Will you choose to marry far away?

If it were me, I wouldn't accept a long-distance relationship.

Because it's really hard.

Mary, 26, has been married for two years.

I don't advise girls to marry far away. I was married from a southern city to a rural family in the north, and my living habits and climate are not suitable. The climate in the south is hot and humid. I like to drink soup to relieve summer heat and have a light diet. The climate in the north is dry, and I like to eat Chili. My mother-in-law puts peppers in every meal. I complained several times, but it didn't work. People told me to learn to do as the Romans do, so she sent me away.

It's even more uncomfortable when you are confined to the moon. Cook chicken soup and drink chicken wine in the south to replenish the body, and eat pasta and lay eggs in the north. What's more sad is that my mother took the train for two days before she arrived at her husband's house to see me. This is a long journey. Seeing my mother's tired expression, I couldn't help crying and regretted marrying far away. But, who told me to meet my husband now? I was carried away by love at that time and didn't think so long. If I can choose again, I won't marry far away.

B: Liang Yidan, 30, has been married for almost a year.

I'm the one who won't marry for long! I didn't get married until I was 29. At that time, I met a very nice male colleague in the company, but he was from other provinces. I am from Changsha, and he is from Shaanxi. To tell the truth, he is excellent and sincere, and has been chasing me for a long time. I'm not indifferent, I just don't have the courage to get married. According to his current economic situation, he is still unable to buy a house and settle down in a big city. If he gets married, he will definitely rent a house or go back to his hometown for development. Then I certainly don't want to. My mother has only one daughter, and my parents are counting on me to take care of them when they are old. Parents are here, and it is not far from getting married. Finally, they didn't go with the male colleague.

Later, I listened to my mother's arrangement and went on a blind date with a man from the same county, that is, my husband now. Both eating habits and language communication are similar, and it is not so difficult to get along. The biggest advantage is that you can often go back to your mother's house for dinner, just like playing house.

My neighbors laughed at me. You don't look like a married daughter. My mother always answers happily. In my heart, my daughter is still unmarried and can come back whenever she wants.

This may be the happiness of recent marriage.

Compared with some distant sisters, I can't go back to my mother's house twice a year. It's really pathetic to think about it.