Some basic knowledge of social interaction.

Some young people are often troubled by their unsociable and introverted personality. There is plenty of time to cultivate character. So can you change this personality and cultivate the ability to communicate well?

As the saying goes, "A leopard cannot change his spots." This statement is actually not entirely correct. "Hard to move" doesn't mean you can't move. People are developing and changing. With the social reform and opening up, frequent personal contacts, increasing social practice and broadening knowledge, personal concepts, consciousness and personality will change greatly. As long as you consciously pay attention to changing your personality, you will get good results. In addition, we should establish confidence, straighten our position, find ourselves and evaluate ourselves correctly. Don't be overbearing, don't feel inferior, and don't be overwhelmed by inferiority. We should get along with others modestly, cautiously and arrogantly. The ways to change introverted personality and learn to communicate are to expand their information, read more books and newspapers, care about world affairs, expand their knowledge, broaden their horizons, and pay attention to enriching their spare time, such as playing ball, calligraphy and chess. These activities can increase their communication and change their personality imperceptibly.

In character building, we can make efforts from the following aspects: First, we should make ourselves lovely and hope to be good friends of others.

(1) When you encounter troubles, you might as well assume that you are in a happy and carefree state. Over time, you can naturally develop a cheerful personality.

(2) Try to use your spare time to do what you like and participate in different activities, which can expand your social circle and increase your knowledge.

(3) Writing your daily feelings, wishes and dreams in a "secret diary" will not only help to relieve your troubles, but also help you learn how to express your inner feelings.

(4) Don't expect your own perfection. And pay attention to your sense of humor.

Secondly, before starting to establish friendship with others, think about whether you are really interested in others and whether others can make you happy.

(1) Be friendly.

(2) Accept other people's personalities and opinions, and don't force others to change.

(3) Pay attention to personal style, and don't blindly make dedication to friends. Friends should be based on the principle of mutual assistance.

(4) Tell your friends your feelings and thoughts, but pay attention to the depth of intersection to avoid embarrassing situations.

(5) Understand that true friends have some characteristics: they will not belittle you and raise themselves; Will keep your secret; I won't slander you, and I won't mind how you dress up; Will not break off diplomatic relations categorically.

(6) Willing to change, always ready to change and change, flexible and creative, with a democratic and equal personality and the spirit of obeying the law and keeping promises; We should constantly improve people's skills and be good at handling themselves. Modern people should realize that one's future and life depend on one's own skills. This is the characteristic of today's times.

In addition, while using language to talk in social activities, there is another factor that cannot be ignored, that is, non-linguistic factors. What are nonverbal factors? It is our actions, expressions and environment in the process of conversation and communication that affect our communication all the time.

2. Who can provide me with some basic social knowledge in life?

Respecting, caring and helping others, and establishing and developing new interpersonal relationships of equality, unity, friendship and mutual assistance are one of the contents of socialist spiritual civilization. In social activities, paying attention to one's appearance and appearance means respecting others and society, which reflects one's mental state and civilization.

● Good mental outlook.

First of all, we should develop good hygiene habits. Keep your face clean, your hair should be trimmed and combed frequently, and your nails should be trimmed frequently. Clothes should be clean and tidy, clothes and pants buttons should be buttoned neatly, and underwear and * * * should not be exposed. You can wear sunglasses on formal occasions.

Be polite and pay attention to overcoming embarrassment. Don't spit and litter everywhere. Don't pick your teeth, pull out your ears, pick your nostrils, rub dirt, scratch your eyes and shake your legs in public. Don't sneeze, yawn or stretch.

When dealing with people, you should be sincere, modest, enthusiastic, confident and polite. We should overcome our sense of inferiority and loneliness. Work should be steady, fast but not chaotic, busy but not urgent, thoughtful, calm and generous.

▲ Stand straight, upright, not skewed, not hunched.

▲ Sit down. Sit calmly, for example, don't jingle your seat, don't sit on your back.

▲ Take a walk. Free and vigorous steps, no bending, no swinging arms, no bending, no belly.

● Etiquette of daily life

▲ Say hello. When you hear someone come into the room, you should stand up and greet them warmly. No matter what occasion, when others talk to themselves, you can't ignore them and have no response. They should overcome their inferiority complex and enhance their sense of participation.

