What about the wedding money?

1. Excuse me, what is the matter of "pressing money" for marriage?

First of all, because of the dowry, both men and women had to negotiate the conditions through the matchmaker (that is, the introducer) before they could get engaged and get married.

First, the woman offered to ask the man how much dowry to prepare. The central meaning is of course the word "money". Then, the man tried to lower the price offered by the woman. Of course, some marriages are ruined because of the problem of more money and less money, and they are exhausted.

In fact, the woman asks the man for a dowry. In the final analysis, it is to make the dowry decent. After all, it is immoral to really sell your daughter to make money, which will make the villagers laugh all their lives. Therefore, generally speaking, the money that can't be used up, including the money that you paste in, will be "pressed" by parents in mahogany boxes, which are called "lucky money", "pressed" to the husband's family with their daughters and "reflected" to the husband's family.

2. What is wedding news?

Pressing the bed, also called pressing the happy bed and pressing the new bed, is one of the marriage customs of the Han nationality in China.

The night before a young man and a young woman get married, the groom's family will let the old man with two children make the bed, and then the groom will let one or two younger brothers sleep with him in the new bed. The person who presses the bed is also qualified, and no one can press it casually.

First of all, the person who presses the bed must be a young man younger than the groom, usually his own brother, or an uncle or cousin. If there is no such candidate within the range of relatives, the groom can also find friends and close classmates in the same village.

The second condition of pressing the bed must be unmarried youth. In addition, according to Han folklore, the bride's bed has aura, and sleeping can cure all diseases.

After sleeping in the bride's bed, the back and leg pain will recover immediately. In addition to inviting boys aged seventeen or eighteen to press the bed, some places also pay attention to inviting boys aged four or five to press the bed, which is considered from the perspective of continuing children and grandchildren.

The boy who presses the bed, like the boy who presses the sedan chair, is a symbol of the bride's birth after marriage. If a boy accidentally urinates on a new bed while pressing the bed, it is auspicious and makes people happier.

The pressing time varies from place to place. Some have to wait a day or two, and some have to wait five or six days after the wedding.

3. What if the wedding doesn't pay?

Maybe some places or people don't know this detail, so you have to see if the man knows it. Of course, if he doesn't know, forget it, because he doesn't know. If he knows, ask him why he didn't press it, because he forgot. If he forgets, he can make up for it. If he can't make it up, it's the only way. That's just a small problem. It's true to live a good life in the future. Now that we are married, just because these little things are not what you want. It's not that important The key is to see what the bride thinks about it. The bride can imagine that it is too difficult for you not to marry him without giving you money. If you still want to get married, don't care too much, it will make everyone unhappy. On the contrary, if this is the reason,

But I don't think money is important. What matters is where you put each other's feelings.

4. What about the bride price before marriage?

This is an article in my QQ space, which may be helpful to you. Please refer to!

The original intention and amount of bride price

First, the original intention of the bride price:

When getting married, the man needs to give the woman a gift, which varies in amount. Its meaning is different. In the early days, gifts were promised, as well as handkerchiefs and personal belongings. Expressed the consent of both parties and a lifelong commitment. After entering the private ownership society, marriage became a business, bride price became a deposit, and women became materials. In buying and selling marriage, the bride price represents a woman's value, which is directly called the value bride price in some regions and ethnic groups. After liberation, the marriage law explicitly abolished the marriage of sale, but it continued in some places and gave new content. That is to say, after the bride price is given, the engagement is formally concluded, and it is generally not allowed to go back on our word. If the woman reneges, the bride price will be returned to the man. If the man goes back on his word, the bride price will generally not be refunded. The amount of bride price depends on the requirements of the woman's family and the economic situation of the man's family.

Second, the amount of bride price varies: it also includes gold and silver jewelry, cars, wedding rooms and other physical objects.

This has little to do with the region. There is not much difference between cities and rural areas. Start drawing lucky pictures.

Third, is the sky-high bride price an old injury?

Now the bride price is sky-high. Not just eating old ones? If you calculate carefully, you will know that a set of wedding rooms (two rooms and one living room, 80㎡) are all around one million, not to mention the bride price. How many years does the average worker's family need? Girls' families can also count for themselves. How much money does she have? I mean, my parents are old and have to support my grandparents. To put it bluntly, how much can you sell by breaking bones and boiling them into oil? Not chew the old man, but chew the old man. How to raise children to prevent old age? !

Fourth, raise your arms and shout:

In recent years, with the constant fermentation of the phenomenon of comparison, the bride price is also desperately climbing! This is not only because of the woman, but also because the man shows off his wealth and is very ostentatious. Some men don't live up to expectations. I'm afraid they can't find a wife and try their best to raise money. However, there are also men who really love each other without spending money. What's more, the woman also accompanied the luxury car and the wedding room! This is true love? Still love money! ? Call on the whole society to * * * and this bad habit of selling marriage in disguise!