My husband always brings home setbacks at work. What should I do?

Personally, I think this kind of thing should be understood first and communicated second.

The problem may be caused by work pressure, criticized by the boss, or the contract we talked about failed. Analyze every problem and think about how to help him. The problem is that things have not been solved. Try to open his heart instead of suffering silently. You can try to understand his work, his position, where he goes to socialize every day, and then help him when he is in trouble, so that it won't be like this.

Communication is the best medicine between husband and wife. When he comes home, when he is angry, ignore him, keep silent and don't quarrel with him. When he's finished, ask him what's wrong and try to keep him quiet. Otherwise, don't ask him yet and tell him a joke. Then ask him what problems he has at work and help him make suggestions. Otherwise, drag him out to play on weekends, let him forget his troubles and help him relax.

Learn to understand, after all, some of his stress will come from the pressure of life. Since husband and wife are on the same side, we should understand each other and try our best to help him. Men sometimes need each other's care, and men sometimes act like children, so when he needs comfort, he should also play the role of "mother" and listen to his difficulties. At this time, don't stimulate him with excessive language, but encourage him.

No matter who it is, it will happen if the pressure is too high. Since we are husband and wife, we should consider the reasons for each other's temper, solve them together, communicate when encountering problems, and then encounter similar problems. If there is a problem, we will find the reason. Instead of one party losing his temper when there is a problem, the other party does not ask. If this goes on, it will cause serious quarrels and feelings will break down, which is not good for both of us.

Husband and wife should do their best. I know that if you don't tell me, I won't ask you to tell me.