▲ shake hands. Shake hands to express greetings, congratulations and farewell, and express affectionate and friendly feelings. Etiquette In Lan Qi, when shaking hands, you should face each other and hold their right hand. You can gently shake it up and down, don't hold it for a long time, otherwise it will make the other person uncomfortable. Help the blind shake hands when there is a discerning person present.

▲ hey. When bowing, face each other, take off your hat and stand at attention. Then bend down and bow your head; The angle between the upper body and the leg should not be less than 90 degrees. Then return to attention. Generally speaking, it is feasible to bow before and after meeting elders, giving speeches and performances on stage, and accepting prizes or gifts. This is to respect the courtesy of elders, leaders and audiences. When wearing a military cap, you can't bow and salute, but you should salute. Before bowing, you should know whether the distance between you and the other person is enough and whether there are obstacles in front, so as not to hurt your head and cause danger.

▲ speak. In social activities, people exchange ideas, feelings and information through conversation. When you speak, you should first pay attention to your manners and face each other. Some people are used to talking while knocking on the table, or trying to get close to each other, or holding each other's hands for a long time. These are all bad habits. When speaking, don't chatter, don't be too silent, don't brag, be self-centered and show no interest in things that have nothing to do with yourself; We should talk more about things that are related to or of interest to each other. Words are the clothes of one's knowledge and character. An indecent word will be looked down upon immediately, especially when contacting other units for work or business negotiations. Your manners are likely to determine the success or failure of your work.

▲ Call. Making phone calls is a very convenient way to socialize. When making a phone call, don't stick your mouth on the microphone, or the germs on the microphone will infect yourself; I'll get the microphone dirty myself. Don't pick up the phone and ask, "Who are you?" This is very impolite. The person who answers the phone should take the initiative to say hello to the other party and say his unit or name. Take care of the phone and handle it with care.

▲ Help others. Asking for help from others is inevitable, and the language and practice of asking for help directly affect whether others are willing to help. The requested party should help enthusiastically, apologize if it can't help, and explain the reasons. When asking others for help, don't take it for granted that others are doing things for you. If you entrust others to do things for yourself, you must trust others; Even if the other person is a stranger and has doubts and has to ask for help, don't show distrust. Otherwise, it will hurt each other's self-esteem. Ask someone to buy something for you, and give money first. After you buy something back, express your gratitude and don't ask for the balance right away. If you are not satisfied with what you have bought or done, you should also express your gratitude and don't show unhappiness; Otherwise the other party will feel uneasy or angry.

▲ communication. Letters are one of the important social means. The perfect unity of the content and form of the letter will leave a good impression on the recipient, enhance friendship and achieve twice the result with half the effort.

3. Necessary social knowledge

1, what is etiquette?

A: Etiquette refers to the code of conduct and norms formed by people in social communication activities. Reflected in politeness, etiquette, appearance, ceremony and so on.

2. What is politeness?

A: Politeness refers to the mutual respect, friendliness and propriety that people should have in the process of mutual communication.

3. What is etiquette?

A: Etiquette refers to the customary forms and norms such as respect, congratulations, greetings, greetings and condolences expressed by people in the process of social communication.

4. What is a musical instrument?

A: Instrument refers to a person's appearance. Such as appearance, dress, posture, etc.

5. What is a ceremony?

A: Ceremony refers to the standardized activities with special procedures held on fixed occasions. For example, award ceremony, signing ceremony and opening ceremony.

6. What are the six basic characteristics of etiquette?

A: * * * Homosexuality, inheritance, unity, difference, class influence, and the development of the times.

7. What are the four principles of etiquette?

A: The principles of respect, compliance, moderation and self-discipline.

8. What are the four functions of etiquette?

A: Communication function, coordination function, maintenance function and education function.

9. Why is China "a country with an ancient civilization and etiquette"?

China is an ancient civilization with a long history. For thousands of years, it has created splendid culture, formed noble moral standards and complete etiquette norms, and is called "the country with ancient civilization and etiquette" by the world.

10, why pay attention to etiquette?

A: Paying attention to etiquette is not a trivial matter in personal life, but a realistic reflection of a country's social atmosphere and an important symbol of the progress of a nation's spiritual civilization.

1 1. What is the function of etiquette to society?

A: For society, etiquette can improve people's moral concept, purify social atmosphere and improve social and cultural quality.

12, what does etiquette do for individuals?

