Male friends say we should have a baby. Did I say I was pregnant before marriage? Our reputation is gone? He said I was joking.

A male friend said that we had a baby before marriage, so it may be a joke at first, indicating that he cares about you, likes you and wants to ask you tentatively. But the society says that the actual action of going to school next time depends on your later, er, daily life. For example, you must be angry, and then there is the problem of ability. This is your own problem, depending on how you treat it. There are many suitable things now, but in principle it is more reasonable to get married first and then get pregnant and test yourself. After taking care of the elderly, we should call our conventional mentality.