Every night after studying, my roommates will be cynical. What should I do?

He doesn't study and he doesn't want others to study. This kind of person is so jealous that I won't give up studying because of his attitude. I will just ignore him or go to the library to get rid of his cynicism.

Not to mention reviewing for the postgraduate entrance examination, that is, I turned a pen in the dormitory and the other three people secretly glanced at me for more than a dozen times. If I write something, they will ask me in horror what I wrote, and if necessary, they will just hold hands with the party. I hate it, too. As long as one of the four people in the dormitory studies, the atmosphere will suddenly change.

In fact, they just want to find someone to fall with. If you study, it means you can't adapt. Of course, they will miss you. Of course, there should also be jealousy. One of my roommates said to me privately, "Look, you have even made plans for the future. I don't even know what I do. If you want to study hard but have no motivation, you can only degenerate into playing mobile phones every day. "

I laughed without saying a word, so we are all people with clear life plans. They are partly jealous of you because you found the target before them. Work hard. When you get what you want, believe me, someone will be furious. Let's go

In the face of roommate's cynicism, we can solve it like this:

1, let her talk a lot. If the other person doesn't talk too much, or doesn't talk too often, then we can ignore her at this time, because it will waste our time and often make us feel bad.

2. give a counterattack. If my roommate doesn't speak well in this respect and goes too far, then we can fight back appropriately, which can be euphemistic at first, but if my roommate doesn't understand what we mean, it only shows that this person's emotional intelligence is very low, so we have to explain it clearly to my roommate.

3. Don't be too obvious. Since roommates see our maladjustment, jealousy and anxiety about learning, we don't have to be too obvious. Since ancient times, top-notch people have been controversial. We should keep a low profile and modesty. Maybe our roommate's mouth wouldn't be so poisonous.

4, don't study in the dormitory, we can choose not to study in the dormitory, go to the library or go to the classroom for self-study is a good choice, in the dormitory can not be disturbed, in the classroom and library will not always be disturbed by roommates, and this can make us study more seriously.

5. Thank you for your compliment. In the face of roommates' cynicism, we can reply them with words like "Thank you for your compliment" and "You can do the same", which will ensure that they are speechless and will not embarrass both sides.

6. Study hard and be angry with her. The more our roommates mock us, the more we should study hard. We must live up to her ridicule and come up with a good result to annoy her. In this ridicule, we made progress, and our roommates learned to be sarcastic, as if we deserved it.