Who ran away from home as a child?

I ran away from home once at 16 o'clock, on the first day of the Lunar New Year. I had dinner at my fourth grandfather's house in the morning and left after the meal.

The reason was that my stepfather wouldn’t let me eat on New Year’s Eve, so I started fighting with him. My mother also came to beat me and I kicked her hard, which seemed very hard. At that time, my mother fell to the ground, and I left the dining table. It’s all overturned. If I don’t let me eat, no one will celebrate the New Year.

After I ran away, I wandered around my relatives' houses for more than a month. Later, I stayed at my fourth aunt's house for more than ten days. My mother came to take it back and get some matches to make, so I went back again.

Later I kicked my stepfather and mother out and took care of my brothers by myself.

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My family is in the army. In the winter when I was 10 years old, I stayed up until 12 o'clock in the middle of the night. While my parents were asleep, I packed the bag I packed three days ago and ran away. I walked to the gate in 15 minutes, but was stopped by the uncle on guard.

Before I was 10 years old, I lived with my adoptive father and mother. My parents came back to my hometown to visit me once or twice a year. Therefore, my impression of my parents was that they were rich relatives in the city. My uncle still wears military uniform.

Even after my adoptive parents told me that they were my biological parents and that they wanted to take me to school in the city, where I would be fed well and put on beautiful clothes, I was still very resistant and repelled in my heart.

However,

The teaching conditions in rural areas are not good. Many rural children do not go to school after graduating from elementary school or before graduating. Especially girls, they have to do farm work for their families until they are older. Go out to work and send your younger brother to school.

I don’t have this problem, but my parents are still worried that I won’t learn anything in my hometown. Therefore, they still insisted on bringing me to them in the city.

The arm cannot twist the thigh. My adoptive mother sent me to my parents' house and lived there for a month. Therefore, when I first went to the city, I was happy because my adoptive mother did not leave me. I had good food, drink and fun every day, and I could also wear all kinds of beautiful clothes.

However, the adoptive mother returned to her hometown a month later, because she had other children to take care of and farm work to do.

I tried my best to persuade her to stay, and even though I cried my heart out, I couldn’t get my adoptive mother to stay. After she returned to her hometown, I felt that everything in the city and my parents' house had no meaning. So, I tried every means to escape.

At that time, I was not in school yet, so I was put at the aunt’s house next door while my parents were at work during the day. When we come back in the evening, we will have dinner together at 6:30, take a walk at 7:30, watch TV at 8:30, and go to bed at 9:30.

I knew their schedules clearly, and then started planning my escape.

I packed my clothes first. It was winter and it was quite cold outside. Then there was some bread in the bag, so I could grab an extra slice or two every morning without being discovered.

After everything was ready, I waited for the opportunity.

One night, I saw that my parents were very tired and wanted to go to bed early. I said I wasn't sleepy and wanted to watch TV again. At that time, it was 10 o'clock in the evening. After washing, they lay down around 10:30 in the evening.

Then, I started watching TV with trepidation, for fear that they would wake up to go to the bathroom or come to see what I was doing. That hour or so passed very long. In fact, I didn't watch any TV. I just listened carefully to see if there was any movement in my parents' room.

A few times, I almost fell asleep. But I still cheered up, mustered up my courage, put on thick clothes, and took out the bag I had prepared three days ago from the closet.

As for how I will return to my hometown, I have no idea. I also thought that I might meet a nice person on the road and give me a ride back to my hometown.

By the way, from the army to my hometown, I need to take a train to the station for 2 hours, and then take a bus to get home. There is no station at the door of my house yet, I need my family to pick me up.

I didn’t remember at all that it actually took 15 minutes to walk from home to the army gate, and the road was very dark.

I closed the door excitedly and ran freely like a bird released. It was a little dark on the road, but I encouraged myself, thinking that I would be able to leave my parents soon, and I felt happier than anything else.

