If people have hidden wine, how to restrain it? Can you quit this bad habit?

my self-control ability is relatively strong. In addition, parents have been strict since childhood, saying that children's drinking is harmful to their brains and affects their intelligence, and that children have no rules for drinking, which makes people laugh. Therefore, I hardly touched alcohol before I graduated from high school. The study pressure is less during college. Every time classmates and fellow villagers get together, in order to create a happy atmosphere and enhance friendship, everyone must have a few drinks. After all, I have a learning task, and I'm afraid of drinking my body bad or making a fool of myself in front of my classmates and friends. I will stick to a principle whenever I go to the wine field according to my own situation: no matter how I persuade you, I will never exceed two or two glasses of white wine or a bottle of beer. In this way, I have never been drunk before I joined the work.

I remember going to a classmate's house for a reception one winter vacation. In order to make the best of the landlord, that classmate poured eight cups of white wine on the table in advance and drank it in front of everyone before the opening ceremony. Several students were amazed to see him drink more than 22 liquors in one breath, and no one dared to drink with him after drinking. On the one hand, we are afraid that he will get drunk, and on the other hand, we are very satisfied with his generous hospitality. Although some students said something radical to persuade me to drink, I persisted until the end. At that time, I just had an idea: I don't drink too much for your studies. Later, I mentioned to that classmate that he could drink, but he said with a smile that those glasses were filled with tap water, and he didn't have that much alcohol at all. He drank so much at one breath because he was afraid of being sued by others. This incident touched me a lot. We are all very good classmates. We need to be on guard when drinking together. Why bother?

after I joined the work, I had more opportunities to drink, and I really stepped into the communication with wine culture as the medium. Our nation's wine culture has a long history, and wine is indispensable for lively and festive occasions such as holidays, welcoming and sending, discussing cooperation, gathering relatives and friends, and unit parties. Everyone sat around and had a good time, and there were countless words to persuade people to drink, such as "deep feelings are boring, shallow feelings are licking" and "a thousand cups are few for a long time". I also had a good drink with others for being a hero on the occasion of being hospitable and competitive. Although restrained, you have to get drunk several times a year. And every time I get drunk, I have to feel uncomfortable for a day or two or even three or four days, which really hurts my stomach and bothers me. "You can't be brave and drink more in the future." I'll make up my mind once if I have to teach you a lesson. But once you walk into the wine field, sometimes you will gradually be infected by the atmosphere on the wine table, and finally get drunk. It's good to forget the pain.

after the "alcohol" test, I realized a truth: the wine culture of thousands of years needs to be passed down and can't be denied, but the degree of drinking should be well grasped from person to person. Wine can really bring people closer to each other, but if you drink too much, some people will lose their minds, do something that hurts the elegance and dignity of each other, and finally end up in a bad mood. In case of drivers, friends, old people, children or the sick, we should still remind them not to drink or even stop them from drinking. According to experts, this wine is, after all, a "drug" that is not prohibited and easily addictive. Excessive drinking is very harmful, and tragedies caused by alcoholism, drunk driving and drunken gaffes are often staged. Such lessons are very painful and we should remember them.

In recent years, every time I go to a wine bar, I always remind myself: I only need to drink a proper amount of wine. Excessive drinking is not only contrary to the purpose of getting together, but also may bring unpredictable consequences. With this idea, coupled with sincere advice from friends at the wine table, I seldom get drunk or drunk now. I think, if we can add more self-restraint and care for each other to the wine culture, and less "drinking kung fu" such as forcing hard and being a hero, we will certainly get more joy and reward from the wine culture.