A: For individuals, etiquette can build self-esteem, enhance self-esteem, self-confidence and self-love, pave the way for social interpersonal communication and handle various relationships well.

13, how to strengthen personal cultivation?

Answer: (1) Consciously improve personal moral cultivation; (2) Have a sense of justice and principle; (3) Care, respect and help others.

14, how to cultivate self-sentiment?

Answer: (1) Strengthen the study of science and culture and make yourself a knowledgeable person; (2) optimistic, cheerful and generous; (3) Enthusiasm, sincerity, consideration, kindness and friendliness.

15, what is the principle of making friends?

Answer: Honest and trustworthy, kind to others, generous, neither supercilious nor supercilious.

16, what is makeup?

A: Make-up refers to people dressing themselves up with cosmetics and artistic descriptions in government affairs, business, affairs and social life, so as to achieve the purpose of inspiring spirit and respecting others.

17, what should I pay attention to in instrument etiquette?

Answer: Pay attention to the coordination of musical instruments, the matching of colors and the matching of occasions.

18, what principles should I pay attention to when wearing accessories?

A: No matter what accessories you wear, they must match your figure, face and the beauty of your clothes.

19, what do you mean by wearing a ring with different fingers?

A: Generally speaking, wearing it on the index finger means proposing marriage; The middle finger indicates that you are in love; The ring finger indicates engagement or marriage; The little finger means celibacy; You don't usually wear a ring on your thumb.

20. What are the main factors to consider when choosing a necklace?

Answer: the choice of necklace, the price is not important, what kind of style a tube is, and the coordination with age, skin color and clothing is the main thing.

2 1, explain the role of earrings in accessories?

A: Earrings are not only decorative, but also have the functions of protecting eyesight, preventing and treating eye diseases and myopia.

22. What should I pay attention to when choosing bracelets?

Answer: If you only wear one bracelet, you should wear it on your left hand. When wearing two, you can wear one in one hand or two in your left hand; When you wear three, you should wear them all on your left hand, not one in one hand and two in the other; Bracelets should be coordinated with rings and clothing styles.

23. What kind of ornament is a brooch?

A: A brooch is an ornament that people wear on their chests. Broadly speaking, brooches include pins, brooches and brooches.

24. What should I pay attention to when choosing glasses?

Answer: Glasses affect the impression of the whole facial contour. When choosing to wear, we should pay attention to the balance between the shape of the frame and the face: the color of the frame should be coordinated with the skin color.

25. What does a woman's shawl do?

A: In addition to decoration, shawls can also cope with the large temperature difference between morning and evening.

26. What is the function of a lady's purse? How many kinds are there?

A: It is an indispensable ornament for women in various occasions. It has both decorative value and practicality. In terms of appearance and use, it can be divided into three types: shoulder hanging type, flat lifting type and flat holding type.

4. Basic knowledge of interpersonal communication

1. Don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you: push others with your own heart; How do you want to live, you think others will want to live; If you don't want others to treat you, don't treat others like that; Know from your heart whether others will feel the same way as you.

2. Interpersonal communication is the exchange of ideas between independent people: to communicate with people normally, we must first remember that we are an ordinary person with flesh and blood, not inferior or superior. Equal dialogue can be less colorful and more real. All values that pursue equality of personality are healthy values.

3. You stay away from everyone's attention: Don't think that your every move is concerned by everyone or treated as a joke. In fact, you are far from the attraction of small Shenyang, even if you look at your 1 000 "audience". Don't be unhappy for those boring people who pay too much attention to others and forget who they are. And most importantly! Most of the attention to you is your illusion!

4. Dare to enjoy honor is a good boy: If you succeed, it is absolutely your right to enjoy honor, which you deserve, and you will bear more responsibilities than others because of your success.

Man is a gregarious animal: intelligence is not born, but cultivated through communication. Lack of communication will bring about the incompleteness of thought. In the same way, strictly conservative human thoughts have no vitality, and open and inclusive thoughts can maintain vitality!

6. Truth needs to be searched for all one's life, and it is constantly understood in doing things: even if you are excellent as a child, it does not mean that you have mastered the truth, and the truth is constantly improving and progressing.

7. You can't make everyone your friend (you can't make everyone not your enemy).

8. Most people's willpower is not strong enough. No matter how strong their control is, they will get out of control sooner or later. Ordinary people can't succeed on their own lonely souls. Whether you are an ordinary person or not, don't try to challenge yourself.

