What are the rules at the dinner table?

There are many rules in the workplace, such as Jianghu, especially at the dinner table. Many leaders are good at observing their subordinates through dinner. The so-called "wine depends on character" is true. Many young people hate dinner parties, but they are disgusted with too many rules in the wine field, insincerity and compromise, and they are not free and uncomfortable sitting on the wine table. Other young people were humiliated because they didn't understand the rules of dinner, and they were also criticized by the leaders. So don't be afraid to eat, knowing a little manners is enough to cope with eating.

Above the dinner, the new employee told jokes at an inappropriate time and was reprimanded by the leader on the spot for "no tutor". This short story in the workplace tells us: Don't go against the 10 "death" behavior you often encounter at dinner, otherwise you will be at a loss.

1 Don't make inappropriate jokes. Don't tell dirty jokes or jokes involving sensitive topics when leaders are present at formal dinners, especially when female leaders are present. Others either think you are uneducated or think you are insinuating someone on the wine table. Unintentional actions offended many people. At least let the leaders think that you don't know the rules, the depth, the weight, and you are a person who can't carry clearly, so you won't be reused.

Don't be "no big or small". In formal entertainment, no matter how much wine you drink, you can't be "no big or small". Once, a subordinate gave a toast to the leader with a little wine. The leader not only refused to drink his wine, but also gave him a look on the spot. From then on, I didn't like him at work. Therefore, don't talk back and forth with leaders, old colleagues, especially female bosses at official dinners. It is impolite not to say it, and it is considered unstable and more troublesome.

Don't force others to drink. Eating rules are actually an extension of workplace rules. Toast is to show respect, not to make the other person uncomfortable. Since you want to make a toast, you should show the attitude of "respecting each other" and avoid "forcing" each other to drink with words such as "If you don't drink, you will lose my face" and "If you don't drink, you won't respect me". Now the wine field culture is gradually improving, and civilized and polite people will not "force" each other to drink. There are two consequences: first, the leader thinks you have no quality; Second, meeting others is to lose your face, make you unable to get off the stage, and make the whole dinner atmosphere very embarrassing.

Don't show snobbery. Above social intercourse, smoking a cigarette and toasting around, especially as a subordinate, respecting others can win their respect. Some people propose a toast to the leader to see who gives the position, which is valuable to the leader. Some people and unfamiliar people do not propose a toast and surpass the leader. Outsiders can see clearly. When the leader sees you like this, he can judge your character and produce a psychological hint that "he will kick down the ladder if he is useless", so he doesn't like you.

Don't steal the master's thunder Every formal dinner has a distinct theme. The wine field is actually the host's "home court" with the theme of "guest of honor" (the most important guest). The focus of the dinner should be controlled by the host (the most important host) and carried out around the "theme". Some people like to show off and show off. Just enliven the atmosphere around the theme. Don't think of yourself as a red flower, let the guests become green leaves. This kind of person who doesn't understand the "situation" is also unpopular in the workplace.