How to become a master of humor?

If it's so simple to make people laugh, why do some people bring their own humor, and some people are silent when they open their mouths?

First of all, let's look at three misunderstandings about sense of humor:

Myth 1: To have a sense of humor, you must be able to tell jokes.

Having a sense of humor and telling jokes are two concepts. The former is a quality, while the latter is a skill. If you want to improve this quality, you can start by learning the skills of telling jokes, but this is not the only way.

Many years ago, I attended Toastmasters English humorous speech. Before China entered the finals, I found an experienced American speech coach. In order to win the final, I racked my brains to come up with all kinds of interesting jokes to put in my speech. The white-haired coach said, "Lin, you are funny when you are not funny."

Indeed, because I am not good at telling jokes, I try to be funny, and the result is just imitation, which is not natural at all. A true sense of humor must be true and natural.

Myth 2: Extroverts are more humorous.

Humor has no obvious relationship with introversion or extroversion. Have you ever seen an introverted person who can't escape at ordinary times, suddenly say a word without expression during the meeting, and the whole audience was silent for two seconds and then everyone burst into laughter.

Everyone has a different sense of humor. The key is to find your own style. Some people's humor may come more from wit and speed of reaction. Some people's sense of humor may come from seeing things differently from others, so they can always say different views from others, but they are very humorous.

The question is, if humor has nothing to do with personality, what does it have to do with personality?

A large number of studies show that sense of humor is related to knowledge, IQ and EQ.

People who lack a sense of humor are unaware of themselves and the people and things around them. Humor is difficult because you need to step on the right point and handle it properly. Being able to say the right thing to the right person at the right time requires a high degree of sensitivity to the emotions and preferences of others and a precise grasp.

Finally, is it true that you were beaten as a child?

1 A gentleman loves money and takes it wisely. Little people love money and have no manners.

Do more with less money. If you have no money to do things, you'd better spend other people's money to do your own thing.

3 Ugliness is not a disease ~ Ugliness is of course a disease, otherwise how can a cosmetic hospital be called a hospital?

Why only buy a pack of snacks? Because they are all bought temporarily.

If you don't work hard when you are young, you don't work hard.

6 Jianghu is sinister. If you can't do it, leave. If you see a rough road, you will make a detour.

Going backwards on the wrong path is going forward.

If you are frustrated in life, you should read more books, and I will read more and explain.

Baldness is not a disease, it is really terrible.

10 did not listen to the old man and was happy for several years.

1 1 I always thought that pop music can make people stupid and rock music can make people crazy, so do you choose crazy or stupid?

Teacher Zhang Wei is a funny but not unreasonable person, and we can learn from him.

How to become a master of humor? If you want to be a master of humor, you must first know what humor is. Humor refers to the absurd and unexpected characteristics of something, but it is implicit or unforgettable in expression. Humor often brings joy to people, and its main characteristics are wit, self-mockery, ridicule and humor. If you want to have a sense of humor, you should pay attention to the following points:

1. Have a positive attitude, and try to keep a positive attitude in life. Don't sell yourself short and be too complacent.

2. Learn to laugh at yourself. In the face of the hardships in life and the sarcasm of others, you can resolve them by laughing at yourself.

3. Collect some funny stories, pay more attention to people and things around you in life, find humor from trivial things in life, find humor, and share humor.

Learn to smile. You should smile more in life and try to relax yourself.

Humor often reflects a person's inner character, which is an ability. People who know humor will make it easy for everyone to be with him. Humor makes people laugh, but not crazy, but occasionally with appreciation. Humor has a certain ideological depth, is not vulgar, and can be appreciated more.

Make fun of yourself.

It is said that the first person to call Confucius a Sangguquan was not Professor Li Ling of Peking University, but Confucius himself, so Confucius created self-mockery. Here I want to share with you some classic self-deprecating words I have heard before.

1. Pregnancy is like pregnancy. It takes a long time to be discovered.

Don't be lazy with me, I'm too lazy to compete with you.

3. Take a newspaper to the toilet. I am also a literate person.

Change the speed and intonation of speech

Liu Neng, who loves the motherland, leads the "Northeast Wind" with his sad and trembling speaking style. Shen Teng, a famous actor of the Twist FunAge team, has become a well-deserved master in today's sketch world with his authentic Northeast dialect and his own control of speech speed and intonation.

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Tongue twister is the traditional quintessence of China. It can be active in all stages for a long time because it can give people a unique feeling of being overwhelmed by repetition. Learn a few tongue twisters, and you will win the bet in ordinary communication. In addition, the study of tongue twister has a significant effect on the treatment of stuttering.

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body language

Charlie Chaplin, a humorist, led American popular literature and art in the last century with his unique sign language humor. Mr. Bean has long won the attention of audiences all over the world with his body funny elements, and also made up for each other's shortcomings by covering up his stuttering.

If you want to be a master of humor, I personally think you should first understand what humor is, and then how to train yourself to be a master of humor!

