How can we make children cheerful?

It is the golden age for parents to educate their children, and it also paves the way for the transitional stage of their future growth. If parents can educate their children well in the golden age, their children will get ahead and become cheerful and lively in the future. If parents want their children to be cheerful, the following points must be seen and done by parents:

1, don't intentionally interrupt the child's right to speak (very important)

No matter what kind of child your child is, no matter whether the child's speech is useful or not, parents should first listen to his words when he speaks, and then discuss where the child is wrong, what kind of words are valuable and what kind of words are not. Parents will gently educate their children and correct their mistakes in speech. Many parents often refuse to change their minds. Children always think that what they do is right and deliberately interrupt their right to speak. This problem is the fault of parents, not the children. Your parents always think that you are right, and let your children listen to you too much and obey you. This way will make children too obedient and honest, and make them suffer many setbacks in the process of growing up, so that they will become worthless when they grow up. Only parents continue to encourage their children to talk and let them relax. Let children speak boldly and express their ideas boldly, so that children will become cheerful and talkative. There are always parents who deliberately interrupt their children's right to speak without waiting for them to finish, so that they lose their confidence in speaking. When children gradually adapt to this family education background, they will become taciturn, introverted, social phobia, afraid of making mistakes, afraid of offending people, blx, shy and poor understanding. It is often difficult to find a job and will not be appreciated by the boss. In the workplace, you are often easily bullied by others. Parents always complain that their children are useless when they are too old to talk and can't find a good job to play at home every day. It's not that children are worthless at all, but that parents don't consider their feelings at all. If you always interrupt their children's right to speak, there will be a shadow in their hearts that will make them silent. If parents don't interrupt and encourage their children when they are talking, they can only get ahead when they grow up. Therefore, parents should think about it, don't always put the blame on their children, and don't complain about their children. The less you encourage their children to talk, the less talkative and timid they are, which will eventually ruin their growth prospects.

Parents are very important in educating their children.

If children want to be cheerful, parents should first not care about their children's small mistakes. For example, it is normal for children to be disobedient and naughty sometimes. Children's disobedience is also a process of their growth. Parents should constantly encourage their children and cultivate their independence. After the children have finished speaking, parents should gently educate their children and tell them what is wrong, because their ideas are also very simple and simple. They learn little, have a good memory and can remember what their parents said to them. It won't happen next time if the child knows. When everyone makes mistakes, let the children experience it themselves. Only by letting children grow up in practical jokes and some small mistakes will they be constantly enlightened and encouraged. When they grow up, they will become promising and cheerful. If the child is disobedient, parents will beat and scold the child when they make a mistake. Then the child will have a shadow in his heart and everything will be done according to his parents' requirements. At that time, children will become obedient and honest, so children will lose their independence and become particularly dependent on their parents. When children grow up, they will still be obedient and honest as usual. Parents don't care at all, but complain that their children are worthless for no reason. At that time, the child had been frozen, and it was difficult to change it. If your child is young and your parents teach your child to listen to you in an overly obedient way, you should give up and let your child try independently. When children make mistakes, we should encourage them and give them confidence so that they will not be frustrated in the process of growing up and will become cheerful in the future. If parents dote on their children more or less, they always let them rely on your practice. If you listen to your words, that child will definitely be worthless in the future and will become a "waste residue" in society. Many children regret it because they were too obedient and honest when they were young, their parents did not cultivate their independence, and their children relied too much on their parents. Therefore, if your parents are still young and want to change, you should let go when you let go, and don't let them be spoiled. Obediently and honestly follow the children to adulthood.

3. Let children read more books, learn more knowledge and listen more.

Children's childhood is the best memory time, and they will never forget what they have seen. Parents should buy some books on language expression ability for their children before they go to school, such as Why I speak and others don't like it, Humorous Communication, Puppy Love to Improve Emotional Intelligence, Breaking Up and so on. Children have simple thinking, concentrate on reading and can read the content. Every chapter in the book teaches children how to get along with friends in the workplace. Between classmates and elders, including how to deal with boss leaders in future work, how to say it is right and how to say it is wrong, children can learn a lot of philosophy of life and know a lot of language skills in the process of reading slowly. The younger the child, the better the learning efficiency, so that the child knows that talking more can avoid many problems. Secondly, they can learn more knowledge and read more news, astronomy and geography, not limited to books expressed in language. Knowledge is also the main component of speaking. Only when you have knowledge can you speak. Secondly, you should listen to how other children communicate, what they usually say and play, learn from each other's strengths, or watch some positive energy videos suitable for communication between peers, so that children can learn a lot of positive energy and have a good memory in the video, so that they can learn a lot in the golden age and will not be bullied in their later lives, so that they can become cheerful. Introversion can be changed slowly. Parents can cultivate it slowly and encourage their children to be positive, so that children will have a sense of accomplishment.

Therefore, if parents want to make their children cheerful, first of all, don't interrupt, let the children finish their sentences first, and then help them analyze whether they can correct them. Secondly, parents' education is very important. Don't care too much about children's small mistakes, let children keep learning and working hard in the process of making mistakes, and constantly encourage children to grow up, so that children's life will have no shadow and no setbacks. Parents should encourage their children to read more books on interpersonal communication. What should they do to make their children listen to what others say in the face of some things happening in life, including society? Parents are their first teachers. If parents are well educated, their children will be outstanding in the future and will become cheerful without any burden. On the contrary, they will be popular everywhere.