Before getting married, my mother-in-law said not to marry him. After the marriage, her family was demolished, and her mother-in-law proposed to marry a suite. What should I do?

My husband and I met in college. He is my senior, one year older than me, and belongs to a club. We decided to fall in love soon after we met. We all live in the same place, but he lives in the city center and I live in a village in the city. The journey takes about 30 minutes!

At the university graduation ceremony, he told me that he wanted to marry me and spend the rest of his life with me. That day was probably the happiest day in my life, and soon our marriage was put on the agenda. The prospective mother-in-law was quite satisfied with me and told me that the bride price was 654.38+0.5 million, and the house and car were all ready. At that time, she also told me that it was hard enough for them to raise you so big, and I was moved to tears.

Good things always come together. Just when we got engaged, my mother's family actually planned the demolition, but because the house area was too small, my parents only wanted two sets of demolition houses with two rooms that were not too big after careful consideration, and the rest were compensated, one for my brother to get married and the other for their own living, and all the compensation was given to me. I didn't want it then. After all, the house is small and parents need money to decorate it, but my mother said that my daughter and son are the same, and she asked me to save some money and buy my own set, so only my parents and I knew about it, and even my husband didn't tell me.

My mother-in-law was very excited when she learned that our house had been demolished, but the conditions she later proposed surprised me. She said that since the house was demolished, her daughter and son should be treated fairly, so she had to marry a suite before agreeing to get married. And this matter was mentioned in front of my parents, saying that what age it is now, it won't be patriarchal! My mother looked terrible at that time. In order not to embarrass my parents, I directly stood up and told her that my daughter and my son are the same now, but after my brother got married, he would take our family name after giving birth to a child! If you agree that I will take my surname after giving birth, you don't have to say that I will directly ask my parents to give me the house!

My mother-in-law looked pale after I finished, or my husband said it was all a joke. Don't take it seriously! My mother-in-law didn't speak for a long time. In order not to make the scene so embarrassing, I told my mother-in-law that my parents actually didn't treat me badly at all. Although they didn't give me a house, they also gave me a part of the resettlement fee, and I will get it back. As our future life fund, I didn't say how much, but I can see that my mother-in-law is much more comfortable!

In short, my mother-in-law is not unreasonable. If my mother-in-law's house is demolished and she wants to give it to her daughter, of course I agree. It's all the meat that fell from her body, and everyone hurts.