My son is a graduate student, and you want a house and a car as a dowry: Why is Phoenix Man’s mother really scary?

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We often hear people say that women are afraid of marrying the wrong man and men are afraid of getting into the wrong profession. Any marriage needs to be based on an equal relationship. For example, there are some families with very different conditions. The two families must not speak the same language together.

Moreover, the living standards and social levels are different. Even if the children are married, there will be some friction and disputes due to different living habits or different ideas. It won't matter once or twice, but it will make a lot of noise.

You have to wonder if you have chosen the wrong person? When getting married, one must pay attention to being of the same family. Only two families with similar families are more likely to get together.

A-Zhen is considered an only daughter from a good family. She is sought after by many members of the opposite sex because she is in good condition and has strong working ability. However, the more A-Zhen looks at the men who pursue her, the more she looks at them. Not on.

Unexpectedly, Azhen actually chose Xiaoqiang, who was from an ordinary family and whose income was not as high as Azhen. In this way, Azhen and Xiaoqiang got married. They thought that their small life would be a happy one. Just getting started.

But Azhen, who lives with her parents-in-law, has to endure the noise from her mother-in-law and father-in-law every day, as well as her mother-in-law’s picking and digging. Sometimes she buys a bunch of vegetables with rotten leaves on them. She was reluctant to throw it away and continued to eat it, which made Azhen very unbearable.

I thought it would be over, but my mother-in-law often picked on Azhen. She felt that Azhen seemed to live a very delicate life and looked down on herself. Before she could defend herself, her husband would speak for his mother. Azhen is also suffering and cannot tell. In the past two days, her mother-in-law probably heard about Azhen's natal family.

After moving to a new home, naturally no one lived in the old house. Her mother-in-law decided to buy Azhen’s natal house. Sell ??it and use some money to buy a car for my son."

Zhen sneered and said to her mother-in-law, "Isn't it too early for you to plan?" Unexpectedly, her husband suddenly said: "Then. Of course, my mother is not a vegetarian." Seeing that her husband was still so confident, A-Zhen picked up her bag and left angrily.

Many mothers-in-law believe that when a daughter-in-law marries into their own family, not only does the daughter-in-law belong to their family, but even the property of the daughter-in-law’s natal family also belongs to them. This will only make the daughter-in-law think that the husband’s family always cares about their family. Money, besides, you should find someone who is well-matched when you get married.

Like A-Zhen, the husband’s family is in poor condition and is not worthy of his own family. On the contrary, it becomes more difficult to get along with him. He may also think that such a family with good conditions is arrogant, so he always wants to use the Greet the opponent with a poor attitude and want to dispel the opponent's arrogance.

Many women don’t know what criteria to use when choosing a spouse. They include the following points:

The other person’s family background

Marriage is not a matter between two people. It is a family matter of both parties, so we should not just look at the individual, but also look at his family background. We must start from his family background.

If his family background is not particularly good, but the people in his family are very loyal and honest, have no history of making mistakes, or are easy to get along with in the eyes of others, such a family is still worth relying on. , anyway, the members of this family are not qualified, no matter how much money they have, they may not have a good life after getting married.

The other person’s character

Character determines a person’s success or failure. How do you want to judge the other person’s character? You need to observe the details. A person with good character pays special attention to the way he gets along with people who are less capable than himself.

If a person becomes famous and treats people in lower-level positions equally, it means that he is really smart and has a certain level.

The other person’s ability

Sometimes you can’t just look at the other person’s current financial situation, or income, but from his ability. If you are a capable and motivated man , you won’t worry about making money. This is to be responsible for your family, and you will work hard to earn money to support your family.

So it is very important to choose a suitable marriage partner. You cannot be fooled by the other party just based on your temporary feelings.

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