Who knows the story of actor Qin Yi and his son? Just one story. Help, it's urgent.

She is a well-known star and a hard-working mother. Her strength has made countless people respect her. However, few people know that at the age of 85, she has to take care of her 92-year-old sister. This profound feeling shows us a more real her-Qin Yi, once known as the "Venus of the East", deserves to be the embodiment of beauty. ...

When you are away from home, your heart is tied at both ends.

Packing simple luggage, 85-year-old Qin Yi is going to travel by plane again. Pulling up his luggage, Qin Yi went to the living room and sat beside his son "Little Brother". "Little brother" is the real name of his son Jin Jie. My little brother rocked slowly in his rocking chair. This is my favorite seat. Every day after dinner, he always sits here for a while before going to bed. Seeing his mother coming, his brother smiled. Qin Yi looked kindly at his brother, smiled and touched his hair and patted his hand. "Mom is going out again, you should be good yourself. Mom will be back in three or four days. When mom is away, you should listen to your sister and take medicine on time. Sister will give you an injection. Tell your sister what's wrong with you and what you want to eat. " Qin Yi confessed every accusation gently, just like a teenager. But the younger brother in front of me is a middle-aged man who is nearly 60 years old. The younger brother looked at Qin Yi, nodded and said word for word, "I know." There is not much expression on her face, but from the way he looks at Qin Yi, it can be clearly seen that a child is attached to and reluctant to give up his mother. Just now the faint smile on his mouth disappeared. He just rocked in a wheelchair and listened to Qin Yi's repeated exhortations.

After telling his son, Qin Yi went to the house next door. In the living room, sat an old woman who looked many years older than Qin Yi. "Are you going out again?" The old woman asked. Qin Yi sat down and said, "I'm going to Beijing this time to win an award and there will be a performance. I'll be back in a few days. Tell your aunt what you need and what you want to eat, and take care of yourself. " "I like it, anyway, have aunt to take care of. It's you. Be careful when you go out by yourself. Fly again this time? Can't you take the train? I get flustered at the thought of airplanes. Can it be safe? You are the same age, when you were young. " Qin Yi smiled and said, "Elder sister, I am younger than you. Why do you say that every time I go out? It's okay. I will take care of myself. " Sitting in a wheelchair is Qin Yi's 92-year-old sister. Qin Yi, my sister doesn't trust her to go out alone, and always takes care of her a lot. Actually, the person who is more worried is Qin Yi. When she is not at home, she is not worried about her age. Anyway, it has become a habit for her to go out alone. Although she is 85 years old, she has a quick mind, unlike some old people, it takes a long time to figure out a little thing. Instead, she is worried that her brother will be left unattended and that something will happen to her sister.

In fact, Qin Yiduo wants to go out as little as possible, but this time she has to go because this trip to Beijing is of great significance. In 2005, the curtain is about to open, and China movies have really gone through a hundred years. To commemorate the 0/00th anniversary of the birth of China film, 50 film artists in China will be awarded the title of "National Outstanding Film Artists". Qin Yi is one of them. She went to Beijing to receive the prize this time.

Coming out of her sister's house, Qin Yi seemed worried and relieved a little. The two people who worried her most had already told her, and then she called her daughter and asked her to take care of her brother and her menstruation in the next few days. Qin Yi should repeat what she told her daughter countless times before going out, so that she will feel at ease when she goes out tomorrow.

At 7 o'clock the next morning, Qin Yi picked up his luggage and called a taxi at the door to go to the airport. No one to accompany, no one to send, an 85-year-old man just went out alone until he got on the plane. Although the organizers also arranged a lot of staff to take care of these old actors, Qin Yi didn't want them. She said that she could still walk and lift, and even if someone wanted to arrange a car to meet her at the airport, she refused. She said it was convenient for her to call a car, so it was not so troublesome. She asked the staff to help the old actors with mobility difficulties, and she could take care of herself. She is used to it. Over the years, when she was at home, she not only had to take care of herself, but also her son and sister, so it was easy for her to take care of herself when she went out.

The role of mother is the most difficult to play.

