Happiness and curse of Adam and Eve

I remember reading a joke a long time ago. Two people went on a blind date. The man asked the woman, "What did you think of when you mentioned Adam?" The woman said, "Eve!" So they said goodbye. The man said, "Because I thought of Smith!" " Although two people sit in front of each other, they see a different world. Nowadays, men and women, everyone has their own ideological world, and Eve is no longer satisfied with Adam's one-track mind. However, the ideological world is complex. The higher the requirements for the ideological world between people, the more difficult it is to establish intimate relationships, which may be one of the reasons why the single rate in modern society is getting higher and higher and the marriage age is getting later and later. However, from a rational point of view, modern young people have higher and higher demands on the spiritual level of love and life, which has become a trend and is regarded as the progress of the times.

At present, the popular views on the happiness of spiritual blending and the happiness of satisfying primitive desires can be roughly divided into three realms. In short, the first realm, indulging in physical happiness; The second realm, spiritual communication and love desire are combined into one; The third realm is pure Platonic spiritual communication. The other person swapped the positions of the second and third worlds. But overall, it did not exceed the above three points. However, a common sense that most of us are aware of is that what is popular is not necessarily right and needs reflection.

As for the metaphor of the story of Adam and Eve, it can be said that Lawrence gave the purest interpretation in the first article of Little Yellow Book and Lady Chatterley's Lover: "They went hiking in the forest with the guy who played the guitar, and they sang songs all the way and were free. Free! This is a terrible word. In this vast and unrestrained world, in this big forest in the early morning, you can do whatever you want with these young people, especially when you come and talk freely. " "The dignity and meaning of life, the absolute, perfect, pure and supreme freedom in the hands of all people." "Our era is simply a tragic era, so we refuse that tragic attitude to face it." Lawrence advocates not only human primitive freedom, but also spiritual self-esteem and independence. The curse of Adam and Eve lies in the loss of these two freedoms.

Although this book was regarded as a scourge by the elegant and orthodox aristocrats at that time, it was also sealed for violating good customs and immorality. But its serious implication is worth thinking about by people in any civilized era-what is real civilization, whether the development of civilization has alienated the true instinct of human beings, and how tolerant civilization is to the id of life.

Adam and Eve cursed by God, one always works with his back to the loess, and the other keeps giving birth to children as a tool for racial reproduction. This has to be said to be a religious commandment, because only by establishing rules and abiding by contracts can people live better. This is also the fundamental reason why contract theory has been acquiesced and observed by the whole human world so far.

Living in the city for a long time, many people will raise flowers, cats, ducks and birds, run in the jungle and blow air by the stream. Returning to nature is the most basic desire of human nature to return to nature, and it is also the realm that people should reach when they develop to a certain extent. Pray that urban men, women and children can rationally treat themselves and the knowledge and civilized dogma of the first-hand, second-hand, third-hand and N-hand around them. Break the curse, embrace happiness and strive for freedom!