Lu Yu asked Sun Yue: How much is our weight difference? Sun Yue's reply was a slap in the face. What did he say?

Lu Yu, a famous TV presenter, and Sun Yue, a famous crosstalk performer.

As we all know, Lu Yu is notoriously thin, as thin as a bamboo pole, with thin arms and legs. He is always? Paper man? Image.

And Sun Yue, a famous fat man, how fat is he? Needless to say, everyone knows visually that the tonnage is not small.

To say that the weight difference between two people is really a sky and an underground.

Anyway, it's only one day. These two happen to be? Gather together a piece? Yes Once, Degang Guo took Yu Qian, Yun-peng Yue, Sun Yue and others to have an appointment in Luyu.

In the interview, Lu Yu asked Sun Yue:? What do you think is the weight difference between us? ?

According to the average person's reaction, it is probably what to ask and answer. As an artist, I am afraid of weight. Furthermore, as an artist, you need to have the ability to improvise on the stage.

Of course, it's not difficult for Sun Yue, a cross-talk actor who lives by his mouth and can conquer the world by his mouth. I saw him answer back? Are you talking about age? ?

Such a witty response immediately burst into laughter and won applause again and again.

Some people say that Sun Yuetai can talk, and he deserves to be a champion.

Who says not? Clever answer, perfect bypass the embarrassment. This shows that talking is really a university question.

In our daily life, we often encounter such problems. Have a look? Master? How to solve it.

How to speak, in order to resolve embarrassment?

1.？ Stealing the sky and the sea, stealing the column?

We often face some sensitive or thorny questions and often don't want to answer them, but we have to answer them because of the situation and environment. Why not use it at this time? Avoid reality and be empty? Clever solutions will lead the problem in another direction without trace.

For example, a reporter once asked Chris Lee: Most people who like you are girls. What do you think of this? ?

Originally, the reporter wanted to use this question to lead to the topic of Chris Lee's neutral and even male dress style. Because of this, there are no male fans.

Chris Lee, of course, did not ask directly, but avoided reality and gave a short answer:? It's good that someone likes it, right? .

This kind of answer, neither belittles itself, nor elevates itself, nor offends others, can be described as witty and clever.

2. A diversion, clever counterattack.

There are many embarrassing questions like this. For example, at the 50th Golden Horse Awards, Bo Huang encountered such an embarrassing problem.

However, Bo Huang is famous for his high EQ. That day, as always, he tactfully defused all kinds of verbal attacks from Zheng Yuling and Cai Kangyong with high emotional intelligence? Really? Tough question, this can be said to be an art of speaking? Models? .

Words that day, Zheng Yuling and Bo Huang * * * awards on the stage, Zheng Yuling unceremoniously came to power? Choke? Bo Huang:? Are you wearing pajamas tonight?

Then he added that he hadn't come to the Golden Horse Award for five years, so he dressed up specially to attend.

Facing Zheng Yuling? Are you kidding? Bo Huang skillfully took the words. He said:

You haven't been here for five years. I have been winning the Golden Horse Award for five years. So I regard Golden Horse as my home. What should I wear to go home, right? ?

With these words, all the people present could not help applauding Bo Huang.

If this is the reaction of Bo Huang's high emotional intelligence, then his dialogue with Cai Kangyong has brought this art of high emotional intelligence to the extreme.

At that time, Cai Kangyong, the host of the Golden Horse Award, put the words down, first praising Zheng Yuling, and then what? Muzzle? Aim at Bo Huang and say? This (Golden Horse Award) is my home, not yours. ?

I believe many people will be worried about Bo Huang when they see this. Is that what most people hear? You may be too scared to speak, because your words are full of gunpowder and provocation.

Indeed, I saw the audience guests at the bottom, such as Andy Lau, Maggie Cheung and other celebrities, with gloomy faces and slightly embarrassed and stiff expressions.

While Huang boze quickly accepted the words, expression indifferently smile to say:

Actually, you're not fighting alone. There was a horse with you just now. I've only met people who ride horses. I saw a horse riding a horse for the first time. ? (see above)

Such a diversion, but without losing high emotional intelligence, immediately won the applause of the audience.

Similarly, on another occasion, a guest said to Bo Huang:

Ma Yun once said a famous saying, which I thought was for himself. This famous saying also applies to Bo Huang now: a person's appearance is often inversely proportional to his talent? . ?

Hearing this, Bo Huang first said? Thank you? And then answer:? I believe this has always inspired you. ?

Obviously, this pun is not only polite, but also a satire on the appearance of others? Bad idea? Comment.

In this respect, you have to say that Bo Huang's speaking art is really high!

3. Be flexible and resolve embarrassment

In interpersonal communication, whether in public or in private, we will encounter embarrassing problems from time to time. If the answer is not good and is not handled properly, both parties may fall into an embarrassing dilemma. At this time, you need high emotional intelligence to improvise and resolve embarrassment.

Speaking of this, a conversation between Roosevelt and Churchill has always been regarded as a classic example.

(Churchill and Roosevelt talk in Hyde Park, London)

In the twentieth century, when the Second World War ended. One day, Roosevelt, then president of the United States, hurried to Churchill's residence because he had something important to see. That day, it was very hot during the day, so Churchill took a bath in the bathtub.

After Roosevelt arrived at Churchill's residence, he heard Churchill's buzz in the room. Without much thought, he quickly followed. As a result, I just saw Churchill lying naked in the bathtub.

It goes without saying how embarrassed the heads of state of the two great powers are in the face of such a dilemma.

At first, the two men looked at each other, first in a daze. Then, I saw Roosevelt quickly break the embarrassment with clever words. He said:

Well, Laoqiu, I have something urgent to discuss with you, but now is the right time. Looks like we can finally be honest with each other! ?

Churchill also took the words humorously and responded:? Indeed, look at me, I really have nothing to hide from you! ?

As a result, this embarrassment was not only solved smoothly, but also narrowed the distance between them, laying a good foundation for the following discussion.

Du Shujun said

We often say that we have little knowledge. In fact, whether we look at Lu Yu's question to Sun Yue, Chris Lee's reply to reporters, or Bo Huang's reply to others' high emotional intelligence, we can see that speaking is indeed an art, and it is very important to improvise and speak flexibly. Because it can make the listener happy, the speaker will not be too embarrassed, and it can also resolve many unnecessary embarrassment and contradictions.