5. Necessary social knowledge

Basic knowledge of social etiquette 1. What is etiquette? A: Etiquette refers to the code of conduct and norms formed by people in social communication activities.

Reflected in politeness, etiquette, appearance, ceremony and so on. 2. What is politeness? A: Politeness refers to the mutual respect, friendliness and propriety that people should have in the process of mutual communication.

3. What is etiquette? A: Etiquette refers to the customary forms and norms such as respect, congratulations, greetings, greetings and condolences expressed by people in the process of social communication. 4. What is a musical instrument? A: Instrument refers to a person's appearance.

Such as appearance, dress, posture, etc. 5. What is a ceremony? A: Ceremony refers to the standardized activities with special procedures held on fixed occasions.

For example, award ceremony, signing ceremony and opening ceremony. 6. What are the six basic characteristics of etiquette? A: * * * Homosexuality, inheritance, unity, difference, class influence, and the development of the times.

7. What are the four principles of etiquette? A: The principles of respect, compliance, moderation and self-discipline. 8. What are the four functions of etiquette? A: Communication function, coordination function, maintenance function and education function.

9. Why is China "a country with an ancient civilization and etiquette"? China is an ancient civilization with a long history. For thousands of years, it has created splendid culture, formed noble moral standards and complete etiquette norms, and is called "the country with ancient civilization and etiquette" by the world. 10, why pay attention to etiquette? A: Paying attention to etiquette is not a trivial matter in personal life, but a realistic reflection of a country's social atmosphere and an important symbol of the progress of a nation's spiritual civilization.

1 1. What is the function of etiquette to society? A: For society, etiquette can improve people's moral concept, purify social atmosphere and improve social and cultural quality. 12, what does etiquette do for individuals? A: For individuals, etiquette can build self-esteem, enhance self-esteem, self-confidence and self-love, pave the way for social interpersonal communication and handle various relationships well.

13, how to strengthen personal cultivation? Answer: (1) Consciously improve personal moral cultivation; (2) Have a sense of justice and principle; (3) Care, respect and help others. 14, how to cultivate self-sentiment? Answer: (1) Strengthen the study of science and culture and make yourself a knowledgeable person; (2) optimistic, cheerful and generous; (3) Enthusiasm, sincerity, consideration, kindness and friendliness.

15, what is the principle of making friends? Answer: Honest and trustworthy, kind to others, generous, neither supercilious nor supercilious. 16, what is makeup? A: Make-up refers to people dressing themselves up with cosmetics and artistic descriptions in government affairs, business, affairs and social life, so as to achieve the purpose of inspiring spirit and respecting others.

17, what should I pay attention to in instrument etiquette? Answer: Pay attention to the coordination of musical instruments, the matching of colors and the matching of occasions. 18, what principles should I pay attention to when wearing accessories? A: No matter what accessories you wear, they must match your figure, face and the beauty of your clothes.

19, what do you mean by wearing a ring with different fingers? A: Generally speaking, wearing it on the index finger means proposing marriage; The middle finger indicates that you are in love; The ring finger indicates engagement or marriage; The little finger means celibacy; You don't usually wear a ring on your thumb. 20. What are the main factors to consider when choosing a necklace? Answer: the choice of necklace, the price is not important, what kind of style a tube is, and the coordination with age, skin color and clothing is the main thing.

2 1, explain the role of earrings in accessories? A: Earrings are not only decorative, but also have the functions of protecting eyesight, preventing and treating eye diseases and myopia. 22. What should I pay attention to when choosing bracelets? Answer: If you only wear one bracelet, you should wear it on your left hand. When wearing two, you can wear one in one hand or two in your left hand; When you wear three, you should wear them all on your left hand, not one in one hand and two in the other; Bracelets should be coordinated with rings and clothing styles.

23. What kind of ornament is a brooch? A: A brooch is an ornament that people wear on their chests. Broadly speaking, brooches include pins, brooches and brooches. 24. What should I pay attention to when choosing glasses? Answer: Glasses affect the impression of the whole facial contour. When choosing to wear, we should pay attention to the balance between the shape of the frame and the face: the color of the frame should be coordinated with the skin color.

