Mom, why are you so kind to others and always angry with me?

Yesterday, my four-and-a-half-year-old daughter solemnly asked me, "Mom, why are you so kind to others and always angry with me?" Yes! Why? I was speechless ...

I remember that I once asked my mother the same question, and her explanation was: "I am your mother, so I am willing to be an enemy to educate you!" " However, I don't have enough courage to answer my daughter's question. Because, the clever daughter will never believe it. I inherited this model from my mother, and spared no effort to use it on my daughter. I know the truth that don't do to others what you don't want me to do to you, but I just can't do it. Why do I respect others so much, but I don't talk to my children well, and I don't even look at her. (I remember reading a sentence before, which said, "I love you, so you must taste my childhood. I really can't help it ...)

After a while, I said to my daughter in a funny way," I am the root of all problems, and I want to change myself. " Who knows, the prostitute went on to say, "No! No! No! I am the root of all problems! I am too naughty! Mom and Dad, do you all regret giving birth to me? " I think she's starting to doubt life? What should I do?

My husband said firmly, "Daughter, I have never regretted giving birth to you! You see, I've been working to earn money to give you flowers ... "

I'm deep in thought, asking myself, and then beating my chest ...

Before" educating "my daughter, I need to" correct myself "first, and words are not as good as examples. Facts have proved that she has tried everything I "explicitly prohibited". She can see my behavior, but also imitate it to the point. Children are not stupid! I'm stupid! I'm so stupid that I don't know the true face of Lushan Mountain ...

I just read the article "Inheritance of Family Culture Genes", which is well founded, and I know more about the importance of the way I get along with my children.