After walking through the dark night, I finally walked to the gate of the army with great difficulty. Just as I was about to open the door and go out, my uncle stopped me and said, "Kid, where are you going if you don't sleep in the middle of the night?"

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I said confidently: "I want to go back to my hometown to find my mother. This is not my home."

My uncle was happy and said: "Then when you go back to your hometown, will someone accompany you? One Children can't take the car."

Me: "Huh? Why?"

Uncle: "I'll call your home first and pick you up tomorrow. I’ll go back during the day. It’s too late and I don’t have a car.”

Me: “I can walk home without telling them.”

Uncle: “Kid, it’s too late. It’s not safe.”

Then I called my dad. My dad and mom came running in their pajamas and coats covered in dust.

My mother gave me a good beating without saying a word.

The experience of running away from home is still fresh in my memory, because it was the only time I was beaten by my mother since I was a child.

When I grow up, I realize that running away from my parents does not mean I have grown up, but when I return to my parents, I become a child again.

When I grew up, I realized that the further away from my parents, the more I miss home, but the harder it is to go back.

When we grow up, we realize that if our parents are gone, we will have no home.

I was a substitute teacher at that time. My office was on the third floor. In front of the office was the playground. Standing in front of the window, I had a panoramic view of everything on the playground.

That day, after the monthly exam, I postponed getting off work for a while in order to finish correcting the test papers. Several teachers in the office also planned to finish correcting the test papers and get off work.

Teacher Liu moved quickly. After correcting the problem, he picked up a cup of tea and stood in front of the window to drink tea and stretch. Suddenly it feels like I have discovered a new continent

Hey! Everyone, there is a young couple on the playground. Whose family are they from? Come and find out! Don’t go home after school, just hold a little hand and go for a walk!

Suddenly, several heads came to the window. I was a little short-sighted, not too serious, but I still couldn’t see clearly the two treasures on the playground. I borrowed my glasses and took a look, and it turned out to be my cute Great nephew.

He held the girl's little hand for a while and looked around guiltily, for fear that someone would see him. He was just guarding the ground and ignoring the sky was a huge mistake on his part. He never thought that this would happen. He was performing a live broadcast at the time, and the little girl kept her head lowered, looking shy and timid.

To be honest, I was still secretly happy at the time. I couldn’t tell that P, the eldest child, actually knew how to fall in love. How awesome!

In the days that followed, I had no intention of alarming him, I just wanted to observe.

The two of them only have an eye for each other occasionally. If you praise one of them in class, the other will secretly give you a wink, then look at each other, smile, and lower his head, as if he is praising himself. Likewise, there were no other big moves, and there was no decline in performance. It's probably just a matter of secretly holding hands after school, and there won't be much drama.

We all come here as boys and girls. At this age, it is understandable that we are a little curious about the opposite sex. Who doesn’t have the throbbing of youth? I don't want to ruin this hazy beauty. Besides, cutting off the water will make it flow even more, so it is not wise to stop it.

But something happened during the final exam that made me a little puzzled.

In the examination room, everyone was working on the questions, and the girl actually threw a note to my nephew. Isn’t this cheating? I don't care if you don't cross the line, this cheating is intolerable.

I couldn't help but walk to my nephew's seat. The little clever guy might have discovered my whereabouts. Before he could unfold the note, he quickly balled it up and threw it to the ground, and stepped on it with his feet.

Put your feet up.

In order not to alarm everyone, I lowered my voice and ordered seriously.

But when he raised his feet, the note on the ground disappeared. Isn't this amazing? I don't know what kind of mechanisms are on the soles of his feet, but I can't lie down and look at them. It would be too inappropriate.

The evidence was gone. Although I was puzzled, I had no choice but to leave it alone.

After school, I happened to see my brother and sister-in-law coming home from work, so I asked half-jokingly

Your son has recently learned to do magic, and a note clearly showed him I stepped on my foot, suddenly, I lifted my foot again, and the note disappeared. When are you free, can I ask him to teach me how to do this trick?