Understand the essence of humor: humor seems that many people can tell jokes and make people laugh. In fact, this is only the surface. A truly humorous master must be a cheerful, optimistic, kind, generous and enthusiastic person with a good attitude towards life. Of course, there are also cases where knowledgeable people become humor masters because of their high knowledge! Humorous people have flexible thinking, which is often said to be a big brain hole. As the saying goes, a brain hole is a container. If a person is occupied by negative emotions such as sadness, jealousy and resentment, there is no room for humor. Therefore, to become a master of humor, we must adjust our mentality and leave enough room for our brains. Don't let negative emotions occupy it!

Characteristics of humor: Humor not only makes people laugh, but also makes people feel relaxed, which dissolves all kinds of embarrassing atmosphere. At the same time, humor makes people more attractive! At the same time, humor is also a manifestation of high emotional intelligence.

Learn humor: 1 ~ adjust your mentality and make yourself optimistic and cheerful! 2 ~ say more. Talking more can make your mind active. The more active your mind is, the easier it is to feel humorous! 3 ~ Practice tongue twisters. Crosstalk comedians have the habit of practicing tongue twisters regularly. This is a hard exercise! 4 ~ read more books, knowledge and cultivation can make a person more humorous.

Humor type: teasing ~ analyze a person and a thing with unique insights!

From black type ~ comment on your own shortcomings!

Nonsense type ~ makes two unrelated things connected by unique logic.

Exaggeration ~ describe people or things in an exaggerated way.

Metaphor ~ use familiar things to compare unfamiliar things.

Conclusion: True humor is by no means attacking or hurting others with words and spreading negative energy. It takes time to become a master of humor, not overnight.

Humorous people can enliven the atmosphere, resolve embarrassing situations and make the conversation easier, which shows the importance of humor in interpersonal communication. So how can we become humorous?

First, read some paragraphs frequently and accumulate "knowledge".

As the saying goes, you can be a teacher behind someone else's creation. Read more humorous jokes at ordinary times, and you will insert some humorous words in your communication with people. Only when you understand it, you will be handy when chatting.

Second, stay confident.

Self-confidence is very important, humorous people are usually more confident, but you don't have the courage to make some jokes. Keep humor = keep self-confidence, relax yourself and don't cater to others. Humorous conversation can solve problems better.

Third, make friends with humorous people.

Take the initiative to make friends with some outgoing and humorous people, and you will find that "those who are pro-Zhu Zhechi are pro-Mexico". On the other hand, if you play with someone who is more stable and serious, your state will change accordingly, and you dare not joke easily.

Fourth, the occasion is very important.

The most important thing in humor is the occasion. Never show your humor on sad or serious occasions. Friends and leaders should learn to grasp a degree, what jokes can be made and what things can be teased. This all needs to be pondered by yourself and learn to look at each other's emotions.

The cultivation of a sense of humor requires understanding and summarizing the events experienced in life, reading and thinking a lot, learning from humorous people and understanding the world in a diversified way.

Hello, everyone, I am the creator of the funny field. First of all, the question you asked is a very in-depth question. A humorous person is often very likable and unpopular, and I also like humorous people. Being with a humorous person can make you happy even if you are unhappy. Humor is a bridge between people, and it is also a vivid and good way to treat people. So how can we become a master of humor and make everyone like it?

1 Pay attention to details: I don't know if you have noticed that humorous people are people who pay attention to details. They can notice all the subtle details in their work and life, and their observation ability is particularly strong, which shows that humor comes from life and details.

2 Rich knowledge: A humorous person often knows a lot, so when chatting with others, he can have endless classic words that make you feel right and can't spit.

3 Rich body language: Body language is also an important part of humorous people. Bold and exaggerated body language makes the people you like laugh!

4 exaggerated facial expressions: exaggerated facial expressions are an essential feature of a humorous person, which is also an important reason why many people like him.

5 Strong language organization ability: This is also the most important feature of humorous people. The same thing is different when humorous people say it. Especially with facial expressions and exaggerated body movements, it is very popular. The most representative figure is Mr. Bean.

Personally, the most important thing to be a humorous person is to enrich experience and accumulate knowledge.

People who know humor can easily win the favor of others, communicate with humorous people, relax and feel comfortable. And how to make yourself a master of humor. I recommend several methods that I think are useful (you can call me if you don't like my answer, I have medical insurance):

First, the most stupid way is to find some humorous books, or read some humorous jokes on the Internet, and then write them down and express them in your own language and way. Remember a few more paragraphs, and you can take them out at will to be humorous in your work and life.

Second, watch more funny variety shows. The guests are all big coffee in this field, and their humor will be distributed inadvertently. You should observe their humor, the way they speak, the same sentence. You must have a different effect when you tell them. You should learn more.

Third, don't care too much about your so-called face (not to say that you don't want to lose face, this is self-knowledge). Laugh at yourself, laugh at yourself. Don't make fun of others at will, because some people may not like being made fun of by others. It is a way that many humorous people often use to tell their own anecdotes and make everyone laugh.

