How can I give my child an elegant but not vulgar name?

Do you want to give your child a name that is easy to write, easy to read, easy to call, good to listen to, easy to remember, elegant but not vulgar? Do you want your child to bring good luck because of a good name?

In fact, a person's name is just a symbol, which is the code that a person needs in future social activities. Although it can't be unique, it's best not to be called too much by others, otherwise it will not only have no personality, but also make people feel that your child's name is a bit tacky, because the name is not fashionable, and you can buy a new one later. Lao Ai thinks that naming a child should be based on the surname and the child's sustenance, and should be considered from the following aspects:

(1)~ Don't be too casual in naming children, keep pace with the times and have a sense of the times. Unlike in the past, those born in spring are called orchids, those born in summer are called lotus flowers, those born in autumn are called chrysanthemums, and those born in winter are called plum blossoms. ~ "Five Golden Flowers" are short of one; Those born in Beijing are called Bei Sheng, those born in Nanchang are called Nan Sheng, and those born in Xi 'an are called Xi Sheng. Such a name will make people feel that you lack culture and ambition. I used to have a neighbor. My eldest son's name is Shuigen, and my youngest son's name is Genshui (maybe he/she is an expert in number combination at school). I think they only know the words "water" and "root". Fortunately, they only have two boys, otherwise the third son wouldn't know how to choose a name. Giving a child a name at will is irresponsible to the child, dereliction of duty of parents and disrespect for themselves.

(2)~ Don't choose Chinese characters that are uncommon, easy to mispronounce and too difficult to write (even some words can't be found on the computer), otherwise it will affect your social interaction. Not only is it inconvenient to write by yourself, but it takes a long time to explain, and others are reluctant to recommend you to others, because others are afraid of mispronouncing your words and saying your name wrong, and some people will choose your name because of its advanced evaluation.

(3)~ Don't choose to use too many names that others often call, otherwise people will feel that their parents are uneducated and tacky. It's like a beautiful dress. If the whole class buys it, it becomes a school uniform. If all colleagues wear them, they will become work clothes. In addition, it is easy to be the same as other people's names, especially the most popular ones. According to relevant statistics, there are dozens of people such as Zhang Aiguo and Li Jianguo, and nearly 100 people such as Wang Bing. Like my surname Ai (Ai is a small surname, ranking 293), it is not easy to have the same name as others, but a single name and two names are ok.

(4)~ It is meaningful to name your child ~ It is either unforgettable, entrusted or expected. For example, if you want your children to embark on a career when they grow up, you must use the country, strength, loyalty and ambition. If you want to be a big official, you have to use dragons, phoenixes and tigers. I hope children can read, and then choose wisdom, wisdom, books and so on. If you want your child to be safe and healthy, you must choose peace, safety, health, harmony and happiness. Be beautiful, choose handsome, cool, beautiful, beautiful and the like; If you want to do business or be a boss, you should choose wealth, wealth, gold, money, prosperity and so on. I know a friend named Mei Du, who is a very successful business owner. Lao Ai envied his parents for giving him a good name ~ having beauty = having USD = having money. If my parents named me ~ Ai GBP = Love GBP = More money, it would be great [covering my face], or named me ~ Ai Diamond = Love Diamonds. Maybe I am a bachelor now [in distress situation] Although I don't believe that a person's name determines a person's life, I think a name will affect people's thinking and behavior more or less, because it will urge and motivate people to work hard and struggle.

(5)~ Names are not only easy to write and read, but also easy to call, listen and remember. They are not only personalized, but also friendly, which is helpful for children and teenagers to make friends. Attention should be paid to avoid the pronunciation or homophony of names, which are the same as unlucky words and indecent nicknames, or even insulting names, and cannot be duplicated with well-known villains, otherwise it will affect the growth of children. If my last name is Ai, boys can't be called "Ellie" and girls can't be called "Ellie" and "Ellie", otherwise they all "love you". Others (especially the opposite sex) don't want to call you, and they are embarrassed when introducing themselves. It can't be called "Ai Shengbin" ~ it sounds like "sick with love", let alone "Ai Zhibin" ~ otherwise it sounds like "AIDS" [tears].

(6)~ Don't confuse men and women with names, and don't misjudge gender. Names should not be feminine for boys and masculine for girls, otherwise it will affect children's personality and make jokes on accommodation arrangements in many social activities. In work and social activities, people will think that men are not strong enough, women are not gentle enough, your ability is underestimated, and you have not been properly used in work and life. If you are a leader, it will affect your own leadership.

(7)~ The name is preferably three words, and a single name is easy to share the same name with others, especially the most common name. When I was studying, there were two classmates with the same surname ~ Zhou in my class. Although the names are not the same word, the pronunciations of the words are the same. At roll call, neither of them knew who to call. Later, teachers and classmates could only call them Zhou Moumou and Zhou Moumou. Long or multi-word names are difficult to call, write and remember. For example, the name Ai * * * not only sounds awkward, but also makes people feel that Ai is a fake foreigner. Therefore, Lao Ai suggested using a three-word name as much as possible, which can carry more demands and positive energy information than a single name.

(8)~ With a good name, it is necessary to help children understand and be familiar with the meaning of their own names. Starting with the form, sound and meaning of words, it is best to explain them one by one when children go to school, so that their names can be associated with some allusions or a fairy tale, so that they can easily remember them and introduce them to others confidently, making others sound romantic and sunny.

For example, my last name is Ai, and Ai is homophonic with love. Lao Ai told us that if we have a baby this year, we should name the baby Ai Bing, Ai Xue ~ Ai Bing and Ai Xue, which can not only contain the commemorative significance of the Beijing Winter Olympics, but also have lively and lovely meanings such as "ice mound" and "melting snow", which can not only cultivate them to like ice and snow sports since childhood.

Friend: Give your child a name that is easy to write, read, call, listen and remember, and give you a lot of positive energy! Let him/her speak confidently, others sound very sunny. Names can't determine life, but names will affect life!