Nirvana in flirting with girls: Exploiting her for the first time

Text/Xiao Li next door

Woohoo, the little train is starting! (I am collecting dirty energy)...

Sorry, you thought wrong. This is a serious article about unlocking love skills.

So to get back to the point, this article mainly unlocks how to establish an intimate relationship with a girl through a non-traditional first time (first kiss, first night) or the first time in a broad sense, so that the girl will be impressed by you. Mainly answer three questions NO1: Why are girls always impressed by their first time? NO2: What is the first time in a broad sense? NO3: How to grasp the first time and become an expert in seducing girls!

How many years later, you can’t remember what day of the week it was or what kind of clothes you were wearing that day, but you still remember the boy who took you to bungee jumping because it was your first bungee jumping.

Many years later, when you hear the name Lijiang, you think of memories of him taking you to Lijiang again, because that was your first trip to the ancient city.

How many years later, when you see the candlelight dinner carefully prepared by the hero for the heroine in the movie, you can’t help but be a little excited, because you once experienced the candlelight dinner he prepared for you for the first time. The warmth of love.

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Time will be lost, but every first time in our lives and every first time in our love will not be lost, it will always be firmly occupied Our memories will come out from time to time, reminding us of our past memories. Many firsts are not always good, some are sour, bitter, and even painful, but these memories will never disappear.

Why don’t we easily forget our first experiences?

Because the first time is always unknown and fresh. Human beings are born to fear and love unknown things. Curiosity kills the cat, and curiosity scratches our hearts. Because of this, every first experience will be deeply remembered by the brain. From an evolutionary perspective, because our survival instinct requires us to remember the first time deeply, this can provide an experience reference for future encounters of the same kind, so as to gain a higher chance of survival.

When it comes to the first time in a relationship, the first thing we think of is "holding hands for the first time", "first kiss", "first night", and then we don't know what else.

In my opinion, these are firsts in the narrow sense. The first time in a broad sense includes relationships, where a man leads a woman to experience the world for the first time. To put it simply, in a relationship, as long as it is something that a woman has not experienced before, it is the first time for a man to take her to experience it together.

Give an example. A business man often visits five-star hotels, but his girlfriend rarely travels on business and has never stayed in a five-star hotel. So this man takes her to stay in a five-star hotel, which is a woman's first experience.

Do you still remember the male protagonist in "Roman Holiday"? He took the princess on a bicycle, experienced civilian life, and won the princess's favor. Yes, because she is a princess, she has clothes to put out her hands and food to open her mouth. She has never experienced civilian life, so this time things that seem ordinary to the public are indeed new and unknown to her.

In addition, do you still remember the classic romance film "Titanic"? After the male protagonist Jack met Bai Fumei Rose on the boat, he actually taught her to spit into the sea. This kind of behavior is forbidden and not allowed in the upper class society where Rose lives. In other words, Rose has never experienced it. And it was such a simple and vulgar experience that made their relationship harmonious all of a sudden.

In life, we always remember many seemingly second-class experiences, because many times it is our first time.

The first time is very charming, and it is also very easy for novices to grasp.

But in fact, in our love relationships, we often ignore the first time and don't know when we hit the wall repeatedly. For example, common ways to court girls are to send flowers, treat them to dinner, or watch movies. If a girl is often chased by boys, then these routines will not have any appeal to her. On the contrary, if you do not follow the discussion and discover her first time, the effect will definitely be extraordinary.

I remember one day, a friend brought a large box of fruit and invited several of us to eat. Said it was given to him by a female colleague in her office. We laughed at him, "He has a girlfriend, and he can develop a new relationship in the office. It's amazing!" He said, "How dare you? This is a gift from a man who is chasing that female colleague. I told him not to give it to me, but he insisted on giving it to me."

The female colleague was also very troubled. Every time she was served, she would not eat any of the food, but would give it to us colleagues, taking turns. ”

Think about it from another perspective, if you eat braised pork, broccoli, and pickled fish every day, would you still want to eat? So there is no scenery in a familiar place.

Chasing girls The same is true, especially for girls who are pretty. They may have followed these three routines when they were in elementary school. If you still pursue them like this, it’s amazing that you can catch them.

Having said all that, how to grasp the first time. , how to become an expert in seducing girls?

First of all, you need to understand her life, what is the first time for her, you can chat with her, you can ask her friends, you can watch. Her circle of friends. In short, this is the basis.

Secondly, there are cheap calls, expensive ones, and various flavors. However, you must understand that the first time is an experience. It refers to the first time to experience something. Don’t think that spitting can be the first time.

Finally, for the more complicated first time. Once, such as the first time you go on a short trip or the first time you go diving, you must do your best to leave a good impression on her. If it is both her first time and your first time, then during the experience. During the process, don't just care about yourself, take care of her feelings.

Well, the method has been mentioned, you still have to go on your own to develop her first time and upgrade your relationship!