On the wedding night, my mother-in-law took out 100 thousand IOUs: this is the money I spent marrying you, you have to pay it back. What should I do?

My mother-in-law can give you an iou on your wedding night, and she will definitely do more things in the future. In order to avoid more troubles in the future, she will divorce early and get rid of it early.

First, "you should pay back the money you spent." Excellent people are really everywhere. Daughter-in-law spends money, daughter-in-law also. What a beautiful abacus! Let your son marry a wife without spending a penny. Daughter-in-law gives birth to children, does housework, takes care of grandchildren, sons and in-laws, which is simply not cost-effective.

I don't know where this mother-in-law came from, but she has such wonderful ideas and practices. This is not the daughter-in-law as an "outsider"? Still think the daughter-in-law is a "fool"?

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Second, for my future, the idea and practice of divorcing my mother-in-law early is wonderful enough, but what about my husband? My husband didn't stop my mother from being mentally retarded, but indulged her around. This husband is so unreliable.

Husband is unreliable, mother-in-law is unreasonable, how can a new wife be embarrassed? Daughter-in-law can't stand her mother-in-law, nor can daughter-in-law stand such a useless husband. In order to live a happy life in the future, she should divorce early and stay away from her wonderful mother-in-law and husband.

I don't want any money for the bride price given by my husband's family, and I don't leave any money for the dowry given by my mother. I hurried back to my parents' house and went through the divorce formalities the next day.

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Third, the new wife has no responsibility and obligation to return the bride price. For the woman, it is the respect given by her husband's family, and for the man, it is the respect and attitude towards her.

As long as the woman doesn't ask for too much bride price, the man should give her a bride price sincerely. If he feels that he can't afford it, he should negotiate with the woman and her parents and make a decision. It should not be said that the man borrowed money to give her the bride price and let her pay it back after marriage.

After the bride price is given to the woman, it is her personal property before marriage, not the property of husband and wife. The woman has no responsibility to help her boyfriend and help her husband's family repay the loan. Although the money was borrowed for the bride price, it was not borrowed by the new wife. You should know that whether the husband's family borrows money or the boyfriend borrows money before marriage, these are pre-marital debts, and the woman has no responsibility and obligation to pay back the money.

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Fourth, you must see each other's true colors before you get married.

Many women are addicted to love, feel that love is full of water, and don't care about the number of bride price, RV and so on. This idea is all wet.

Personally, I suggest that you must think calmly before getting engaged, listen to the people you hear and listen to your parents' opinions, and carefully observe the attitude of your boyfriend and prospective in-laws. Personally, I suggest that you must think calmly before getting engaged, listen to the people you hear and listen to your parents' opinions, and carefully observe the attitude of your boyfriend and prospective in-laws.

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Many things have not been experienced and heard, so it is difficult to consider them comprehensively. We must listen to the opinions of others with an open mind. Boyfriend's sweet words are not comparable to real life. No matter how sweet a boyfriend's words are, they can't be houses, cars or real money. In real life, feelings can only maintain the spirit, not be eaten as food. If you want to live a good life, you must deal with the problem of money.

Never think that talking about money is vulgar. Good relationships must talk about money. Only by talking about money well can love life be stable and long-lasting. Imagine, how can you talk about good feelings if you can't even talk about money?