I am very kind to my girlfriend and never want to hit her or scold her. All the brothers around me laughed that I was not a man and said that hitting a woman was a real man. I really don't understand

I am very kind to my girlfriend and never want to hit her or scold her. All the brothers around me laughed that I was not a man and said that hitting a woman was a real man. I really don't understand them. Actually, most of them are fake. Most men in China like to laugh at others, so they always try their best to drink others. Seeing others drunk, they are happy and think there is a game. They are jealous of the love of other couples, and they wish someone would beat them every day, but they will be excited. His wife and girlfriend don't want to fight, and they can't wait to see others beat their wives or girlfriends. Only a few male chauvinists will beat their wives, and only particularly weak women or people who want something from him can stand his beating and scolding. You are a good man and love women, so you can have a bright future. I wish you happiness!