Qin Yi was awarded the title of "National Film Artist with Outstanding Contributions". On the stage and in movies, Qin Yi created many kind and strong women and touched countless people. But who would have thought that she had to take care of her sick son while shaping those characters. When other actors go out to film, they all relax by themselves, so they can have a rest after filming their own scenes. But Qin Yi is different. Every time she goes to the movies, she takes her son with her. When she is free, she will accompany her son, feed him food and medicine, bathe him and change clothes. Perhaps, the reason why Qin Yi's kind female role has no trace of affectation is because she has integrated all her feelings and good wishes into the role she plays. Qin Yi, who is always smiling, is not without troubles. On the contrary, she has more burdens than ordinary people and suffers the most painful suffering as a mother.

Now 85-year-old Qin Yi is already a grandmother-level figure, and she should have children and family happiness. But her 57-year-old son is still like a child. She has to dress, eat, take injections and take medicine, wash her hair and take a bath. Qin Yi has to do everything, and she can't get rid of the responsibility of being a mother.

It is no secret that Qin Yi has a "stupid" son. Many viewers who care about Qin Yi and like Qin Yi may already know from some reports or rumors that Qin Yi has a son as smart as a child. The son will even beat her like crazy and beat her black and blue. So will her son still hit her now? How did Qin Yi spend these years?

Since my son 16 years old suddenly became ill, the doctor diagnosed schizophrenia. Qin Yi has been patiently warming his son with love, calling the baby's name over and over again. Brother, brother, do you know how much your mother wants you to live well? I hope my little brother immersed in his own world can feel his mother's love.

The symptoms of schizophrenia are different and will change in different periods. From 1978, Jin Jie's illness changed from melancholy to mania, and he danced all at once. At 1979, he started hitting people. In the next two years, Qin Yi faced the possibility of hitting his son at any time. But Qin Yi had to send Ginger to a mental hospital for half a year, and finally stabilized her condition. "Mom, I'm fine. Please let me leave the hospital. Don't come in after you go out. I promise I won't hit anyone again. " Qin Yi looked at his son, the in the mind very sour. Qin Yi took Jinjie out of the hospital and took care of him more and more carefully. The miracle really happened. From then to now, more than 20 years have passed, and Jin Jie has never hit anyone again, and his condition has gradually stabilized.

It sounds like 10 years have passed quickly, 20 years have passed, but it has been 40 years since my son began to get sick. "Little brother" is almost an "old man". These 40 years are full of trivial, daily and troublesome things; It is unclear, endless and inexhaustible; Is day after day, year after year, want to do, don't want to do things have to do, but Qin Yi never complain, as long as can let her son live healthily, she is willing to do anything. Can we bystanders understand this kind of pain?

Qin Yi never sent Ginger to a mental hospital again. Even though she is old now, she has never considered sending Ginger to a nursing home. Because my son has entered middle age, apart from schizophrenia, he will get diseases that other normal people will get. But he is different from normal people. Normal people can talk when they are sick or uncomfortable, but they don't know when they are sick. If he is sent to a nursing home, who will observe his every change as carefully as Qin Yi, the mother? If he has a fever, who will touch his forehead every day; If he has diarrhea, who will notice how many times he goes to the toilet a day? Now he has diabetes, and he doesn't know what to eat or how much to eat. Only Qin Yi cares about this.

The person who suffered from schizophrenia at the same time as Jin Jie is still alive, living so well, I'm afraid he is gone. Because no matter how good a hospital is, a doctor has to face many patients, but Qin Yi spent most of his life taking care of Jin Jie. Besides Qin Yi, who else can do this?

Heavy manual workers at home

Even under the careful care of Qin Yi, Jinjie suffered from diabetes and severe constipation, because the drugs used to treat schizophrenia had certain side effects. Now, Ginger takes many kinds of medicine every day. Some medicines are taken before meals and some after meals. How long does it take to take some medicine? Qin Yi remembers them clearly, so he will give them to his son. Every morning and evening, Qin Yi will give Jinjie insulin for treating diabetes. It turns out that Qin Yi asks medical staff to give Jinjie an injection every day. However, the time for medical staff to come home cannot be fixed. Sometimes it's early and Jinjie is still sleeping, and sometimes it's late, which affects Jinjie's time to take other drugs. So Qin Yi learned to give his son an injection by himself. Can you imagine? An 85-year-old man will give his son an injection sooner or later. If Qin Yi has something to go out, he will always give his son a vaccination before going out and come back on time at night. Qin Yi also taught her daughter to give an injection to Jinjie when she was not at home.

