Educational story: two sweets and four sweets

When judging students' homework, I was furious. I have been trying to control my bad feelings and comfort myself that I need to help others on my way to education. In the evening, I read Wang Kaidong's The Most Romantic Education I Can Think of, and all my anger was relieved.

I heard a little joke before, just laughed it off. Unexpectedly, after reading it, the taste of education is particularly long. The dog said to the kitten, guess how many sweets I have in my pocket? The kitten said, you guessed it. Can you give it to me? The dog nodded: well, I guess I'll give it to you two! The kitten swallowed and said, I guess five dollars! Then, the dog smiled and put the candy in the kitten's hand, saying, I still owe you three dollars.

What if the puppy is a teacher and the kitten is a naughty student? Then, I was fascinated by this nourishing education and didn't know where to go.

The dog's question is wonderful: "Can you guess how many sweets are in my pocket?"

"A few sweets" means that knowledge is sweet, useful and fragrant. "Pocket" is the necessary cover of knowledge, while "guessing" makes learning activities gamified.

This kitten is very naughty. "Guess right, will you give it to me?" Seemingly unreasonable requirements are essentially the embodiment of harmonious teacher-student relationship and the greatest productivity.

The dog coaxed, "Well, I guess I'll give it to you two!" " "Here, the tolerant dog secretly hints the answer to the kitten. What a good teacher.

But the cute kitten, a little stupid, wants to eat candy so much that her mouth is watering, and finally she doesn't understand how many pieces of candy there are. But what does it matter?

Teacher Dog didn't criticize the kitten, but smiled and said, "I still owe you three dollars." This is the warmest posture. Candy is still awarded to kittens, and it can be awarded if it is wrong. Why not reward?

Not afraid of mistakes is the starting point of learning, and rejecting mistakes is the destruction of progress. In the learning process of Happy My Sweetie, it is easier for children to establish a good relationship between teachers and students, and it is easier for them to find themselves, so as to grow up healthily in the sunshine.

I still owe you three dollars. Then, there are only two pieces of candy in my pocket. The answer is clear.

This is a great education, which moistens things silently, appreciates them and is full of love.

This story reminds me of Tao Xingzhi's story of four sweets. In contrast, it is extraordinarily happy.

When Mr. Tao Xingzhi, a great educator, was the principal, one day he saw a boy throwing bricks at another boy, which was very dangerous. He stopped him and told him to come to the principal's office at three in the afternoon.

Before three o'clock, the boy waited at the gate of the principal's office, his eyes blurred and dull, his mood fluctuated, and his heart secretly surged with energy.

Unforgettable anger, self-blame for wrong behavior, fear of facing the reprimand of the principal, fear of classmates about to see jokes, fear of finding parents, all these energies revolve around the boy, forming a gravitational wave as powerful as a black hole.

For a child, this scene is comparable to BIGBANG!

The signal from this gravitational wave was detected by President Tao, who was thousands of meters away. He went to a small shop and bought a bag of candy. The greatest education in human history is about to happen.

President Tao returned to the office on time and found the boy waiting there. He smiled and took out a candy and said, "This candy is for you, because you keep your word and arrive early and not be late."

The candy in front of me knocked the boy out like a cannonball. He knows nothing.

Then the headmaster took out another candy and said, "This is for you, too. If I tell you to stop, you stop at once, which shows that you respect the headmaster very much. Respect for others is the most important quality. "

The boy was completely stunned by the second candy. With the degradation of humble self, the previous emotional energy lost its center and flew around.

Mr. Tao added: "As far as I know, you threw bricks at your classmates because they bullied girls, which shows that you have a sense of justice. I'll give you another one. "

At this time, several wonderful new energies began to surround the boy, getting closer and closer to the center, and the light of conscience became brighter and brighter. The boy said, "Principal, I was wrong. If my classmates are wrong again, I can't take this approach. "

Mr. Tao received a new gravitational wave signal before the child could speak, and he was elated and took out another candy: "It's really hard for you to admit your mistake, and you have to be rewarded again." My candy came out and our conversation was over. Go home! "

The boy has four sweets in his hand, and his eyes are full of unprecedented light.

This light, extending all the way, shines on the edge of the distant universe.

Teacher Tao Xingzhi is good at discovering children's bright spots and cleverly motivating them. He used four saccharification to solve the anger, self-blame, fear and shame in children's hearts, just like a lamp, illuminating children.

This ordinary four candy seems to have life in Tao Xingzhi's hand:

The first candy: respect and understanding.

The second candy: trust and support.

The third candy: appreciation and encouragement.

The fourth candy: tolerance and consideration.

There is no child who doesn't want to be recognized by the people around him, especially the parents. If the child can be encouraged by the closest person, he will have the determination and courage to overcome all difficulties!

Therefore, when we face children's problems, we should not drown out their bright spots because of their mistakes, let alone rush to criticize and punish them with a rude and barbaric attitude. We should treat it calmly with a tolerant heart, give the child a step out of mistakes and embarrassment with love and wisdom, care for his self-esteem, and let him feel the tolerance and goodwill of education. Many times, the education of gentle breeze and drizzle is more powerful than the thunderous way.

We often say that a good education is "smooth and silent", so give more sugar on the journey of education ~