You should care about right and wrong.

There is a story that is very popular recently.

Call her little a.

When I first entered the workplace, I often made mistakes and was often scolded. Every time she complained to her boyfriend, he gave her a rational reply: If you didn't make a mistake, how could you be scolded?

Little ah is more wronged: you are my boyfriend! You should support me unconditionally! Does it matter who is right or wrong? You should help me spit them out!

This is the end of the story.

The thinking from this is that the real feelings should be, who cares who is right and who is wrong, as long as I support you without principles.

Is that so?

It seems so.

I have a friend who supports me unconditionally and perfectly. It is the so-called "who cares about right and wrong, I just support you unprincipled".

So whenever I am wronged, no matter right or wrong, she will accompany me to vomit for the first time until my mood is calm.

It's really cool to have someone who supports you like this and spits out people you hate with you.

I have encountered something annoying recently. As always, she supported me unprincipled. She suggested that I stop scolding that annoying person and find someone to hit her. Of course, it's a joke, and it sounds Japanese.

But this time, things need to be solved, not in a good mood.

I also need to complete the process of solving, and I also need to bear the consequences.

Finally, I convinced myself and bowed my head in front of the annoying people. If I have to talk about right and wrong, I still don't feel that I have done something wrong, and probably the other party doesn't feel that I have done something wrong. But who is right and who is wrong verbally is nothing. Solving the problem is the most important thing.

Later, I told my friend who supported me unconditionally and told her that I had gone to recognize the coward.

I thought she would scold me for being unprincipled.

However, it really surprised me.

Ten minutes later, she replied to me:

You finally grew up.

Suddenly I was very emotional, yes, I finally grew up. In this world, when you need to spit, there will always be people who are willing to support you unconditionally. It may be friends, lovers, or parents. But there must be such a person.

But after the support?

Because they love you, they can support you regardless of right or wrong, but can you let things drag on like this regardless of right or wrong? You can't.

You should care about right and wrong. You should learn to solve problems instead of hiding under the wings of people who love you and being a child forever.