Don't look at your parents when you are poor. Why can't you go back to your parents when you are married and have no money?

There are all kinds of proverbs in rural areas, which are catchy and easy to remember, and because they are of great guiding significance to people's lives, they have been passed down to the present.

These proverbs also cover a wide range, including agricultural technology, building taboos, speculating about the future weather, and many of them are about the world. For example, the proverb "People are poor, don't look after their parents" is one of the typical proverbs about the world.

It means that if a married daughter has a bad life, she should go back to her family less often. In the past, people thought that when a girl got married, she became someone else's family. Although the married girl lived in her parents' home for more than 2 years, she became a husband's family after getting married. When she returned to her parents' home, she was no longer as comfortable as before, just like a guest.

If a married girl has a good life after marriage, she will be prosperous when she returns to her parents' home. If her life is not very good, her parents will have to put money into it to help her daughter live.

If it's okay without a brother, others won't say anything. If there is a brother in her family, it will arouse the dissatisfaction of her sister-in-law and sister-in-law. After a long time, it will also lead to family conflicts, and even lead to old age and death.

Therefore, people use the phrase "people are poor, don't look after their parents' family" to warn married girls that if they are not satisfied with their married life, they should go back to their parents' family less, so as not to cause conflicts among their parents.

In fact, there are many bad relationships between aunts and sisters-in-law. The reason is that married girls not only don't bring gifts when they go back to their parents' homes frequently, but also take things from their parents' homes in small packages when they leave, which will lead to dissatisfaction of their sisters-in-law and sisters-in-law. Therefore, if girls with brothers and sisters-in-law, they should bring more gifts when they go back to their parents' homes, which will satisfy their sisters-in-law and make their parents happy.