I was pregnant before I got married. What if the boyfriend wants to abort the child, break up or not give money?

Hello everyone, my boyfriend and I are both rural people, and the economic conditions are not very good. We were introduced by our relatives a year ago and our parents met, so we both thought we could be together.

At first, he was also very kind to me. We work in the same place, and he picks me up from work every day. I feel very happy. Almost half a year later, I lived with him.

After about 3 months together, I was pregnant. After pregnancy, he took good care of me and cared about me every day. At that time, I felt that I had found the right person, and my heart was full of happiness.

In this way, after half a year, my stomach grew bigger day by day, so I resigned and nursed back to health at home.

When I got home, my mother saw that my stomach was getting bigger every day, and she began to urge my boyfriend's family to come and propose. My mother calculated that she needed 70 thousand yuan for engagement, and then called her boyfriend's mother. His mother said after listening, I went to do something, and then hung up the phone.

In the evening, my boyfriend called me and said, "Does your mother want to eat people, knowing that our family doesn't have that much money and wants 70 thousand?" Where can I earn so much money? How will we live in the future, and your mother will not think about our future? " When I heard it, I discussed it with my mother, and then I hung up.

I went to tell my mother, and she said, "Is it that easy for me to give birth to you and raise you? Besides, this 70 thousand yuan is to be distributed to relatives and used to buy furniture for you in the future. Do you want me to lend you money everywhere for your dowry? Why don't you think about your parents when you are so old? What mother doesn't expect her daughter to have a good life? Tell him that 70 thousand can't be less, or she won't marry. "

After listening to it, I thought what my mother said was reasonable, so I called my boyfriend. At this time, my boyfriend said, "My family can't afford that much money. If your mother really wants us to be happy, she shouldn't ask for this engagement fee. Since your mother only recognizes money, I can only give you two choices now. The first is to abort the child and break up with us. The second is not to get engaged. We are getting married next month. You can choose two ways. "

I was confused at that time. Now my relatives and friends know that I am pregnant, and it has been six months. How can I have another miscarriage? But now that the two families are deadlocked, I think they all make sense and have difficulties. My boyfriend is giving me a hard time now. What should I do?