You Shi, why do you say she is the hardest woman in a dream of red mansions?

Especially Jia Zhen's wife in A Dream of Red Mansions, she is naturally the head of Ningguo Mansion. Jia Zhen is the corresponding title and official position, and You Shi is also the corresponding duchess. You was born in an ordinary family, and now he is in a very good position. Can the glamorous appearance represent the happiness of Youshi? Actually, it's not like this. Your life in Ningfu has been very difficult.

First, it is not easy for a rich daughter-in-law who has worked hard for Rong Guofu but has not been respected. Even if Wang Xifeng, who comes from a famous family, can't satisfy her mother-in-law, such as Mrs. Xing and Mrs. Wang, it is even harder for you to come from an ordinary family. As long as your family is well enough, there is absolutely no need for you to marry Jia Zhen to fill the house, and there is no need to pay all kinds of hard work in Guo Rongfu but not get the respect you deserve.

Did not get Jia's respect For Jia Mu, the You family always prepares various needlework gifts for her on the first day of New Year's Day. Especially on the first day of the lunar new year, you's family had already prepared all kinds of meals for her, but Jia still refused to eat them. Flowers are in full bloom in the courtyard of Ningguo Mansion, and especially the family invited others to enjoy the flowers for dinner. This is filial piety to the younger generation, but when the Mid-Autumn Festival especially the family told jokes, Jia Mu was already asleep.

In addition to daily communication, You Shi must also do well the things arranged by Jia Mu. With a word from the Lady Dowager, You Shi can organize Wang Xifeng's birthday party, assist the government in all kinds of affairs, and marry Xing Xiuyan, Xue Pan and other people who don't want to take care of it but have to take care of it. Even if she did everything, she still couldn't compare with Wang Xifeng in Jia's heart.

Did not get the respect of Wang Xifeng. You Shi and Wang Xifeng are sisters-in-law. Although they often joke, Wang Xifeng doesn't really respect You Shi. You was ordered to host Wang Xifeng's birthday party, but Wang Xifeng did not say hello and intercepted her molecular money to Li Wan. You Shi found out that she was a prodigal son, and her money was gone later. Worst of all, Wang Xifeng blamed You on Jia Lian's stealing of the second sister You, which not only made a scene in Ningguo House, but also humiliated You.

You Shi is coming out to see her. Seeing that Xi-feng was pale, she quickly said with a smile, "What are you busy with?" Xi-feng spat and said, "Nobody wants you, especially the Jia family. You just secretly sent it to the Jia family! Is the Jia family all right, and the world is dead!

After these disgusting words, I cheated 500 taels of silver to leave. However, Wang Xifeng killed Second Sister You regardless of your face. Wang Xifeng owes you an apology and respect.

Not respected by the servants in Guo Rong Mansion. You Shi is the hostess of Ningguo Mansion, but in the mansion, her words are ignored by others. This disrespect is sincere contempt. On the way back, You Shi happened to see Guo Rongfu's door open, and the old maid who was the gatekeeper was drunk, just reminding them to close the door, but as gatekeepers, they not only refused to listen, but also satirized You Shi's meddling. Your heart can't help being angry, but you have been used to being wronged, and he can only bear it. It is a sad thing to say or not.

Second, I am tired of coping with Ningfu, and my family and housework are in a mess. If everything in Guo Rongfu is just a superficial phenomenon, then everything that Ning Guofu needs to deal with is the most sad thing for you, whether it is a unruly husband, an unreliable villain, an ignorant sister-in-law, or my family, the family affairs are in a mess. You've been overwhelmed by all this.

The influence of women on the family is enormous. They run the whole family, and there is no major event inside and outside that does not require their efforts. If the husband can understand, then the woman will feel worthwhile no matter how hard and tired she is. If the husband is not considerate, then this woman's miserable life will be miserable.

Unfortunately, You Shi is the latter, and her husband Jia Zhen doesn't love her, and still drinks and makes merry all day.

Especially the position is very low, and your husband wants her to accompany you, so you can only compromise. Jia Zhen is fooling around in Ningguo mansion, raising children and taking everyone to gamble in the name of archery. You Shi couldn't say anything except eavesdropping in the corner.

Jia Zhen's incest with his daughter-in-law ruined the family style and made the Ningguo mansion smoggy, but no one could control it. Everyone is watching your jokes, but you can only tolerate them. You's forbearance and talent finally won her husband's respect, but after all, only the loneliness of living alone was left.

The servants of Ningguo Mansion have never been afraid of Youshi. Laier, the housekeeper, took the lead, and Wang Xifeng was in charge of Ningguo House. Everyone should do their part and rest later. Their awe and obedience to Wang Xifeng have never given you such respect.

Jiao Da can always swear in front of You Shi, and You Shi silently suffers; Servants of Ningguo Mansion don't have enough respect for You's family, so they can serve You's family without following family rules. When they arrive at Guo Rong Building, they will show their true colors. There are also joints between servants. Guo Rongfu's servants can send the food they eat to You's house, but You's good temper has become the reason why people neglect her.

Especially sister-in-law cherishes spring, and has little contact with Ningguo House on weekdays. She dare not take it out on her brother Jia Zhen, but she takes it out on you.

Especially the illness that was originally in his heart made him afraid to say these words. When he heard someone talking about it, he was already angry and excited, but he didn't have a good attack on the vernal equinox and endured most of it. Now I see Xichun saying this again, because there is no way.

You are listening to Xi Chun's ridicule and satire. You can't be angry or scold. After listening for a long time, it finally broke out, but it offended the big lady and broke off relations with Ningfu. There is nothing you can do except take it into the painting and sulk.

Your difficulties in Ningguo House can be seen. You have to manage it from top to bottom. Her husband and sister-in-law have been making trouble. You are the nominal head of the family and work very hard.

Third, the family members, such as You Shi and Wang Xifeng, are all daughters-in-law of Jia family. The only difference is that the Wang Xifeng family will help them, while the You family will not only be unable to help her, but will also bring her a burden.

Your family situation should not be very good, otherwise you wouldn't marry Jia Zhen to fill the house, or your father wouldn't marry two of your old ladies.

After your father died, your family relied on your support. You's two sisters, You Erjie, You Sanjie, are confused with Jia Zhen and his son, and have been shaking your position. Moreover, Second Sister You was desperate to marry Jia Lian, so that you were scolded, blackmailed and even looked down upon by Jia Fu in vain.

Your family is just a drag on you. They add another difficulty to your life.

On the whole, You Shi is a virtuous woman, but she has been living in a difficult situation. This dilemma does not mean that life is not rich enough, but comes from inner fatigue and boredom. Because the two families are in the same strain, especially often go to Jia's house to look after Jia's family. However, even if You did everything in Jia's house, no one got enough respect from Jia Mu, Wang Xifeng and the servants. You Shi was also very tired in Ningguo Mansion, and Jia Zhen, Chun and others also created many difficulties for her. Besides external affairs, especially her own family also brought her a lot of trouble. Your life is not easy in any way. She is not qualified to be twelve women in Jinling, but she is the most difficult woman in a dream of red mansions.

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