Besides taking care of his son's medicine, Qin Yi chats with his son when he is free. Although she doesn't know if this will help her son's illness, because it can't be cured and can only be controlled by drugs. But as long as her son responds, as long as he stops being autistic, she will never be impatient. My son likes painting. Whenever he is free, Qin Yi will accompany him out to sketch. Who can do it except mother?

Everything about his son, big or small, is Qin Yi's business. Whether a friend visits or a reporter interviews at home, Qin Yi often suddenly says "I'm sorry" and then gets up to see his son. "Little brother, it's time to take medicine. It's very cold today. I'll pour you some hot water. You can't drink it when it's cold. Be careful not to knock it over! " "Little brother, eat zongzi, eat slowly, glutinous rice is not easy to digest!" "Little brother, what are you doing? Did you draw today? " ...... An 80-year-old mother takes care of her son who is nearly 60 years old, and she is earnest and loving.

Sometimes when Jin Jie comes in and interrupts the conversation, Qin Yi will apologetically say "I'm sorry" to the guests, and then wait for his son to talk. "Mom, I want to take a bath. You can help me take a bath later. " "Mom, will you wear this dress when you go out for dinner at night?" Jin Jie is tall 1.8 1 m, with a big figure, but his manner and tone of voice are a child's dependence on his mother. He speaks slowly, word for word, and sometimes only Qin Yi can understand what he says. On one occasion, Ginger knocked at the door and interrupted Qin Yi's conversation with the guests. Then he stood at the door of the room and said to Qin Yi, "Shit, shit ..." Others didn't understand what he meant and thought he wanted to shit. Qin Yi said "I'm sorry" and quickly got up and went to the bathroom. It turns out that Jin Jie has a hard stool because of constipation, so the toilet can't be flushed at all, so every time she encounters this situation, she has to find her mother. Qin Yi is going to mash the stool and flush it with water. Anyone who has seen and heard this scene with his own eyes is filled with emotion.

? After years of dependence, Jin Jie has developed the habit of relying on his mother for everything. Qin Yi's absence makes me uneasy. When Qin Yi came back, he immediately greeted him and said, "Mom, you are back." Then go back to your room. Her son's dependence on her made Qin Yi more reluctant to part with her son. As long as conditions permit, Qin Yi will take Ginger with him. Even so, it will cause her a lot of trouble, but as long as it is related to her son, Qin Yi does it all by herself and doesn't feel hard and troublesome. My son likes to eat jiaozi, so Qin Yi packs it himself and is busy most of the day. Qin Yi washed and ironed his son's clothes when he went out. He didn't want the nanny at home to do it, for fear that she might make a mistake. The nanny is only responsible for buying food and cooking, and spends most of her time in the kitchen. It's so small that Ginger drinks. As long as Ginger calls, Qin Yi immediately puts down what he is doing and walks quickly.

The hardest thing is that in the middle of the night, because Jin Jie took the medicine for constipation, it didn't work if he ate less, but he slept in bed if he ate more. In the middle of the night, when she heard Ginger crying, whether it was hot or cold, Qin Yi got up quickly and ran to her son's room. It took a lot of effort to pull his burly son up, take off his dirty clothes, scrub him clean, change him into clean clothes and send him to bed. And Qin Yi is going to change all the sheets and quilts. As for the dirty sheets and quilts, Qin Yi washes them herself, and she is embarrassed to let the nanny wash these dirty things.

So Qin Yi said wryly that she is a heavy manual worker at home. There are endless chores to do. Nanny cooks in the morning, and Qin Yi washes clothes when she is free in the morning. His own and his son's are all washed out in the sun, otherwise it will be too late for the nanny to wash them in the afternoon, and many clothes need to be ironed and the nanny can't get them. Tidy up her room, tidy up Ginger's things, and even let her buy a broken light bulb at home.

