A person’s mouth hides his money

A person’s mouth hides his money?

In life, some people talk about money when they open their mouths. There are also some people who never talk about money. There are also some people who do not talk about money directly, but reflect their income by talking about location, job, career, etc.

Confucius said: "A gentleman is sensitive to things and cautious in his words." "You can do more things, but you should speak less and be careful when you speak."

To judge a person, you should look at the past record and the words and deeds behind it; to listen, you should listen to the "underlying tone" and know that there is something behind the words. Therefore, it can be seen that as an adult, you can see "money" in your words.

First, those who show off constantly are poor at heart.

The poet Ben Jonson said: "Language can reveal a person the most. As long as you speak, I can understand you." Many people deliberately show off their wealth, hoping that others can "tsk-tsk and praise". He thought that the people who were envied were the rich, but he didn't know that everyone "pretended to be confused" and saw through the poor without saying anything.

The philosopher Mencius wrote a fable during the Warring States Period. There was a man in the state of Qi who would go out every day and only go home after eating and drinking. The man drunkenly said, "I have friends who invite me to eat and drink, and they are all rich and powerful friends. One day, his wife quietly followed him to see who he was eating and drinking with. Suddenly she found that he went directly At the cemetery, the wife asked for sacrificial food from the sacrificer. She was very disappointed and said to her family: "I didn't expect that my husband was such a person. How could he be entrusted with him for a lifetime?" After saying this, the family cried bitterly.

< p>The ancients said: "The reason why people seek wealth and success is that their wives and concubines are not ashamed. If a person is very poor and still likes to show off, then he will fall into the situation of "struggling to save face and suffering". Once the family's money is used up because of "face", life will be difficult. From a realistic point of view, even showing off oneself requires time, energy, and money.

For example, in order to put gold on your face, you buy fake earrings, gold-plated headwear, and fake clothes. Although the money is not much, for the poor, it is undoubtedly worse.

Countless time is wasted when showing off. Thus the opportunity to struggle is missed. As the saying goes, every inch of time is worth an inch of gold. In the circle of friends, people who often show off about drinking, eating, and traveling are not necessarily rich people, but are often those who like "likes"; at parties, people who talk eloquently have no real ability and are just trying to show off. .

A person is poor only for a while, but a poor heart lasts a lifetime. Saying "I have money" from the mouth is actually a joke of "there is no three hundred taels of silver here". Second, those who talk about money at home work together to make money. A gentleman loves money and gets it wisely.

A poor person who does not want to be rich is not an ambitious poor person. If you are extremely poor and keep saying "I am so happy", others will think you are a lunatic.

How to get rich? You need to think carefully, find the right way, talk to the right people, do the right things, and have conversations.

There was a report on "CCTV.com" about "Loving Couples Making Money While Playing." In 1998, Lou Juzhen from Ningbo, Zhejiang, discussed with her husband that it would be great if they could make money while having fun. .

At that time, the couple was engaged in non-ferrous metal business, with an annual income of 20,000 to 300,000 yuan. Together, the couple rented 60 acres of saline-alkali land and started breeding soft-shell turtles. After all, soft-shelled turtles are food on people’s tables, so they don’t have to worry about sales. After years of trying, they discovered that breeding is not very fun, and brings surprises and sadness. One day in May 2008, heavy rain washed away the fish pond. Then, their metal business lost more than two million yuan.

Afterwards, the couple went to the fish pond, grew up with the turtles, explored breeding methods, continuously improved the value of the turtles, established a cooperative, and developed a planting business. Annual revenue also continues to grow. From then on, the couple could often dance and exercise. Love mentor Tu Lei once said: "Always remember that the financial foundation comes first. If you don't give money to whomever you love, you are not sincere. Talking empty words, lying to people, playing romance, and making fools. If a person is If there is no talk about money at home, then he can only do it alone, because no one knows what he wants to do.

People who really know how to make money often talk about money at home. On the one hand, they want to explain it to their families. , to reassure everyone; on the one hand, it is to win the support of family members and make the business bigger and stronger. Of course, when talking about money, we must be kind and sincere, rather than arguing endlessly.

A good couple makes fun of themselves in hard times; a vicious couple fights for money in happy days, and their happiness turns into pain. Talking about money seems to be an unintentional act. For ordinary people, it is a gathering of strength and a link to getting rich.

Third, those who remain silent will get rich silently.

There is a man named Wang Yifu in "Shishuoxinyu" who thinks that talking about money is a "dirty" thing, so he avoids talking about it.

One day, his wife Guo asked the servant to put money on his bed so that he could not get out of bed. When he woke up, he said: "Get rid of the thing blocking here." He perfectly closed the word "money". Judging simply from Wang Yifu's words, he doesn't like money. But the truth of the matter is different. His family is not poor, and he loves money.

There is another story: Wang Yifu’s wife asked her servant to pick up feces on the road. Manure can be used as fertilizer, and in disguise, it can also make money. His younger brother advised: "It is wrong to let servants go out to pick up excrement." His wife was angry and said, "My mother-in-law asked me to take care of my brother-in-law, not my brother-in-law." "The younger brother has nothing to say.

For a family to become rich, the important process is to "make money and be stingy." Although Guo's approach seems too stingy and makes people laugh, its original intention is People and families get better. In real life, there are many people like "Guo" who have worked hard all their lives and saved a lot of money, but they will not tell it and will not spend it easily when they die. Discover the real situation and see the amount of savings.

In society, people who talk about getting rich will not expose their money and how to make money. Although they avoid the topic of "showing off money". Be yourself, it doesn't matter whether you are stingy or not in the eyes of outsiders. There are several words such as "Silence is golden, words are precious, and words are kept secret", which can all embody the method of making money by "talking less and doing more". It's better to keep your head down and work. If you can't make a thousand by doing good work, you can at least make ten, which is many times better than boasting.

There is a saying in "Cai Gen Tan": "The mouth is the door to the heart, keep your mouth shut." Secret, reveal the true secret. The mouth is like a door. If it is not managed well, money will slip through the cracks in the door; if it is managed well, the family will be as solid as a piggy bank.

Really rich people don’t have money in their mouths, but in their happy families and inner feelings; poor people either flatter themselves, flatter themselves, or flatter themselves. Speak sarcastically against the rich and resent society. Remember, saying heart-warming words will accumulate virtue and blessing; saying nothing, silence is better than sound.