How do mature men chat with women?

First, men with high emotional intelligence will joke. You know, especially when men just meet women, once they have a boring and blunt question-and-answer dialogue, it is easy for women to lose patience and interest. When we meet for the first time, men must leave a deep impression on women and leave your shadow in their minds. Therefore, men who can make women happy will fascinate women. So some people will joke, not say some low-level jokes or some explicit words, but really joke. They will express a sentence in another form, perhaps in a different word or in a different tone, but the final effect is absolutely beyond doubt. Second, men with high emotional intelligence can play routines. As we all know, since ancient times, the true feelings can't be kept, and routines can often win people's hearts. Sometimes, people must not be too rigid. They must learn to keep women's appetite, arouse women's curiosity, attract women to approach you actively, and have the desire to chat with you actively, instead of always boring questions and answers, chatting and falling asleep. Men with real high EQ know how to use women's curiosity, grasp women's different emotions and sell the right things at the right time. For example, when you are going to say something to a woman, you can throw a fresh part first, and then prepare some small routines, bets, relationships and so on when you arouse women's curiosity! Finally, even if women are not interested in this matter, more topics are touched because of this topic. Third, men with high emotional intelligence will be very interested. Many men know that the pursuit of a woman is by stalking and beating. But you know what? This kind of behavior is the most fall in price in women's eyes. When a woman doesn't like talking to you, the more you pester her, the worse her impression of you will be, even disgust, boredom, and maybe even directly black you. Therefore, men should know that it is right to pester and beat, but they should also know how to seize opportunities and learn to be interesting. What is the inside story? When a woman doesn't want to talk to you or has something important to do, you should learn to shut up and give her some time and space. Especially when chatting, two people obviously have no topic, so don't try to find a topic. You know, once the topic is not found correctly, it will not only fail to achieve the original effect, but will only make the relationship between you very bad. Fourth, men with high emotional intelligence will be very wise. There is a saying in China, that is, to see the needle, know yourself and know yourself, and fight every battle. If a man wants to pursue a woman, he must first understand what kind of man this woman likes. She likes to be mature, so you should try to be mature. She likes gentleness, and you should be as gentle as possible. She likes to be direct, so don't be a bitch. In the early days of understanding, it is quite difficult to maintain the relationship between two people. Maybe it's just a bad word, and the other party will directly hack you. For example, a woman is very simple, and she asks you to go out. Then some men directly treat her as a child and tell her about the weather, temperature and all kinds of chatter. Then in the end, not only will it not have the initial effect, on the contrary, it will only make women feel that you are really a mother-in-law, unlike men. The best reply and a simple and sincere greeting will be enough for mature men to chat with women. In case of emergency, if you can calm down and think, and then calmly make things clear, you will leave a stable and impulsive impression on the listener, thus increasing others' trust in you. 2, small things, humorously said. In particular, some kind reminders, said in a joke, will not make listeners feel stiff, they will not only accept your reminders, but also enhance their intimacy. 3. If you are not sure, speak cautiously. For those things you are not sure about, if you don't say it, others will think you are hypocritical; If you can say it strictly, people will think you are a trustworthy person. Don't talk nonsense about things that didn't happen. People hate people who make much ado about nothing. If you never speculate or talk nonsense, others will think you are mature, educated and conscientious. Don't talk nonsense about what you can't do. As the saying goes, "Without Jin Gangzuan, there would be no porcelain". If you don't easily promise what you can't do, it will make the listener feel that you are a person who "keeps his word" and is willing to believe you. 6. You can't say hurtful words. Don't use words to hurt others, especially between close people. Don't say anything that hurts others. This will make them feel that you are a kind person and help to maintain and enhance their feelings. 7, sad things, don't say it when you see people. When people are sad, they all have the desire to talk, but if you talk to others, it will easily make the listener feel too stressed, suspicious and alienated. At the same time, it will give people the impression that they don't think about others and want to pass on the pain to others. 8. Speak other people's affairs carefully. Everyone needs a safe distance, and not commenting and spreading other people's affairs easily will make people feel safe in communication. 9. Do your own thing and listen to what others say. Listening to outsiders' opinions on your own affairs can give people a modest impression; Second, people will think you are a reasonable person. 10, listen more and talk less about respect. Older people often don't like young people to comment too much on their own affairs. If young people talk too much, they will think that you are not a respectful, modest and studious person. 1 1. Tell me about couples. Between husband and wife, what they are most afraid of when they encounter something is to blame each other, and to discuss with each other will play the role of "affection" and enhance the feelings of husband and wife. 12, about children, enlighten and say. Especially adolescent children are very rebellious. Taking a gentle and firm attitude to enlighten them can not only make children feel good about you, but also make them willing to be friends with you, and can also play a role in persuasion.