Then why not hire a competent nanny? Qin Yi's nanny is almost 70 years old, and she has been with her for many years 10, getting to know each other. The old nanny didn't want to go back to her home, and Qin Yi didn't want to change people. Because Qin Yi is often away from home, only the nanny and Ginger are left at home. If you were an unfamiliar nanny, who knows what you would do to Ginger, or what you would do. So Qin Yi would rather do what he can and do more.

Sisterhood is deep, and righteousness is heavier.

Besides her son, her 92-year-old sister is also Qin Yi's responsibility. I always knew that Qin Yi had a younger sister, Qin Wen, who was also an actress. In the film Song of Youth, Wang Xiaoyan, a college student, and Lin Hong, a female revolutionary, left a deep impression on the audience. But people don't know that they have a sister. And this elder sister, who has never been married or taken part in the work, has been borne by Qin Yi since 1946.

Sister and Qin Yi are completely different personalities. Qin Yi's family was originally a big family. His father's brother and younger brother live with several other families. I have to set three tables every day for dinner, and my family is good. But Qin Yi was particularly strong and self-reliant from an early age. /kloc-at the age of 0/6, he left home alone and embarked on a film career. My sister has been living with her parents. My sister has been weak since she was a child, with minor illnesses and pains. Just like sister Lin, she often feels sorry for herself and encounters turbulent times, so her sister has never been married. After liberation, my sister was in her early thirties. She doesn't go out often, lacks exercise and is getting worse and worse. Therefore, she is most concerned about her health and has never mentioned the idea of getting married. As a result, the days passed.

Because of personality differences, Qin Yi doesn't get along well with this sister. Qin Yi didn't get in touch with his family until eight years after he left home. At that time, Qin Yi's father had died, and her mother took her sister, brother and sister-in-law to Shanghai to take refuge in Qin Yi. After years of separation, Qin Yi separated from this congenial sister. Although, since then, everyone has been living together, but Qin Yi has been busy with work and has little contact with her sister.

Qin Yi and Qin Wen, who is six years younger than her, hit it off better. Because of her cheerful personality, although Qin was 10 years old when Qin Yi left home, after the reunion, the two sisters were unusually affectionate. The key is that they have the same hobbies, and they all love movies and plays. Thanks to Qin Yi, Qin Wencai was able to embark on the road of deduction. On one occasion, Qin Wen inadvertently confided her desire to be an actor to Qin Yi, and Qin Yi encouraged her to take regular classes first. Later, Qin Wen was admitted to Shanghai Theatre Academy for further study.

The year after the family reunion, Qin Yi married Jin Yan. She gave her old house to her brother and sister-in-law, while her mother, sister and younger sister still lived with her. Later, my sister Qin Wen went to Beijing and married someone. My mother died during the Cultural Revolution. Only my sister lives with Qin Yi at home.

My sister Qin Wen gave birth to a daughter after marriage, but both husband and wife went to work, leaving her unattended in Beijing. Qin Yi took her niece home and was taken care of by her sister until she graduated from college and went abroad. My sister is not as capable as Qin Yi, and she can do nothing. If she wants to take care of the children, at most, she won't let them starve, fall and freeze. Therefore, her son Ginger has been with Qin Yi himself, and his son is different from other children, so he doesn't trust his sister. When my sister was in her forties, she felt a little uncomfortable and began to shout that she was dying. So now Qin Yi often laughs at her, saying that she will die so early and still live to such a big age.

Although she doesn't get along well with her sister, Qin Yi never shirks the responsibility of caring for and supporting her. Two years ago, Qin Wen had a cerebral infarction in Beijing, and now he is paralyzed in bed and taken care of by his husband. Qin Yi goes to see her every time she goes to Beijing, but it's hard for her to tell. Fortunately, she still has her husband around.

However, since the death of her husband Yan Jingyu 1983, the focus of Qin Yi's life has completely shifted to her son and sister. She is my sister's only relative, and she has no wife herself. The two sisters are old friends, and their feelings have gradually become harmonious over the years. Although my sister didn't value Qin Yi's care for her over the years and never said a word of thanks, Qin Yi didn't care. She just kept doing what she thought she should do.

10 Years ago, Qin Yi moved to her present place, and she bought the house next door and herself at the same time. The two bedrooms and one living room next door are for my sister and the nanny specially invited for her, and the three bedrooms and one living room here are for my son and nanny.

