Is Ning Hao real?

Originally I didn’t want to write this article, but after something like this happened, no matter what, this blog won’t be what it used to be. It is impossible for me to write with my original mood, and it is impossible for you to read it with your original mood. So since the results are the same, why is there any need to explain? The end is the end, I don't care what kind of gesture it takes.

The reason why I did not close this blog immediately was just to give everyone a channel to vent. I never delete messages, I don’t bother to do that, and I’m too lazy to do that. Anyone who thinks I will stay here and delete messages, you value your dirty words too much, and you also value my precious time too much. At the end of the day, I don't really care what other people say.

Actually, looking back now, what is there? It's just a farce. We ordinary people write blogs just to entertain ourselves and others, and we are a bit self-pitying and narcissistic, but others look at us with a magnifying glass. If you have the time, why don't you do some research? Of course I was sad at the beginning, but gradually, seeing all kinds of people, dressed up in battle, appearing on the stage with all kinds of faces, and all kinds of reactions, it was like watching a big show and appreciating the beauty of human nature. performance. I've learned to stay out of it.

I believe that three days after the incident occurred, everyone will no longer be so deeply touched. Those so-called likes are just like that. With one blow, they disappear with the wind, disappear into smoke, or even turn into anger. In this case, you don't need to see it as so precious, and I can't bear it. Whether we are true or false, we have nothing to do with you.

Those pictures and music are actually very simple. I think the ones taken by others look better, so I used them. I thought other people sang beautifully and their voices were very similar to ours, so I used them. How can it be so complicated, how can there be any conspiracy theory? The ones we took ourselves were not that good, so we left it to ourselves to see. Now it seems, isn't this the most correct approach?

I never like to explain. After the so-called evidence comes out, you will naturally have your own thoughts and judgments. What you are waiting for me to say now is just to confirm your own judgments. I respect your judgment, and I don’t want to change other people’s minds or win anyone’s support. That’s not my style. But how could it be possible to say that I was making everything up? Do I have to make it up even if I drink a cup of coffee? Have we never been anywhere and stayed at home all day? Don’t we have a real life? How ridiculous.

In fact, if a blog is so public, it is no longer possible to write whatever you want about yourself. I also can’t remember which articles I really wanted to write and which ones I wrote just for the sake of writing. But it doesn’t matter anymore, at least from now on, there will no longer be such a problem. I can write whatever I want, without any aura of perfection or indulging in the glitz of the Internet. What obligation do I have to show my so-called real life to strangers on the Internet? Facts have proved that many people have no good intentions at all. I am very fortunate that although this incident caused a stir on the Internet, it did not affect our real life at all. Otherwise, I would be really sorry for him.

That’s it, I have apologized to the person who should apologize and have been forgiven. However, I will just ignore those people who keep getting entangled, using the banner of justice, but have sinister intentions and want to see jokes. I understand your vicious and despicable mentality, but you just enjoy the pleasure of trampling others to death on the Internet. I won't satisfy you. Even under the current circumstances, you can all accuse me from the so-called moral high ground, so what? My pride is still hopeless!

Originally, Haohao asked me not to respond for the time being. I have always listened to him, and I also know that his judgment is always correct. This time, though, I was deeply tired and bored, and just wanted it to be over as soon as possible.

"My Words" - Hao

How should I put it, this matter is really depressing. I didn't bother to care about it at first, so I told him not to care about it. Is there anything easy to explain? Some things get worse the more they are explained. Just keep it like this, whatever you like! However, later, I felt quite happy again when I saw some people's crazy insults, vicious attacks, wanton ridicule, and the desire to kill him and then be happy.

Because of this incident, Ning Ning became a news figure in entertainment gossip. Although it is not a good thing, from an entertainment perspective, isn't it quite interesting? Of course, Ning Ning was still very sad. She didn't even think about her food, so she almost shed tears! He just lacks a sense of entertainment.

I have long said that Ning Ning can be a columnist, and I can be just a reader. If you don’t read the article carefully, who is to blame? He even said, "Those unfinished time will restore you and me to our truest appearance in the cruelest way." You didn't understand it at the time, right? What's more, his column is so thoughtful, with both music and beautiful pictures, and yet he doesn't charge you a penny, and he doesn't get a penny of contribution fees. I pay all the overtime pay. What's wrong with you? I still feel wronged because all his free time belongs to me!

Ning Ning just processes and polishes the trivial matters of our lives, and writes them in a romantic and beautiful way. Life is just firewood, rice, oil and salt. If you don’t add some ingredients, what’s so good about it? True and false, false and true, so why be more true? On average, people lie three times every ten minutes. When they meet, they smile, then turn around and call the other person a SB. Have you never done this? You don’t have to wear a mask or clothes every day, you are real and naked every day? So many people come to read his articles. If he writes everything realistically, what if his classmates or colleagues see it?

Besides, you said he cheated on your feelings? What relationship did he lie to you? Didn't he say that he had leukemia and was dying, making you worried and heartbroken about him, and even raising funds for charity? His blog is clean, without any ads, and he didn’t open a Taobao store to sell things to make money from you. To say that he gets his salary from Hexun is even more ridiculous. We don’t recommend stocks or predict the market outlook, so what kind of shills are we? What’s the point of an emotional life blog for a financial website like Hexun? What he gave was his time and energy, what did you lose? As for being such a victim and condemning him?

Ning writes about beautiful things, which exist in our lives and in his heart. He has a good taste for light, shadow and music, and an eye for discovering beauty. He is just a little vain and a little paranoid about perfectionism, but he is not as bad as you say. Those who say those vicious and hurtful words and clamor for an apology, do you prove how noble you are? Even if he wanted to apologize, it would be to those who once really liked him and still couldn't bear to blame him. To those who immediately turned against him, gloated at his misfortune, and beat him up, what did he have to apologize for?

You may like the perfect Ning in the story, but what I like is the real Ning.

Please stop attacking with human flesh and ginseng. I hope you won’t hold on to it or implicate others.

Ning may appear, or may not appear again. In any case, on his behalf, I would like to say thank you to those friends who still care about and protect him. If he appears again, it will be because of you, not because of anything else. If he no longer appears, then please forget him, or remember the good things he once brought.

――Hao――

Some things need to be judged by yourself, and I can’t explain them clearly