Chen Li, who came out at the age of 24, fell in love with a man at the age of 25. Why did she break up with her girlfriend?

Chen Li, who came out at the age of 24, fell in love with a man at the age of 25. Why did she break up with her girlfriend?

Chen Li, born in 1990, is a mainland folk singer. Whether she likes folk songs or not, I believe she has heard Chen Li's "Wonderful Ability Song" or "Like Night" in various music softwares or in shopping malls. 20 14, 24-year-old Chen zaiweibo is openly with him. A year later, she was with Chen, who was also a member of the band.

As a topic of great concern now, LGBT has also made more and more people realize the phenomenon of homosexuality. We all say that love has no gender, we have the right to love lovers of the opposite sex, and we also have the right to love people of the same sex, regardless of gender.

The essence is love, and the difference is only the degree of commonality. Perhaps what we have always seen or accepted is that men love women and women love men. Love between the same sex is relatively rare, and it was even considered taboo in feudal times. However, with the progress of society, people's ideas are constantly changing, and the public's ability to accept is getting higher and higher, and they know how to respect others more and more.

As a public figure, Chen Li suffered more from coming out in public and received more opposition and criticism than ordinary people, but he did so bravely, which not only gave his lover a sense of identity and trust, but also inspired more LGBT groups to bravely pursue what they really wanted. In the news, we can often see that some LGBT groups are ashamed of their sexual orientation and dare not express their feelings to their family and friends, and some people are afraid to admit that they like their homosexuality all their lives, hide it in their hearts, or marry the opposite sex to hide it, or die alone.

Chen Li came out at the age of 24 and fell in love with a boy at the age of 25. No problem. Normal heterosexual love will break up, and there will be new lovers after breaking up, but it seems? Normal? And the old love and the new love are two kinds of personalities, and they don't look alike? Abnormal? But think about it, when you see a cute and handsome girl, you will say that you are good-looking and like it, and when you see a tall and handsome boy, you will feel like it.

Only in different degrees, love has no steps. Whether a boy falls in love with a boy, a girl falls in love with a girl, or, like Chen Li, loves both a girl and a boy, they all like to be together according to their own inner thoughts, and it is inappropriate to fall in love with others after separation. There's nothing wrong with that. Don't care too much about gender, appearance or other external labels.

For stars or public figures, their words and deeds will have great repercussions, and they will receive different voices, good and bad, as long as someone is encouraged to some extent and receives positive energy. At the same time, don't pay too much attention to other people's private lives, let alone criticize or even abuse other people's lifestyles. Living a good life and making yourself happy is more important than anything else.