Why is it so painful to have a crush on someone?

Secret love refers to having love or affection for another person, but due to various reasons, this love cannot be expressed verbally. The reasons are usually nothing more than timidity, one or both parties already have a partner, etc. A secret love is a kind of love that is unrequited and even requires giving. The phenomenon of secret love appears in a wide range of age groups, whether young, teenagers, middle-aged or old, but it is more common among teenagers. Similarly, the phenomenon of secret love is equally likely to occur in men and women. Because secret love is more common among teenagers, there are many works on the theme of secret love in popular culture. The farthest distance in the world is not between life and death, but that I am standing in front of you but you don’t know that I love you. The furthest distance in the world is not that I am standing in front of you, but you don’t know that I love you, but that we clearly know each other. Falling in love but not being together is the farthest distance in the world. It's not that we know we love each other but can't be together, but that we can't resist missing each other but still have to pretend... so much sadness, so much joy, so many inexplicable feelings! Secret love means falling in love with someone in your heart, but you can't, or don't want to, or don't dare to express it. You just bury this love, this intention, this concern in your heart. Secret love is really sad. You know you love so deeply, but you have to pretend that nothing has happened; you care so much, but you have to pretend you don't care; you miss you so much, but you have to pretend you don't care; people who have a crush are really good at pretending, They are natural pretenders and can fool almost anyone. I thought I could also deceive myself, but suddenly I found that I had already seen through my lies. Maybe this all sounds funny, but isn't He Chang the secret lover? People who have a crush think they will be strong, but their hearts are so fragile. The person who had a crush thought that he could wish her happiness, but this blessing was so reluctant. Finally... finally had the courage to confess to her, but she didn't reply for a long time. Years later, maybe we thought we had forgotten her, but found that our eyes were already filled with tears. Secret lovers often face such an ending. It is obviously the purest love, but it must be buried in the heart forever. Perhaps, people who have a secret love will never fall out of love, but is the feeling of secret love really better than falling out of love? If falling out of love is like a falling apart, then I want it to be like a long stream of water, slowly swallowing up your heart... The feeling of secret love is like a shadow, never wanting to leave you. When dark clouds appear, maybe you can stay away from him, but when the dark clouds disappear, the shadow will find you again. He is like an old friend, always able to find you. Gradually you get used to this old friend. You originally wanted to go on like this, but you made a new friend called missing, so we found ourselves becoming deeper. People who have a crush are often very sad. They are always full of fantasies, hoping to wait for a miracle to happen, but until they die, they still haven't waited for that day. They like sad music. Perhaps only in that kind of music can they find themselves and get a sense of comfort. As time goes by, the person you have a crush on may hope that you can forget her, but your love becomes deeper, more mellow, and more desolate... The feeling of secret love is like floating clouds in the sky, looming, and the heart of the person you have a crush on is also... With that feeling, I float to the end of the world. The person I have a crush on really wants to see her in my heart, but every time I see her, I feel lonelier and more tired. Maybe it would be better if we didn't meet each other... In this way, we entered a new life, and our love gradually faded away, and the only thing that accompanied us was the depth. Ten years later, maybe we have tried to forget her, but we find that our eyes are full of tears. I don’t know if secret love will bring happiness. I only know that secret love is so deep and so silent... (The person who is loved is very happy, but the person who has a secret love is even more sad. Looking at her beloved, she is... Being happy with others, I don’t know if you can feel happy for her, I just know that I can’t, so I wrote this article, hoping to comfort myself, and hope to comfort the secret lovers all over the world. Love is selfish. Secret love is also a kind of love after all)