It was dark, and my nephew returned home. He was probably deeply in love, and it was raining.

Where did he go? Why didn't you get home until now?

You adults are really weird. You are not allowed to play during normal studies, but now you are not allowed to relax after the exam. Isn’t it too dogmatic?

What happened to your note today?

You two have the nerve to ask? You say I am a little emperor, do you think the little emperor is wearing these shoes?

When I lifted up the sole of my shoe, I saw that there was a crack. The note happened to be caught in the crack, so the note disappeared.

The soles of your shoes are cracked. Mom will take the time to buy you a new pair.

No, you cheated in the exam. How does it become our fault? Isn’t this evading the important and taking the easy task? Typical blame-shifting behavior? Refusing to admit mistakes and shirking responsibility.

The brother and sister-in-law noticed that he had been entangled, and on impulse, they caught the boy rudely and beat him up with a mixture of men and women.

恋爱中的小男生，自尊心尤其强，尊严是不容挑战的，他要逃脱这个野蛮的家，发誓要闯荡出一番伟业，给动不动就揍他的父母看，于是离The family ran away.

Before leaving, he got 200 yuan from his grandma to buy shoes and left a message to his female classmate and girlfriend.

My brother is in Shanghai. He said he would protect me and come to pick you up when I get a firm footing.

He left with high spirits and no hesitation. He was only 14 years old at that time, an age that did not know the heights of the world.

Unsurprisingly, within a few days, my nephew came back in despair, escorted by a plainclothes policeman.

It turned out that he was dumbfounded when he arrived in Shanghai. Shanghai is so big that it was impossible to find his brother without a specific address.

I can’t stay in a hotel without an ID card, I don’t have enough money to pay for return tickets, I can’t remember my parents’ numbers, and what’s even worse is that I have no money to eat. I was so hungry that I had no choice but to dig into the trash can and pick up garbage. I hadn’t had enough to eat in several days. I slept on a park bench at night and was infested with mosquitoes. It was too much for me.

In desperation, he surrendered voluntarily. He was taught since childhood that "if you have any difficulties, call the police." This time it played a decisive role, and the farce came to an end.

This is the true story of my fourteen-year-old cousin who ran away from home:

My cousin is one year younger than me. When we were young, we grew up together, but we did not study in the same school. After that, we often stayed together during winter and summer vacations.

Her academic performance was poor and she refused to go to school after the first semester of her first year of junior high school. Three teachers came to visit her home. As a result, she saw her from a distance and climbed to the roof of the cattle pen house to sit down. Coming down, it was so scary, she didn’t come down until the teacher left. To be honest, I don't dare to climb that high.

There was nothing my aunt could do about her. After school started, she herded cows every morning and evening and slept during the day. She was very lazy and did not do anything else. My uncle scolded her and said she was worthless. Too lazy to go to school.

As a result, she ran away from home at dawn the next morning, took more than ten yuan of New Year's money, walked more than ten miles of highway, and got on the train to Huaihua at the train station.

At that time, her sister was working as a cashier in a repair shop in Huaihua. She had gone there once before, but there were no mobile phones or BB machines at that time, so she went there with the address on the envelope.

She started to get scared after getting off the train. She was smart and contacted the station police. The police sent her to her sister's work according to the address. Her sister sent her back early the next morning, and her cousin Her first trip away from home ended without any danger. From then on, her uncle did not dare to scold her lightly.

This little person has been working hard for a year. When she was over 15 years old, she was asked by her brother to learn how to drive a mini car. A car agency, selling cars, with a pretty good annual income, and settled down in Huaihua.

The little girl who dared to run away from home at the age of fourteen is really courageous, knowledgeable and wise. She can also drink a bottle of good wine. She can have all kinds of entertainment. Last year, she even drove into In Shanghai, I took three salesmen to sell wine to my sister.