25. What does a woman's shawl do? A: In addition to decoration, shawls can also cope with the large temperature difference between morning and evening. 26. What is the function of a lady's purse? How many kinds are there? A: It is an indispensable ornament for women in various occasions. It has both decorative value and practicality.

In terms of appearance and use, it can be divided into three types: shoulder hanging type, flat lifting type and flat holding type. 27. What is the role of stockings in women's wear? A: A pair of beautiful * * * can set off the curvy beauty and mystery of women's legs, and * * * is a necessary dress for women.

28. What fabric gloves can make women look gentler and more feminine? A: Knitted gloves. 29. What should I pay attention to when shaking hands? Answer: (1) Between the superior and the subordinate, the subordinate can only reach out and shake hands after the superior reaches out; (2) Between the elder and the younger generation, only after the elder reaches out, can the younger generation reach out and shake hands; (3) Between men and women, men can only reach out and shake hands after women reach out. (4) When shaking hands, men should take off their gloves, and women can wear rings without gloves. (5) When shaking hands, extend your right hand and never extend your left hand; (6) The strength of shaking hands should be moderate, not weak, and not too hard.

30. How do people with cross-border cultural exchanges pay attention to the communication of silent language "gestures"? A: Every country and nation has its own language and cultural customs, and silent language varies from nation to nation. In one country or region, a gesture may be very common, while in another country or region, it may be meaningless or even have the opposite meaning.

Therefore, for people with cross-border cultural exchanges, the safest rule of action is to "do as the Romans do", so as to avoid misunderstanding and getting into trouble. 3 1, briefly explain the importance of reception etiquette.

A: Greeting and sending are the most basic forms and important links in social reception activities, as well as important aspects of expressing host friendship and showing politeness. Especially welcome guests, leaving a good impression on guests is the most important job.

32. Briefly describe the guiding methods of corridor receptionists.

6. What is social common sense?

Social common sense is effective knowledge that must be mastered in social life. Seemingly ordinary, it actually contains great wisdom of life at all times and in all countries, and is the essence of social knowledge.

Its influence on a person is immeasurable, and it is often the key factor to determine success or failure. In life, people often lose everything because they don't know some social common sense.

Therefore, mastering social common sense is the most basic requirement for modern people to survive in the world, and it is also a passport for modern people to walk in society. Young people who are not deeply involved in the world, with more social knowledge, can take fewer detours and increase the probability of success.

Middle-aged and elderly people with rich life experience also have common sense blind spots, and some common sense that should be known is unknown, so they need to be constantly supplemented and updated to avoid all kinds of unexpected failures and losses. Social common sense includes image common sense, etiquette common sense, scene eloquence common sense, language communication common sense, social psychology common sense, getting along with people common sense, knowing people common sense, networking common sense, doing things common sense, giving gifts common sense, banquets common sense, hidden rules common sense, workplace survival common sense, entrepreneurship common sense, financial management common sense, leisure common sense, safety common sense, fraud prevention common sense and so on.

Only by mastering these social common sense can we establish a good image, have elegant manners and excellent communication skills, handle all kinds of interpersonal relationships with ease, do all kinds of difficulties well, establish a wide range of contacts, and win the favor of wealth and success. You can read the book Common Sense of the Whole Society to learn more.

7. Basic knowledge of social etiquette

1. When others pour water, don't just look at it, but hold it with your hands to show politeness.

You should at least be able to answer when others are talking to you. You can't say the last sentence, you don't have the next sentence, or you can just say ah, right. When people stare at you, don't look directly at them and pretend not to notice.

4. Being in a bad mood, even the best skin care products and cosmetics can't remedy the skin. 5. Poor sleep can make people incoherent, unresponsive and have prominent dark circles.

6. When others release "poisonous gas", don't avoid or fan in disgust and pretend as if nothing has happened. 7. When reprimanded by the leader, don't bow your head, look directly at the leader and accept the criticism with a smile, and the fire of the leader will slowly go out, otherwise the leader will add fuel to the fire.

8. A woman can't ask a man for money with her palms up all her life.

9. When you leave the table after dinner, you say, "I'm finished, so take your time." 10. It is necessary to pass water and rice with both hands.

1 1. Don't tilt up in the chair. 12. Hold a bowl when eating, and don't pick and choose on the plate.

13. Remember to close the door when you come in last. 14. If you send someone away, you should say, "Go slowly."

15. Don't wash your hands casually. It's impolite to throw water on others. 16. When handing the knife to others, remember to hand it to the end of the handle.

