Xiao Liu said, I don’t like you comparing me with others.

Vanity on campus is not just a fight for fame among children, but more of a fight between parents. In fact, it is simply vanity.

Xiao Liu’s class teacher requires that a reading video be sent out every morning and a reading video every evening. The teacher's starting point is good, and he wants the children to read more, recite more, and learn more. This is a "step-by-step" behavior for the children.

But the effect doesn't seem to be very good. At first, half of the children in the class followed suit, morning and evening, but gradually there were only a few people left, and then after the holidays, there was no one left.

I think the reason is laziness, mainly because the parents are lazy. Most of the children in the class are from rural areas. It is very cold in the morning in winter. It is different from the community. Just wear a single coat indoors. After the epidemic began, schools were on holiday, and immediately parents began to stay at home. It’s nonsense to say that I don’t have time to spend with my children. Most of the time, I spend the morning curled up in bed playing with my mobile phone.

Parents are the best role models for their children. If you are like this, how can you ask your children? Just like this, the children sleep in and play with their mobile phones, and the parents have nothing to do and sleep in and play with their mobile phones. The sentence I heard most during the lockdown was: Why do you have so many things going on every day? Why do you read every day?

Yes, when everyone is idle and scrolling through Douyin, I am busy writing manuscripts, busy reading, and tutoring two children. Therefore, compared with others, even though I do it every morning at six Start working on things, my time is still very tight.

In this way, the video recording was delayed, and only my family persisted. But I only persisted in the morning, and the video in the evening was cancelled. Because the videos at night are just for coping. We mainly review at night, not study. The purpose of recording videos is purely to complete the task.

The teacher was a little anxious. At the beginning of the class, he said that students who persisted would receive a small gift before the end of the year. I thought to myself that maybe it was just a notebook or a certificate, but I didn’t take it seriously, but I still insisted on the video in the morning because I thought it was a good habit for children.

However, only five students persisted in the morning video, and some were still intermittent. Only two students were complete, one was from my family and the other was my child's elementary school classmate. The other party's mother asked me about my method of tutoring her children and began to imitate my family, so she continued to follow.

Suddenly one night, a child posted a video in the group. Let me take a look! Suddenly, I felt a little bit competitive, or in other words, I felt a sense of vanity that was unwilling to lag behind. So I quickly said to Xiao Liu: "Hurry up, hurry up, someone has posted a video, let's take a video quickly." Xiao Liu put down the phone, looked at me and said, "Mom, I don't like you comparing me to others."

I was really touched in my heart, but I still insisted: "But do you think others have posted it?" Xiao Liu said: "They are them, I am me, I have completed today's goal, They all copy their homework, do I have to learn from them?" I was choked, but still refused to give up: "No, I have to record it this time, and we will do it next time."

Xiao Liu was helpless. I went to get a book and record a video for me. After recording, I quickly posted it to the group, but only three people posted it that night. The next night someone still posted the video, and I asked Xiao Liu to watch it again. Xiao Liu put down the pen in his hand and said, "I was confused. Do you think they are better than me?" I replied, "No, This is the vanity of being a parent. When I see other people’s children showing off, I want to show off.” Xiao Liu then said, “But mom, I don’t like you comparing me to others.” “Okay!” I accepted Xiao Liu's resistance for the first time and never sent another video at night.

I have always been straightforward when talking to my children. I told him clearly that it was actually my vanity, but Xiao Liu did not laugh at me. I stood by the window and thought: Xiao Liu has always regarded me as his pride and has never asked me to be like other people's mothers. Who am I to compare him with others?

Mom will definitely remember it in the future. My child, you are my mother’s only one, incomparable.