There are many formal parties. Why is the reunion the most hypocritical?

What is the purpose of reunion? It's for friendship, for the feelings of classmates, for that initial heart. Are there any real feelings at the class reunion now? A few people do, and most people may not.

First, colleagues have changed careers for a long time, not to mention classmates. Classmate * * * has studied for three to five years. After graduation, we don't see each other often, but we get together for thirty or forty years. The youth of teenagers has changed a lot. When you say you know each other, you are called an old classmate. I don't know if it's true or not. Everyone sat around and drank three cups before the truth came out. In those days, they were all heroes, bragging about how rich they were. The weak will no longer get together, the strong will get together, and various schemes will emerge one after another. Everyone has an abacus in his heart. You said that the party is not a party, and you know your own clothes.

Second, the reunion has gone bad. I used to be very excited at every class reunion, but when we met, after a short period of excitement, I felt that I couldn't find a topic and the scene gradually cooled down, so many people began to brag and tell jokes through alcohol, and the scenes seemed to climax again and again. It's actually an illusion. So I seldom attend class reunion now, and in fact, few people organize it. It's ok to get together once in a while, but it's a waste of money to get together often.

Third, the road is different, and there is no topic of * * *. After graduation, students in different regions, different industries, different units and different environments. Because of many differences, they are flying in different directions. Yes, the good wind, with its power, sent me to the sky and the peak of my life on the stool. Yes: I can't find a place through the iron shoes. If you can't get it, you can't get it, and you are frustrated. Although most of them worked hard in different industries and departments, they all experienced the ups and downs of their lives, and finally fell into the ordinary and returned to nature.

Fourth, isn't the reunion just an exchange contest? Don't blow him a vow of eternal love, don't blow him a landslide, it's not a white meeting. In fact, it is a good thing to miss the past. It is also human nature to look for past thoughts and memories. It is a good thing to chat in the past, ask long questions and ask warm questions when we meet. It is a good thing to talk about naughty childhood and absurd childhood. It's a pity that there was dust on the ground when we met. It's true, the east wind blows and advocates cow force. Who's afraid of who?

I have graduated for many years. A few years before graduation, I attended class reunion almost every year, and I felt that our friendship was still very deep. Slowly, maybe everyone is getting busier and busier, or really getting stranger. There is no class reunion now. At most, I will get together alone with one or two students who are having a good time.