Fourth, talk to people more. Generally speaking, people who think they are not very humorous will feel more formal when chatting with others, which will make the chat atmosphere more boring. Chat with people around you who have a good sense of humor, and gradually you will feel that he is "eccentric".

Well, that's my personal opinion, and I hope it can help you a little.

One kind of person is very popular, that is, he always knows what humorous words to say on any occasion. Even if your life is as dull as water, you still have the potential to tease. Everyone loves you and a hundred flowers blossom. If you want to be this kind of person, learn these eight tips and you will turn around beautifully.

Eighth, expand the scope of knowledge.

The more you know about the dynamics of today's world, the more you can open a topic with others. Humorous people don't just sit and nod, they can add new topics to the conversation and share interesting facts. The wider your knowledge, the more you can control the direction of the conversation.

Remember that you can study everywhere and search for new topics yourself.

Seventh, increase the experience worth sharing.

A humorous person's life always seems wonderful. The more you try, the more stories you share with others. The best way to accumulate interesting experiences is to travel because you will meet new people and experience new interesting things.

Familiar places also have scenery, so you don't have to go to strange continents. Even a two-hour drive to see friends in the next city is an exciting adventure.

Record your trips, the parties you attended and the places you went, so that you can share photos of these trips with others.

Sixth, focus on what you are doing.

When talking to someone, focus on him. Look him in the eye and avoid texting or making phone calls.

Fifth, make new friends.

Say hello to everyone and expand your social circle. You never know which stranger will be your next best friend! Give everyone you meet a chance to tell you their stories and welcome them into your life.

Chat with others at parties, bars and clubs. If you see humorous people, talk to them directly. You have nothing to lose anyway!

Chat with waiters in restaurants, cashiers in convenience stores and bus drivers.

Meet friends of friends. Having the same friends is very beneficial to making new friends. Consider organizing a party, invite all your friends and tell them to bring one or two friends.

Fourth, keep an open mind.

Try not to comment, be sensitive, and others will be more willing to get along and talk with you. Remember that everyone has the right to express their views. Although there is no harm in having a friendly debate from time to time, you should try your best to keep an open mind and accept other people's views, even if they are completely different from yours.

Third, cultivate hobbies.

Interesting hobbies include mountain climbing, photography, golf, cooking, singing, dancing, horseback riding, voluntary activities, reading, handicrafts and painting.

Second, it has a unique aesthetic.

Humor is not only your inner expression, but also your appearance will greatly affect others' cognition of you. In fact, people have already commented on your humorous value before meeting you. If you want to follow the current fashion trend, you should have at least one item that represents the current trend in your clothing.

First, be yourself.

Remember, even if you don't think you are cool, you are unique. Don't imitate or disguise others to attract attention, because the truth can't be hidden in the end, and others will think you are a liar. Don't hide your true self, learn to show your strengths and dilute your weaknesses.

When sharing your life with others, talk about the positive aspects. Instead of complaining about how bad your week has been, tell him the good things that have happened in your life recently, long or short.

Humor is a special emotional expression. It is a tool for people to adapt to the environment and one of the ways to relieve mental and psychological pressure when people face difficulties. Russian writer Chekhov said: People who don't know how to joke are hopeless. It can be seen that everyone in life should learn humor. A little more sense of humor, less panic, less paranoia and extremism, and less sense of humor about life and death can dilute people's negative emotions and eliminate depression and pain. People with a sense of humor, life is full of fun, many seemingly painful and annoying things, but easy to deal with. Dealing with troubles and contradictions with humor will make people feel harmonious, happy and friendly. So, how to cultivate a sense of humor? Understand the inner meaning of humor, point out the shortcomings or advantages of others quickly and tactfully, and affirm or deny them with a smile. Humor is not glib, nor is it sarcasm or satire. As a celebrity said, impetuous, pretentious, stubborn, lacking in resources, dull and clumsy, it is difficult to be humorous. Only when you are calm, treat others equally, be aloof, be smart and thorough can you be humorous. Broaden knowledge, humor is a manifestation of wisdom, and it must be based on rich knowledge. Only when a person has the ability to assess the situation and extensive knowledge can he be rich in conversation and interested in Miao Yan, thus making an appropriate metaphor. Therefore, to cultivate a sense of humor, we should read widely, enrich ourselves, constantly collect humorous radio waves from voluminous books, and extract humorous gems from the essence of interesting stories of celebrities. Cultivate sentiment, face the reality optimistically, and humor is the expression of tolerance. To be considerate of others and learn humor, we must learn to be generous, overcome haggle over every ounce, and be optimistic at the same time. Optimism and humor are close friends. If there were more fun and relaxation, more smiles and games, more optimism and humor in life, there would be no insurmountable difficulties, and there would be no people who would be sad all day. Cultivating profound insight, improving the ability to observe things and cultivating the ability of wit and agility is an important aspect of improving humor. Only by grasping the essence of things quickly and using appropriate metaphors and humorous language can people feel relaxed. Of course, at the same time of humor, we should also pay attention to the importance of not being careless, treat different problems differently, and be extremely flexible in dealing with them, so that humor can provide real nourishment for human spiritual life.