The interaction between children and beggars, the mother's actions touched the whole network!

I saw a news in today's headlines, and I was deeply moved. ...

In Zhuhai, when a mother and son were crossing an overpass, the child suddenly stopped and made an amazing move to an old beggar next to him! The child arched his hands and said crisply, "Happy New Year, Grandpa!"

Mother listened and looked back at him and the old man. The old man was glad to be greeted as scheduled. With a big smile on his face, he picked out the largest 5 yuan paper money from the bowl in front of him and handed it to the children in front of him. The child looked at his mother, who nodded at him and motioned for him to accept it. The child received a red envelope and the old man smiled happily! And this mother's practice has been well received! She didn't bring any cash, so she exchanged money with WeChat at a nearby fruit shop.

20 yuan and a red envelope full of cash give back to the elderly.

Children's innocence and kindness, the love and care of the elderly, the knowledge and modesty of the mother. Received countless praises!

Netizen comments: China is a good mother, educating a good child in the textbook style of traditional moral culture in China, praising and begging the elderly. People can't use it up. You can generously wrap a five-yuan red envelope, which is equivalent to five thousand yuan. It is not easy for old people to pass on their love to their children. Not every old beggar can do it. This old man is great. He cares about helping and respecting the elderly, which deserves the admiration of the whole people. He gave and gained, and moved China.

It can be seen that parents can be seen from their children. Mother's words and deeds have a subtle influence on children! This kind of influence will give children unexpected gains!

1, overindulgence

Some parents set a wrong example for their children!

Ma Xifeng in My Mother Tian Xiaocao loves Taro very much. No matter what he does right or wrong, he tries his best to protect Taro.

Dalong is picky about food, and likes to turn around in the dish bowl when eating. Grandma couldn't stand it, so she hit Dalong's hand with chopsticks. Dalong and Xiaohao each have an egg, and Dalong just snatched it from Xiaohao. Grandma said, you already have one, why do you still rob your younger brother? Ma Xifeng went on to say, "Dalong was born prematurely and weak. It is right to eat more eggs. "

Ma Xifeng hates grandma very much, but she dare not say it to her face. She always scolds people of that age for eating so much and wasting food. As a result, Dalong said the same thing about grandma: "Children eat and grow up, but the elderly eat and muddle along."

Ma Xifeng doesn't know how to respect the elderly, and neither do children.

One day, Dalong's grandfather came to visit, and Dalong deliberately sprinkled a bubble of urine into the bottle. He is very sensible to pour wine for grandpa. Grandpa was very happy to see that Dalong was so' sensible' and said, "Dalong will pour grandpa wine when he grows up!"

But just one sip, I was so angry that I wanted to fight the dragon. Grandma was angry at the smell of wine, so Dalong knelt down and apologized to grandpa.

Dalong also confidently said that he was right and refused to kneel down. Under the authority of my grandmother, I had to kneel down and growl: "Grandpa, I'm sorry!" " "Grandpa got a fright. Seeing Dalong's attitude, Grandpa was sad and disappointed.

Ma Xifeng dotes on Tai Long too much, which makes him look down on his elders and be selfish.

2. Shelter and connivance

Some parents think that their children are young and have done something excessive, and feel that there is no need to make a mountain out of a molehill. But let it go, not stop it.

As we all know, this encourages children to run amok. Because they didn't realize what they were doing was wrong.

A friend mentioned a skirt for a 4-year-old boy while shopping. At that time, she was so angry that she almost reached out and hit him.

The little boy's mother pulled the child away with one hand and said to her friend with the other, "Never mind, children still don't understand the difference between men and women." Took the kids and left.

There is no meaning of apologizing at all. Angry friends trembled helplessly as they left.

Blindly shelter and indulge your children. If you don't educate your children well, someone will educate them for you.

I saw a father stealing in a factory and often asked his children for help. As a result, the child was convicted of theft at the age of 16.

The father works in a factory. He often steals things from the factory and takes them home. He often sends children to the factory to help him sneak some home.

Influenced by his father, the child has developed a bad habit and likes to take things home with others. His father was very happy and praised the children for taking care of the family. Slowly, the more children steal, the greater their courage. Together with their accomplices, they stole cars, motorcycles, mobile phones, wallets and other crimes. I often exchange stolen things for money and have a good time with my friends. I was caught stealing.

Waiting for the children is a long prison life!

Parents don't set a good example for their children! As a result, children go further and further on the wrong road.

3. Good family education

Children who grow up in a good family atmosphere have these characteristics: modesty, respect, courtesy, honesty, trustworthiness and self-discipline. So a good education is the best family style.

Hu Shi's father died young, and his mother should play both the role of strict father and the role of loving mother. Give Hu Shi a rigorous family education and a stable family environment.

Hu Shi did something wrong when he was young. His mother never criticized him face to face, but punished him in the middle of the night for fear that the child would be laughed at.

This is respect for children, and it also shapes the family style of respecting others.

Get respect from your mother and understand the meaning of dignity. Hu Shi knew the importance of fame from an early age. When I grow up, I will pay special attention to my reputation and cultivate the principle of being strict with myself and being lenient with others.

In the new culture movement, Hu Shi, who was attacked many times, solved it with a modest attitude. His lenient principle of treating others made the world proud of making friends with Hu Shi.

Hu Shi's academic activities in his life were mainly in literature, philosophy, history, textual research, education and redology. His main works are Outline of China's Philosophy History (I), Collection of Trial Works, History of Vernacular Literature (I) and Hu Shi's Wen Cun (four episodes). All these achievements are due to my mother's influence.