It’s awkward to chat with others without a topic, what should I do?

First of all, I personally feel that there is no need to force others to chat, because everyone is busy with something, and others may not like to chat. If you force someone to chat, it will only reduce your image of others.

And if there are no topics in the chat, it means that you don’t have much interaction with them. Otherwise, there must be many topics to talk about. Now let’s talk about the common topics in chat.

First of all, for different groups of people, as a recent graduate, I usually talk about memories with my classmates, house prices with colleagues, gossip with girls (pay attention to propriety), football and basketball games with men, and The old man talks about the Red Army and revolution. Just brag when chatting with middle-aged people. Talk to children about learning methods.

And depending on the occasion, for example, when a certain colleague is getting married, the conversation should be cheerful and auspicious, and it is best to bring a little naughty jokes. This can make everyone happy and is also suitable for the special scene of wedding. For example, in meetings or some important occasions, it is impolite to chat. We can exchange our views on the topics of this meeting with you at the appropriate time.

Also, you should pay attention to your identity. You should stop joking with your boss in moderation. Don't take the initiative to joke with your subordinates. Talk to your boss about your work experience and achievements, and insert a complaint appropriately, but don't be too heavy-handed. Talk to your subordinates about the difficulties they encounter at work, and occasionally praise them to encourage them.

Then when chatting with family members, pay more attention to everyone's health, ask for help, and then express an appropriate sigh or two to let family members feel their place in your heart. Anyway, I definitely have a lot of topics or things to say with my family.

The skills of chatting with teachers and classmates are particularly important when you return to your alma mater. Don’t talk about the college entrance examination. After all, even if it is your happy event, many classmates will not be happy with it. Although you cannot blame others, there is no need to expose the scars. . You can instead praise the teacher for how responsible he is, how a certain classmate used to have a good relationship with me, and a certain classmate studied hard and seriously. Chatting follows a principle: I would rather talk less than offend others. When you praise someone, you must also grasp the scale and don't be flattering, otherwise the gain will outweigh the loss.

In fact, communicating with others still requires you to slowly accumulate some experience, and it may also be a lesson. But whether it is experience or lessons, it is a kind of exercise and improvement for our social skills. Today's society is even more of a social society. The first skill to survive in this society is to handle interpersonal relationships well.

When communicating or interacting with others, I hope that everyone can treat others sincerely and not be too realistic or mean. After all, everyone likes a harmonious and beautiful life. No one can truly live happily in an environment of material interests. So I think we must have a correct attitude when it comes to socializing.

I hope this article will be of some help to you, come on!