17. Don't expose other people's shortcomings. 18. Don't be distracted when listening to others.

This is very impolite. 19. After pouring tea and water for others, don't point the spout at others.

20. When you stand, you have a standing posture, and when you sit, you have a sitting posture. 16. When handing the knife to others, remember to hand it to the end of the handle.

17. Don't expose other people's shortcomings. 18. Don't be distracted when listening to others.

This is very impolite. 19. After pouring tea and water for others, don't point the spout at others.

20. When you stand, you have a standing posture, and when you sit, you have a sitting posture. 16. When handing the knife to others, remember to hand it to the end of the handle.

17. Don't expose other people's shortcomings. 18. Don't be distracted when listening to others.

This is very impolite. 19. After pouring tea and water for others, don't point the spout at others.

20. When you stand, you have a standing posture, and when you sit, you have a sitting posture. 16. When handing the knife to others, remember to hand it to the end of the handle.

17. Don't expose other people's shortcomings. 18. Don't be distracted when listening to others.

This is very impolite. 19. After pouring tea and water for others, don't point the spout at others.

20. When you stand, you have a standing posture, and when you sit, you have a sitting posture. 3 1. Go to someone else's house and don't sit on someone else's bed.

32. Touch glasses with others on the wine table. Your cup must be lower than the other person's, especially when the other person is an elder or leader. 33. Take an umbrella and enough dry food on sunny days-it is always good to plan ahead.

34. If you ask others, they won't answer you. Don't keep asking. 35. Try not to make any noise while eating.

36. When taking things or putting on shoes, squat down and don't bend over and pout. When someone criticizes you, even if he is wrong, don't refute it first, and then explain it when everyone calms down.

38. Enough is enough, whether it is eating your favorite food or losing your temper. 39. After dinner at a friend's house, take the initiative to help wash the dishes and clean the table-the host has been cooking very hard and can't let the host clean up afterwards.

40. You will meet all kinds of people in your life. You can't get along well with everyone, but one thing is universal: how you treat others, others will treat you. 4 1. Hospitality should be big, but housekeeping should be small.

42. Take back your fist and fight back more forcefully. 43. People living in this world must first learn the word "forbearance".

Don't tell anyone your secret easily at any time. 45. Money is not earned by saving money, but by spending money.

46. There is no end to learning, not only books, but also how to treat people. This society is far more complicated than you think. 47. Don't discuss the right and wrong of your boss or other colleagues with your colleagues. Your careless words are likely to be evidence that others attacked you.

48. It is your duty to do things well, and it is your dereliction of duty to do things badly. 49. Only buying by mistake, not selling by mistake.

Don't just be greedy and cheap. 50. Sometimes loneliness is normal. Don't be afraid, just adjust yourself.

5 1. I have real friends, but I wonder if you are lucky enough to meet them. Don't deny it whether you meet it or not.

Don't calculate others, especially the person you like. Don't use means to get the person you like.

52. The bravest thing is to love life after knowing the truth. Don't be afraid of cheating, but you should know that there are cheating in the world.

53. When borrowing money, you should have a bottom in mind, that is, you should think that the money will not come back. Therefore, the money you lend should always be within the range of losses you can bear.

Within the tolerable amount, even if I can't come back, I am prepared. You can't borrow the amount you can't afford to lose.

54. It is best not to have economic exchanges between girlfriends unless you are too poor to eat. Many valuable friendships have been destroyed by money.

55. A gentleman can refer to things, but he should not pay attention to things. ……………………………………………………………………………………。

8. Interpersonal relations, social interaction and common sense of life

This is a very complicated question and there is no specific answer. Life really needs methods and brains to solve all kinds of maladjustments and problems. But my point is, no matter who you are or what you do, don't be hypocritical. You can't wronged yourself because of other people's feelings. Changing yourself for others is a wrong way of life! But I'm not saying that you can be willful, but that you should keep learning and growing. China is a country of etiquette. Thousands of years' cultural heritage is enough to tell you how to behave, but you didn't study hard. Of course, this is a bit serious. In fact, life is very simple, and people who are highly educated or rich are unhappy. I think common sense is very important in life. To sum up: be yourself! Bookstores in life have many communication skills. You can look at it appropriately, but don't imitate it deliberately, understand it. Knowing them will become your own common sense!