Will you take your in-laws out?

I can't remember why and when I had this idea.

I only know that my parents don't like going out for a walk, and time is not allowed. On the contrary, my in-laws especially like to go out for a walk. Although they used to do manual labor in the countryside, they are also very open-minded when they come to live with us in the city. They are not that embarrassed, and they don't seem to be in a place where they don't belong. This is rare. On weekends, they will go for a walk in the park by themselves. In the evening, they danced square dance and had a good time.

Perhaps out of gratitude to my parents-in-law, I also want to satisfy my little intention of taking my parents out for a walk. Although I didn't bring up my parents, I don't know what they think of my idea. After all, some old people still care. Fortunately, my mother said that they don't like to go out to play anyway, and there are many things at home. My in-laws like to go out and have no chance to get out of their own space, so let's go. Therefore, without informing my husband (he is usually too busy to spend time with his children, let alone his parents), I booked a train ticket, hotel and itinerary, and started a short stay in Zhou Bianyou on Friday when the children finally had their summer vacation. Because I am a small wage earner, I support my family and basically have moonlight, so I chose the bullet train, and the air ticket was too expensive, so I gave up. Besides, the scenery is on the road, and the old man hasn't taken the bullet train yet, which is a small experience.

Although it is not something to show off, it is just to satisfy the small vanity of the old people. After all, people around me have never seen the little friends who personally take their in-laws out to play (my world is relatively small), and it is a little happy that my daughter-in-law is willing to do so. It is also a "small world" to walk out of the fence. Of course, at the big social level, it is a bit funny to dare to list such trivial things, and it seems to be suspected of flaunting itself. However, this is what I really want to do. Filial piety to parents-in-law, many people do much better than me. Everyone has his own expression, either giving money directly or personally serving food, clothing, housing and transportation. In my opinion, it's best not to conflict with the elderly, and digest whatever is different. In this way, everyone will get along calmly, so why not? Of course, to be able to do this, you need your own understanding. Consider the overall situation. What could be better than "home and everything"?

Taking my in-laws out for a walk also has my own selfishness, that is, giving myself a chance to lead by example and educate my children. Of course, such opportunities can be seen everywhere in daily life, but it is not common to go out for a few days and "stick" together all day. Let the children take their grandparents to see the outside world, see how wonderful the outside world and our world are, and then tell the elderly about the convenience brought by the Internet, which is also their own exercise. Leisure travel, everyone is in a relaxed state of mind, and the conversation is more in-depth. The old man who seldom opens his heart, looking at antiques, seems to see his hard childhood, telling stories to his granddaughter, with tears in his eyes and laughter. Granddaughters seem to understand what grandpa said, and they should also understand why grandparents want them to cherish food and study hard.

Times are not easy, and it is not easy to feed a family and raise children. This is the case now, especially before.

In fact, people around us will have some minor conflicts with their parents-in-law more or less, and so did they at the beginning. Slowly, after some running-in, I know more about each other, and I probably know that the reason why a person becomes what he is now is related to the environment in which he grew up and the people and things he came into contact with. As long as a person's general direction is good, such as kindness and sincerity, other small specialties, such as small vanity and small play, are the icing on the cake of life. Life is different, everyone is unique, and no one comes for whom. Therefore, knowing this, we can probably understand that the encounter between people, whether with husbands, children, parents-in-law, parents-in-law, is a kind of fate. If you live in the present, you will enjoy it. Don't hurt your feelings for a little thing, because the harm you bring is not the result you want.

However, this cannot be understood by taking the elderly out for a trip. Some old people are unwilling to let go of their bodies and things. Some young people are unwilling to make do or not. Can only be deadlocked with each other and go their separate ways. This is also a choice, a different way of life. It's just that when the other person is willing to take a better road and make a choice, he might as well try to change his mind and look at the other side of things. Maybe it won't change anything in the end, at least I tried.

But after the trip, my parents-in-law are more willing to help me share the housework than before, and my daughters are more considerate of my mother's difficulties and help clean up the cooking. My husband cooked dinner at home early and picked us up at the station. It seems that I have benefited the most.