When you are alive, remember two good words to make your life smooth.

How many people can really do it without being conceited when they succeed? Too many people in life are complacent because of a little success.

Life has its ups and downs. When you get to the heights, you will be complacent. At the bottom, others will see your jokes and occasionally step on you.

Wang Yangming once said that life is a serious illness, but it is just a proud word.

Wang Yangming has been an official all his life, and it has been many years. He has experienced battles, big and small, and has never lost many battles. Every time Wang Yangming returned to the imperial court after winning the battle, the emperor would reward him and give him a promotion. But at this time, Wang Yangming did not accept the promotion of the emperor, but chose to resign and wanted to go home to support the elderly. There are many reasons for his resignation, but sometimes the emperor refuses to approve it, so he reluctantly continues to be an official.

Wang Yangming once said that a serious illness in life is just a proud word. A person, whether in leadership or in life, when you are proud of yourself, you only have yourself in your heart, which is the beginning of your failure. When you get along with your colleagues, if you are proud of your own advantages, you will make others particularly disgusted with you, and you will also attract others' jealousy and add stumbling blocks to yourself.

Generally speaking, most of worldly desires's feelings are over, and those who can't. However, it is not the noumenon of the mind, and it must be moderately mediated.

Choose forbearance at low tide and quit at high tide. Overcapacity, when Wang Yangming was an official in the Ministry of War, he suddenly offended eunuch Liu Jin and was demoted to Longchang, Guizhou. Life is very difficult. In order to make a living, he had to choose farming. At this time, Wang Yangming did not take credit, nor did he feel that he was a member of the court. Being an official here is being an official here. He is not ashamed to ask questions and learn farming skills from local people. Consulting local folk customs is also popular among people on one side.

At that time, Wang Yangming's servant was ill, and Wang Yangming took pains to take care of his servant. He also recited poems and cheered for his servants. When teaching and educating people, he also recognized the wisdom of students and never imposed his views on them. After his death, many people inherited his career, publicized his psychological thoughts, viewpoints and propositions, and commemorated his achievements.

The word that Wang Yangming hates most in his life is pride, which is a poor self-righteousness, and modesty is the greatest competitive advantage.

People with real talent and practical learning are all modest and modest. In life, there is no such habit as arrogance. When you make a contribution, you will know when you have achieved something, and you will retire appropriately. It doesn't mean that you can sit back and relax by making a little contribution. It doesn't mean that you can make others admire you for a long time by making a little achievement.

At the bottom of life, only by knowing how to bear it slowly can we achieve great things. The most important thing is to know how to be low-key and modest, and quit properly at the climax. What you have to understand is that when a person is at a high level, others envy him more than admire him. If you are still proud of yourself and feel arrogant at this time, then you have buried an invisible thunder for yourself at this time.

Recently, a big boss in business announced that he would resign, which shocked many people. In fact, this move is a particularly wise thing. He knows when he can retire properly at the peak of his life and when he should keep a low profile, so as to accumulate more money.

This is what we are talking about today. If you are modest at the climax or choose to quit properly, successful people will not get into trouble. This is true for everyone around you. You are not proud when you are in a high position. When you are at a low point, you choose to endure, so that you can become a long-term winner.