How should I deal with my wife's infidelity?

What is the best way to deal with wife's infidelity? Let's see how to deal with this problem when we find out that our wife is cheating.

First, how to deal with the wife's derailment.

1. Consider whether self-psychology can be balanced.

It really hurts my feelings about cheating. This kind of thing will mean the denial of a relationship, the psychological collapse of the other party, and the original feeling of trust and attachment will become a joke. For such a question, it is actually a verbal forgiveness. In fact, it is very difficult to overcome psychological barriers. If it can't be overcome, it means endless quarrels and cold war. So we must consider whether we can balance these unwilling and angry emotions.

2. Self-reflection

In most marriages, this question of principle is actually the responsibility of the betrayed party. Maybe you didn't do well in some aspects, which led to her emotional loss or other aspects. Think about whether you need to correct it.

Examine feelings

Take your feelings seriously. For many families who are in free love, even if they have an affair, there are many feelings, so you must think about it, whether you are really willing to give up your feelings for so many years, and whether you really can't forgive each other's behavior, even if they already know that they regret it and correct it. Do you want to give each other a chance? If you have feelings, you can actually consider having a good talk with each other. Divorce is not the final result.

Second, what should I do if my wife is derailed?

1. Divorce

Needless to say, many men who are cuckolded are unbearable and furious, especially some male chauvinists. Such men hate women who are not chaste, and even if they fall in love, they will not condone the damage caused by this breakthrough principle, so basically this kind of divorce is divorce.

2. Don't get divorced

Men who don't divorce generally have a certain tolerance. Most importantly, most of these men put family first, because they will consider all aspects of the family and know that the impact of divorce may be multifaceted. It doesn't mean that divorce is just a problem between the two of you, so if you think too much and worry too much, you will gradually calm down. If the other party can get lost, you can live a happy life, so there is a great possibility of not getting divorced. Of course, it depends on the attitude of the woman.

Third, how to deal with the wife's affair?

1. Be nice to her

If you really want to save her heart, in fact, women are really easy to coax, that is, being kind to her unconditionally will definitely make her change of heart. After all, getting your love is what she wants most, and others' love may be just because it is lacking here.

Know how to be romantic

Most married men don't know romance, but for girls, they all like romance, because they can feel men's concern from it, and girls are emotional animals, so giving something different from time to time can make them love you.