When I was a child, I was a good daughter. My parents were very good to me. I was not so cruel as to hurt my parents when I ran away from home. I just made my mother worried once. I think I ran away from home. That year, just now After the college entrance examination, I did not go home to reunite with my parents immediately. Instead, I took the train to a higher education institution to meet my classmates who were admitted to college. I played happily there for a week, and then took the train back to my hometown. High school attended. As soon as I entered the school, my Chinese teacher told me with an anxious look on his face: Where have you been? Your mother is looking for you everywhere. At that time, communication was very inconvenient. Unlike now, everyone has a mobile phone. I told the teacher: I went to play with my classmates, and then went home immediately to visit my parents who were worried about me. I didn't take it seriously at the time, but now that I'm a mother, I know how worried your parents are about your safety outside, and regret your recklessness.

Later, I personally experienced an incident when a niece ran away from home while she was in school. It scared me to the point of suffering. What happened is this: the niece was in the second semester of the second grade of junior high school at the time, and her parents were working outside. The little daughter was studying at home with her grandma. Maybe the child was in a rebellious period and was influenced by outsiders when she was in school. A classmate wanted to work outside, and we found them at the train station. Only those who have experienced it personally can understand that kind of feeling.

When I was a teenager, I still can’t remember why I ran away from home.

I was born in 1962, and my parents were both teachers. Maybe they were poor at the time, but maybe they loved their children more and wanted to be self-reliant. My father told my brother, sister, and me many times that the children of foreign countries were eighteen years old. They don’t use their parents’ money even when they are 18 years old. They think using their parents’ money is a way of thinking. The implication is that after the age of 18, foreign children require themselves to be self-reliant and self-reliant.

Now I can’t remember why my father said something that made me sad again. It means that you are eighteen years old and your parents will no longer pamper you. Go away.

I stormed away angrily and took my daily necessities with me. I ran for more than ten kilometers in one breath, bought a ticket and got on the bus. The bus drove in the wilderness, my heart was racing.

I hate my father.

After getting off the bus, I went straight to the train station and bought a train ticket, determined to get away from my father.

Since the bus to Guangzhou was only available the next day, I found a cheap hotel and drank alcohol for the first time in my life.

When I woke up in the middle of the night, I thought of my mother, as if she was calling me. I felt sad, my eyes got wet unconsciously, and I burst into tears. But thinking of my father’s words, I hardened my heart again and decided to give up. Create your own business.

Half asleep and half awake, I thought about how I had run away from home and how much my mother cared about me. I couldn’t sleep well, and my mother would also have a sleepless night. I also thought about the time I got lost in the county town and my mother became mute. She called me loudly, and my eyes were filled with tears. I wanted to go back to my mother right away.

I immediately got up from the hotel and arrived at the bus station. The first bus had not arrived at three in the morning.

I was in a daze again, thinking of my mother's desire to see me and hug me.

I got in the car at six o'clock and got out of the car after more than three hours of bumps.

I saw my mother looking around at the end of the village from a distance. I approached my mother and scolded my silly son. Your father scolded you for your own good. Not far into the village, I saw my father. I saw his haggard father. The haggard face of my father showed that he also had a sleepless night.

This is a true representation of my escape.

I did this kind of thing when I was born in the 1980s. I walked 500 meters and came back! Do you know why? So timid and scared! On the one hand, I am afraid of being hungry, and on the other hand, I am afraid that my parents will be worried!

When I was a child, there were many children at home. My parents were working in the fields. There was endless work to do every day. After working in the fields and being busy at home, who had time to take care of the little brat’s emotions? If the adults scolded me, I would scold them and even beat them. So I hit you. It really hurt when I hit you! Unlike today's children who talk about facts, reason, and take care of their children's emotions, today's children are more tired from studying and have superior living conditions. It is a huge difference from our time!

