic word, but you can't say anything. You can't hold it high, and you can't kick it around. Temper is a strange thing.

65438+1October 2 1 That day, I was angry. It is because others gave me too extreme an evaluation that I was narrow-minded again and sulked myself. Clapping the table and crying, it seems that I can't stand the blow of all this. Later, I had a heart-to-heart talk with my Chinese teacher on the phone. After chatting for a long time, my mood calmed down a lot.

double-edged sword

How did this temper come in a hurry and go in a hurry? I compare temper to a double-edged sword, which has a smooth side and a sharp side. Sometimes, venting emotions and losing your temper will make you feel comfortable for a long time. It seems that there is a tube that simply sucks up all the depression in your heart. It's a happy feeling to breathe and burst into tears. This is its tactfulness, turning a person's hatred into peace, and will soon throw the anguish out of the cloud nine. However, there are also people with bad temper. Its sharpness, its sharpness, its meanness. When a person loses his temper, onlookers will feel very unhappy, listen to others crying and shouting, vent their emotions indifferently, and of course they will not sympathize with him. This can be described as "the authorities are fascinated, and the onlookers are clear." When people outside you see you lose your temper at this moment, they won't think you are pathetic, wronged and crying here. They will think that you are a subjective person, just venting yourself and not knowing what others think. Such people can't be called "understanding", only "understanding". Having said that, I just want to interpret this double-edged sword in one sentence: "when it is smooth, the owner likes it, and when it is easy to use, it looks good;" When it is sharp, it hurts others. The owner still likes it, but it has hurt many people silently. "

Someone's back

You may have a lot of doubts about this "back" in the title. What does this "back" have to do with temper? Ah, this figure is comparable to the "sword shadow" of this double-edged sword This double-edged sword will always leave something behind. Haha, this is its back. Whether the back of temper is long or short depends entirely on people. If the back of temper grows, then this is the fatal "sequela" of temper. For the arrival of all new and unexpected things, yes, the sharp side is showing off again, stabbing and stabbing, threatening to kill yourself! As soon as this war is over, I believe some people are still addicted. I am in a corner, waving a sword and showing my strength. In terms of temper, it is that after venting, I never forget it, as if I were arrogant again, showing that I am very reasonable, defeating those distorted things and finding my own justice. If you think like this often, the line of temper will be stretched very long. Whenever I lose my temper in the future, I will always think about the influence of unpleasant things on myself. In this way, over time, you will have a pair of eyes to find unexpected things and look for the source of your temper everywhere. In this way, you will find fewer and fewer friends around you, but more and more trivial things, and the grumpy back has always been in your field of vision. On the contrary, if you have a reasonable temper, immediately return to the right track and think about other things, meaningful and valuable things, your temper will always leave you. Because of your tolerance, your open-mindedness saved you, and such a sharp sword will make you indomitable. In this way, you will clearly find that there are more and more friends around you, your life is more and more sunny, and those troublesome and trivial things are less and less, and your grumpy back will never be seen in your field of vision.

I remembered a children's joke. ...

In a book, I saw such a joke: "a naughty daughter always makes grandma angry, and grandma can't help it." She said, "if you don't listen, grandma's temper will soon come down!" " The daughter looked at grandma for a long time and asked strangely, "grandma: where can your temper go?" "A seemingly simple and naive children's joke actually contains an intriguing truth-temper is not casual. For the average person's temper, as I said before-"come in a hurry and go in a hurry." "But temper is not casual, so how do you want to use it. The first thing to be clear is: "Temper is not a balloon. "On a certain occasion, it is not feasible for you to blow at will. The reason why temper becomes temper is because it is a kind of internal heat in your spleen. When you are furious, you will feel fever, headache, sour spleen and dry mouth. Yes, that's what a bad temper is. Bush has a casual temper. Although it is a virtual fire, it also has its own personality. It is definitely not feasible to use it casually. Losing your temper is very harmful to us, both mentally and physically. It's not intentional, you can do it whenever you want, and you need formal lettering. This balloon, if you want to make it bigger, make it bigger, if you want to make it smaller, make it smaller. But once it is too big, it will explode; Once it is too small, it is flat. That's all bad things. Losing your temper is a delicate process. When you recover too fast, your spirit will not support you, because developing too fast will make your spirit collapse and reach the point of ignorance. Of course, don't be like the grandmother in the joke, because you are not the only one in the world, and the world is not alone. Temper, sometimes really needs our natural control and peaceful treatment.

Take advantage of temper

When you hear this topic, you will say strangely, "Didn't you also say try not to lose your temper?" Why use this thing? "At this point, I can only smile. I said before that I should control my temper, but I didn't say that temper is a bad thing, but it is worth avoiding. If you look carefully at the small paragraphs in front of me, it will be clear that I have compared my temper to many images, such as a double-edged sword, a back and a balloon. You dare not say that these are all bad things. Yes, temper can be used sometimes. Here, I won't make many comparisons, just tell you a story. For example, in the field of sports, a person applies for long-distance running. He didn't start as fast as other players and fell behind for a long time, but his goal was to be the first. He was very excited. The goal of victory seems to ignite the fire of passion in his heart. With tenacious faith and courage, he rushed to the finish line. After listening, you will definitely ask, "What does this have to do with temper? "Ha ha, his passion is temper. Exercise is a kind of motivation, with the hope of hard work, moving towards the goal. This is the other side of temper-good temper. Since temper has a good side, we should learn to use it! Temper is motivation when used. When you are lost, you should use your good temper to motivate yourself and set out for perfection. Training will give you full ability and fiery passion, which will bring you close to victory. Ai Qing has a famous saying: "One hopes to start and one hopes to arrive. "I use it to describe our favorable temper, that is," a motive begins and a harvest comes. "

Thank you for your temper.

After listening to so many stories about temper, you must have a deeper feeling about temper. Now, let us thank you for your temper!

Temper! Thank you for letting me know that bad temper pays more and gains less.

Temper! Thank you for letting me know that it is natural and appropriate to vent.

Temper! Thank you for letting me know that when you lose your temper, you should put yourself in others' shoes.

Temper! Thank you for letting me know, with your precious, carrying hope, set out.

Temper! It is because of everything you exist that I know everything about you!

get angry

You sneer, I see ugliness in your smile.

You are crying, and I see tolerance in crying.

You're angry. I see it in anger.

You exist, and I see your strange personality in existence.

Temper, the world is wonderful because of your change.

Temper, life is contradictory because of your existence

Temper, I open my heart, because I know you!