Borrowing money from a stingy boyfriend, he said he wanted interest.

I have heard a saying, "A man who is willing to spend money for you may not love you, but if a man is never willing to spend money for you, he must not love you." Unfortunately, my boyfriend is the second kind.

Before Yu, I didn't have any emotional experience. I am a little introverted. I always hope to meet a perfect love, and then live a quiet and happy life with my prince charming. Although I just graduated not long ago, I am lucky to find a good job with a good salary and can live independently, but I still long for a warm and solid arm to rely on. When I first met Yu Ji, he really gave me this feeling.

He and Yu Ji met at a friend's party. Many people went there that day. I have been sitting quietly in the corner watching everyone busy, with a shallow smile on my face. I don't know why, but I always feel a pair of eyes staring at me, but I can't find the owner of that eye by scanning the crowd casually.

A few days later, I received a strange phone call. It was a strange man's voice, which was very magnetic. He introduced himself that his name was Yu Ji. He met me at the party the other day. I racked my brains and finally remembered that there seems to be such a person. Yu Ji invited me to have dinner together at night. I hesitated, but I couldn't resist his repeated invitation. Finally, I agreed. That day, he took me to a western restaurant.

Yuji's education is not high. He just graduated from high school, probably because he came out to work early. His life experience is very rich. He has done a lot of work, worked as a car washer, sold insurance and sold it. Now he has started a small company of his own. I hear it's well done. His "legendary" struggle experience made me have a strong interest and affection for him. Yu Ji is still humorous, and her mind seems to be full of endless jokes, which makes me laugh. That day, we ate, chatted and had a good time.

Since then, I have received messages from Yu Ji every day. Although it is only a simple greeting and concern, it tells me to be dry in autumn, drink more water, remind me that the weather may change, and remember to bring rain gear, but it makes me feel particularly warm. Unconsciously, I began to reply seriously, expecting every message from him. ...

I fell in love with concubine Yu. Love should be a sweet and happy thing, but the longer I spend with Yu Ji, the more depressed I am. How can I put it? Yuji is very stingy and haggles with me for everything. The way of calculation makes me feel that I have no place in his heart.

For example, this time he pays the bill, and next time he will try to make me pay the bill. It's easier when you get familiar with it later. I don't even bother to make excuses. I either wait for my bill with a smile, or simply say to me, "Last time I invited you, this time you will pay the bill." I never thought that my boyfriend would invite me to dinner on a date, but his haggling makes me very uncomfortable. Women's private words (//Sifang dialect)

For example, it is normal for lovers to give me gifts on holidays, but I have been in love with Yu Ji for a year. He didn't send me anything, even a bunch of flowers, for Christmas, Valentine's Day and Qixi. Well, even if he is right, these festivals are boring. They are all excuses for businessmen to try their best to save money from the pockets of ordinary people. Let's not be cheated. Then he should give me a birthday present, right? But I still haven't received anything, even he wasn't with me that day. Although I am not a material girl and earn enough money for myself, the gifts my boyfriend gave me are always different from those I bought. In my opinion, this is a sign of love. I often want to buy him a dress when I buy it for myself, but why can't he do it? During the Spring Festival this year, I took Yuji back to my hometown to meet my parents. He left empty-handed. At my reminder, he bought a carton of cigarettes and a bag of fruit. Whether I really don't understand or pretend not to understand, I don't understand and I can't see through it.

For example, at the beginning of this year, I needed money badly because of something at home. I haven't worked long and I don't have much savings. I was short of 5000 yuan, so I borrowed money from Yu Ji. He hesitated. Later, he lent me the money, but he not only asked me to write an iou, but even asked me to pay him the interest from the bank. At that moment, my heart froze in the hot summer. Only 5000 yuan. Even if I borrow it from my friends, they won't ask me for interest.