The sad life of a man who married the wrong wife

As the saying goes, men are afraid of getting into the wrong profession, and women are afraid of marrying the wrong man. In fact, men are also afraid of marrying the wrong wife.

My friend’s cousin is like this. Because he married the wrong wife, he spent decades in quarrels and scoldings. She told me the whole incident.

My cousin is more than twenty years older than me. It is said that when he was young, he was handsome and graceful. Coupled with his good family background, there were countless girls who secretly liked him.

He once had a girlfriend with whom he was in love, but he was strongly opposed by his uncle and aunt, and was finally forced to break up. Since then, he has no intention of falling in love again.

Seeing that my cousin has become an older young man, my uncle and aunt are now anxious and ask people everywhere to introduce their son to potential partners. I just found any excuse to turn it down, and they kissed each other several times but ended up in vain.

Later, his uncle asked someone to introduce him to the daughter of a fellow villager. The girl fell in love with him at first sight. The cousin was a little reluctant, and the aunt didn't like it, but the uncle felt that the girl had a gentle personality and a pretty face. The cousin's affection for his fellow villagers forced him to agree. He was a coward by nature and obeyed his father's orders. In the end, he hurriedly entered the marriage hall without fully understanding the other party, and his attitude towards his cousin-in-law was also lukewarm. Hot.

As soon as my cousin-in-law got married, she immediately changed her docile appearance into another face. He sleeps until three o'clock in the morning every day, does not pick up the horizontal grass at home, does not twist the grass, and loves to relax and dislike work. I often find fault with my aunt's cooking for not being delicious and the clothes she washes being dirty.

She has a bad temper, is narrow-minded, speaks harshly, and is extremely controlling. Her cousin has to listen to her in everything. The monthly salary must be paid in full, and no smoking or drinking is allowed. Even my cousin’s former friends are not allowed to associate with them. As a result, my cousin was nicknamed "hep-tight" and "hennpecked", and his friends kept a distance from him. If she was not careful, she would cry, make fuss, and hang herself. She was suspicious all day long and lost her temper for no reason, making the whole family restless.

My uncle and aunt saw it, but they didn’t care about her because of her young age. At the same time, for the sake of family peace, they kept swallowing the jokes of outsiders. This only fueled her arrogance.

Later, I bought them a house and moved out to live alone. My uncle and aunt only lived a stable life for a few days. The birth of his daughter brought some comfort to my cousin. At the same time, he became even busier. He rushed to his parents' house after work every day, picked up his daughter, bought groceries, cooked and took care of the children.

My cousin-in-law doesn’t have a job. My uncle used to find connections and asked favors to find her a job, but she was used to being lazy. She found it hard, tired, and didn’t have the freedom to get along well with her colleagues, so she didn’t work. It didn't take long for me to quit my job, and I didn't want to go out to find a job anymore. I idled around all day, just playing mahjong, going shopping, and watching TV. Often the food is not cooked, the clothes are not washed, the children are not taken care of, and the fingers are not touched. Not understanding his cousin's hard work at all, he could only sigh helplessly while silently taking over all the housework.

From the moment her aunt opposed her marriage before marriage, the seeds of hatred were planted in her heart. Later, the conflict escalated due to some trivial matters, and she became a stranger to her uncle and aunt, and even It has reached the point where they have no contact with each other until old age and death. Not only do I not interfere with my parents-in-law's life, I also don't let my cousin fulfill his filial piety.

As time went by, her resentment grew. During this period, my cousin thought about divorce several times, but when he saw his daughter, he softened his heart. More than 20 years passed in such a noisy way, and my daughter grew up. She hated what her mother did so much that she later married away from home and never came back for several years. She has been familiar with what happened to her father since she was a child, but she is beyond her reach.

My uncle passed away last year. According to our local customs, if a parent dies, the son has to carry an earthen jar for his parents on the day of the funeral. My cousin also has a sister, so there is no doubt that he should carry the earthen jar. Come on.

Who knew that my cousin-in-law would jump out and try her best to stop her? She made a scene in the mourning hall, put her hands on her hips like a shrew, pointed at her cousin and yelled: "How dare you go to hold the earthen pot for that old guy today? Look at it. How will I deal with you when I get home!" My cousin was originally cowardly and had been bullied by her for decades, so he had already resigned himself to it and did not dare to disobey her orders.

Relatives and friends couldn’t stand it any longer and tried to dissuade them one after another. With your words and her words, they were moved with emotion and reason. Even a hard-hearted person would be moved, but My cousin's heart is as solid as a rock, her attitude is resolute, and she won't listen to anyone's words.

The two sides were in a stalemate. Seeing that the funeral was coming, money can make all the difference. In desperation, her aunt promised in public that she would be given 80,000 yuan afterwards, and she reluctantly agreed. My cousin went to pick up the earthen pot.

As a couple, we always thought that my cousin's temper would get better as she got older. Who knew that instead of getting better, she would become weirder and torture her cousin even more. She vented all her decades of resentment towards her uncle and aunt on her cousin.

For example, if my cousin goes out for a walk in the afternoon, he must come back at the time specified by her. If he is later, he will not be allowed to eat. If she is in a bad mood one day, she will not be able to sleep at night. If you dare to visit your aunt privately, a storm will be waiting for you when you return. She became even more crazy when she saw that her cousin was completely obedient to her and showed no resistance. From the beginning of mental torture, it turned into domestic violence. She often beat her cousin with bruises all over his body. It sounds horrifying and unbelievable, but it really happened.

As we watched our cousin being tortured until he became old and inhuman, we were all indignant, but there was nothing we could do to help. If anyone helped him speak, his cousin would go to that person's house and scold them for being their ancestors for eight generations. In the end, instead of helping him, he was punished even more severely.

The neighbors in the neighborhood are all afraid of her. She is the famous "Dominatrix" in that area! I really don't know how long he can last in such a dark day.

After listening to what my friend said, I couldn’t believe my ears. It’s unbelievable that there are such vicious women in the world.

Bill Gates was once asked in an interview with Yang Lan whether the smartest decision he made in his life was to found Microsoft or to do charity? He smiled and said it was neither, but finding the right person to get married to.

As the ancients said, a good woman will prosper for three generations. On the contrary, a bad woman can destroy three generations. Therefore, when a man or a woman is looking for a partner, they must be discerning about people to avoid meeting unkind people. Don't just find someone to marry and ruin your life's happiness just because you are older, your parents urge you, or for any other reason!