In fact, at that time, the children who were raised extensively and grew up eating sticks were looking for death and survival? Seems unheard of. Look at the children who grow up in honeypots now. Do they have the ability to withstand stress? They would run away from home over the smallest trivial matter, and even worse, seek death and torture for adults. What exactly is the problem? Does it confirm the saying, "A filial son emerges from under a stick?" How to train your ability to withstand stress!

Children of our era actually don't want to hurt their parents' hearts, and they won't do anything to hurt themselves or their parents. They are more honest and family-oriented children.

I did run away from home, but not when I was a child. My husband and I got married early (our place was feudal and backward, so those who got married early were usually the man’s family was in good condition and the woman was pretty, and those who got married late were usually the man was poor and the woman was ugly.) Neither of us is old enough to get married. . I got pregnant with my baby right after we got married. My baby is about eight or nine months old. Everyone in the family has gone to work in the fields. My husband and I are the only ones with the baby at home. It’s been a long time, and I don’t remember why I was angry at that time. I just remember that my husband and I were quarreling, and the quarrel got worse and worse.

Our house has six main rooms, eight wing rooms on two sides, a large courtyard, and two gates. My husband wanted to beat me. When he wanted to beat me, he locked the two gates and then took a big broom to beat me. I was very angry at that time. I didn't fight him, so I just opened the door and went out while he wasn't paying attention. I was wearing all my clothes and didn't have a penny. It was an autumn afternoon, and I walked along the main road for about twenty miles until I reached a market. My mind was empty, I didn’t know anyone, and the key was that I didn’t have a penny in my pocket. Where should I go now? I lingered on the set. Suddenly it occurred to me that a cousin of mine lives on this street. My cousin and sister-in-law come to our house every year. My cousin-in-law likes to come to our house the most. Every time they come with the whole family, they never want to leave. , my cousin-in-law is a child, so she can take us to play. My dad cooks delicious food and likes to eat our food. It is convenient to eat and live in our house.

So I went to my cousin’s house. My cousin had three children. At that time, my cousin’s eldest child was in second grade, his second child was in first grade, and the younger one didn’t go to school. They were very busy at that time, they were doing business on the street. They were very happy when I came, and the three children were even more happy. The three children gathered around me and asked me to take them out to play in the water. I looked happy in front of them. My cousin-in-law prepared a lot of delicious dishes for me to eat, and also bought me my favorite sesame seed pancakes. At that time, my baby was still nursing, so I secretly expressed the milk. My sister-in-law was so enthusiastic, she gave me her beautiful clothes to change into.

My family thought I had gone to my mother’s house. When I arrived at my mother’s house and couldn’t find me, they panicked and went to my aunt’s house, my aunt’s house, my grandma’s house... They looked everywhere but couldn’t find me. At that time, my brother was in college and my sister was also studying in other places. When my parents heard that I was missing, they thought I was looking for my sister at her school.

The next day, my dad rode his bicycle to my cousin's house very early in the morning. Before my cousin's sister-in-law and I got up, we heard my dad calling the door, saying that he wanted to put the bicycle there and that he wanted to find me at my sister's school. , see if I can be there with her. My cousin-in-law was quick to say that I was at her house. My dad took me home on his bicycle.

On the day I left, my family searched everywhere but couldn’t find me, so they went to the county TV station to make a missing person notice and searched for me on TV.

Hehe, it was the first time in my life that I ran away from home. I didn’t feel too angry when I left the house, so I just walked straight along the road. Maybe I was young and didn’t have much thoughts. It’s funny to think about it now. I didn’t have a penny and walked aimlessly. Fortunately, my cousin’s family lived on that street. Otherwise, what would I do? You are thin-skinned and shy, so you must starve to death [face covering]

Nowadays, there are many people and cars, and society is complicated, unlike when we were children a few years ago. If children are now allowed to run away from home to make their parents anxious and angry, or even just in exchange for a small goal they want to achieve, the usual results will be terrible.