Sister Qin Yi is responsible for all her living expenses because she has no job and no labor insurance. My sister has severe osteoporosis, frequent fractures and several hospitalizations. Every time I was hospitalized, my sister didn't want to go to the general ward because it was too noisy and dirty. So Qin Yi had to send her to the private room ward, and the daily ward fee was more than 1000 yuan, and there was a special nurse to look after her 24 hours a day. A few years ago, Qin Yi also hired a medical staff to take care of her sister at home every day. Qin Yi is never stingy with her monthly salary of15,600 yuan. Qin Yi bought her a wheelchair to facilitate her sister's activities. Although my sister is not seriously ill now, she has some common diseases of the elderly, and the monthly fixed drug fee is more than 1000. My sister usually cooks three meals a day in Qin Yi and sends them to my sister's house next door. But my sister has a big appetite, eating twice as much as Qin Yi. Qin Yi often gives her sister some pocket money of 300 to 500 yuan, so that she can find a nanny to buy any snacks she wants.

This is how Qin Yi takes care of her sister. Finally, once, my sister said to the nanny in the hospital ward, "I am very grateful to have this sister." Even if I have my own children, I may not be able to treat me like her. "

You have a heavy burden.

It seems that life in Qin Yi is not easy, not only physically and mentally, but also economically. Although Qin Yi's income is not small, its burden is not light. My son's monthly fixed medical expenses will cost one or two thousand yuan. It does not include the treatment fee for going to the hospital. Not long ago, Jin Jie fell ill, underwent intestinal surgery and was hospitalized for 12 days. Because Ginger needs 24-hour care, Qin Yi has to take care of Ginger with her daughter and nanny. Only the daily ward fee is 1500 yuan. Plus other expenses, it cost more than 30 thousand this time. What Qin Yi fears most now is that his son or sister is ill again, and it will cost tens of thousands of yuan every time he is hospitalized. But the reality is that with the growth of age, the probability of hospitalization is getting higher and higher.

Qin Gui once said to his son, "Little brother, what will you do if your mother dies?" The younger brother looked at Qin Yi, shook his head and said, "Mom can't die!" He paused and suddenly said, "My mother died and so did I!" "She looked at her son's chaotic eyes and thought about his future, which made her sad. Qin Yi said that sometimes I wish I died before them, and I would leave them a lot of money. What should I do if I get sick? So, how helpless Qin Yi should be!

Qin Yi's own age is not small, although he looks so energetic and young, but after all, he is so hard, will his body really be painless? Of course not. Qin Yi has been suffering from lumbar disc herniation, and his knee often hurts, but he didn't go to the hospital, just got a plaster cast. Sometimes I see her carrying luggage and walking lightly. In fact, she is suffering, but she still keeps smiling. She is so strong. She thinks it's her own business. If she can bear it herself, don't let anyone know, which makes people worry.

Since you are old, why not rest at home and often take part in various activities? Qin Yi doesn't want to rest? However, some work and meetings are her responsibilities, and she can't shirk them; Some invitations are out of human feelings, and she is embarrassed to refuse; Some activities will be properly paid, and for the sake of two people in the family, you can go. Therefore, she never stops.

In June 5438+last year 10, her husband Jin Yan's nephew and niece came from South Korea. They stayed in Shanghai for many days, but they were just catching up with Qin Yi to go out. Qin Yi felt sorry when she came back, so she asked them where they wanted to go to play, and she stayed with them all the time. Unexpectedly, both husband and wife want to go to Huangshan. Qin Yi had no choice but to accompany them to Huangshan Mountain. Although there is a cable car going up the mountain now, to go down the mountain, you have to take the rugged mountain road of 15 km. The nephew and his wife praised her for her good spirit and quick legs and feet, but who knows that she just endured the pain in her knees and walked such a long mountain road. After all, it is 85 years old, and even young people may not be able to keep smiling like her. She didn't want them to see that she was uncomfortable, for fear that they would feel uncomfortable.

Qin Yi is such a person. She meets and overcomes suffering with great resilience and always takes her time. She showed all her beauty to others, but silently endured all her sufferings and buried them in her heart.