How to cultivate children's sense of humor

Lead: Humor is a special emotional expression. It is based on intimate relationship and has a caring effect on the bud of humanization. This bud? Pediatric identity? Being perceived produces a sense of humor. People with a sense of humor, life is full of fun, many seemingly painful and annoying things, but easy to deal with. Dealing with troubles and contradictions with humor will make people feel harmonious, happy and friendly.

Matters needing attention in guiding baby's sense of humor

1, humorous language is based on the principle of not hurting others.

2. Language with a sense of humor should pay attention to interpersonal politeness.

3. Humorous actions are based on the principle of not involving dangerous actions.

When telling jokes or performing antics with children, we should consider their age. Because adults think funny words or actions, children may not feel the same way However, if children think language or actions are funny, adults should laugh with them (although it is not necessarily funny from an adult's point of view).

How to cultivate children's sense of humor 1. Parents should be humorous first.

Teacher Lei Yu, who is humorous in class and deeply loved by students, believes that humor has innate factors, but the cultivation of the day after tomorrow is more important. Children are the continuation of parents' lives and the truest mirror of parents. In a subtle way, many characteristics of parents reappear in children. Therefore, to cultivate children's sense of humor, parents should first look at whether children also need to cultivate a sense of humor. At least, you should really appreciate humor.

Second, educate children to be optimistic and tolerant of personnel.

Optimism and tolerance are the essence of humor. To learn humor, we should learn to be tolerant and generous, overcome the narrow thinking of haggling over every ounce, and be optimistic at the same time. To cultivate children's optimistic attitude, the most important thing is that when children encounter difficulties, parents should stand by and give them positive encouragement and support to help them take the initiative. Only in this way can we teach them optimism with correct attitudes and measures.

Third, love life and feel it with your heart.

Life is full of humor, but it lacks the eyes to find humor. Guiding children to observe and feel life attentively, cultivating insight into things and seeing the world from their own perspective are important aspects to improve humor. Only by grasping the essence of things quickly and using appropriate metaphors and humorous language can people feel relaxed.

Fourth, appropriate self-mockery is also humor.

A truly humorous person is not afraid of being laughed at. He is very good at self-mockery, which is actually based on self-confidence.

Fifth, show or read humorous stories to children.

Humorous and interesting stories can not only make children like reading in a relaxed and happy atmosphere, but also cultivate their sense of humor subtly. At the same time, the protagonists in many children's literature works are optimists. Although they encounter all kinds of strange difficulties, they can always save the day and continue to treat life optimistically. Reading such stories to children can cultivate their yearning for optimism.

Sixth, let the children talk about interesting things.

Children always have a desire to express interesting things happening around them. At this time, what parents need to do is to listen carefully and give a hearty laugh. If children have enough sense of humor, adults can also guide them to make up some humorous stories, change textbooks, movies or TV plays or even add a hilarious ending.

How to cultivate children's sense of humor 1 and cognitive ability

When the child's language ability is not enough, if the jokes told are related to the language, it will lead to the situation that the child can't understand. For example, when a six-year-old child with good language skills plays a guessing game with a two-year-old child, the chicken will talk to the duck. When children have enough cognitive ability, they can communicate with others and have fun from it, so they will have humorous behavior.

2. Parents' concern

Children who are loved and cared for by their parents before the age of 3 will show a good sense of humor. Therefore, in order to make children become "people with a sense of humor", parents should give their children more love and care.

3. A pleasant learning atmosphere

In the process of children's growth and learning, if they are always in a relaxed and happy learning atmosphere, they will experience happiness, prompting them to look at people or things around them with a happy mood, which is conducive to the formation of a sense of humor.

4. Create a happy environment.

Leave a space for the children at home, hang a board, post cute cartoons, funny life photos, etc. , and updated frequently. Read comic picture books with children. Let children watch TV and movies suitable for their age and encourage them to imitate funny actions. From time to time, make humorous movements to children, such as making faces and sticking out your tongue.

5. Encourage children to find or find happy and humorous materials in their daily lives.

If you recall what you saw and heard during the day with your children after dinner, ask them to draw or tell interesting scenes. Exaggerate any humorous or interesting behavior that children show, and children will enjoy it. Please remember that only in a loving environment can children cultivate a sense of humor and a happy and upward mood.

How to cultivate children's sense of humor 1 and make life full of laughter with parent-child games.

Humorous children must be children who love to laugh, and children who love to laugh are often good at discovering humor and making humor. In daily life, parents can play some interesting parent-child games with their children, such as hide-and-seek, hanging apples, etc., so that children can be filled with happy laughter in the game.

2. Comfort him with a humorous environment.

For example, when he falls down as a toddler, accidentally hits his head, or does something wrong and is depressed, he can make a face to show that it doesn't matter; The power of humor is infinite. At this time, he is often amused by the faces made by adults. Not only that, parents can also encourage their children to imitate making faces. The weirder they do, the more they will be appreciated.

3. Guide him with verbal humor.

Parents can tell their children more humorous stories, witty stories and brain teasers. To train children's thinking agility and enrich their vocabulary. Parents can guide their children to make up humorous stories, adapt the plot of film and television dramas or add hilarious endings to stimulate their sense of humor.

4, often listen to some relaxed and humorous stories or comic sketches for children.

It can not only make children feel relaxed and happy, but also form their interesting language style invisibly. I remember Mr. Bean's funny actions, exaggerated expressions and humorous language in the series of short plays, which often made his son laugh.

5. Create a relaxed atmosphere in life, and also cultivate children's sense of humor from an early age.

When a child is crying, parents can comfort her in addition to some common comfort measures. Baby, look, you cry like Xiaohua Mall, and your nose is like a waterfall. How ugly! ? Compared with monotonous persuasion, this humorous language can not only quickly divert children's attention and make them laugh through tears, but also enable children to learn humorous language skills and cultivate a good attitude. When a child tries to tell some funny jokes or perform some funny actions, parents should not be stingy with your applause. Your encouragement will constantly enhance his sense of humor.

6, often play some interesting parent-child games.

Like what? Three feet for two? 、? Kangaroos jump? By analogy, not only can children enhance their parent-child feelings in the game and understand the importance of unity and cooperation, but also exaggerated and interesting body movements and interesting mistakes in the game will definitely make you and your children laugh and make them have a sense of humor in a relaxed and happy environment.