An idea accompanying your growth: son, let's work together on this road of life!

On July 2, my son's local exam results came out, geography 98, biology 95. This is a small exam on my son's exam road, and it is also the reward of my son's hard work this semester. Seeing that my son has gradually taken the initiative to study in the past six months, some bad habits have gradually changed. I feel gratified, but I also feel that there is a long way to go. On some issues of educating children, we have missed what experts call the best education age. But I believe it is never too late to learn and change!

The child is not only my expectation, but also himself, unique. Accompanying my son to grow up, not only is he growing up, but I think I should also work hard to grow up myself. Only a better mother can give good guidance to her children. Children are a mirror of my life.

Parents are role models for their children, and setting an example by others is a common and rare problem. In the past, I always condescended to ask my children to do this and not that, and then I did things that my children were not allowed to do, such as playing mobile phones. I used to love chasing dramas. Every time my son sees me chasing a drama, his heart itches and he comes to see me. I don't allow him to look at it. He called it "Mom is tired from work, so relax". Once, my child told me that I was very tired at school and needed to relax. This year, videos such as mobile phone Youku and Tencent were decisively deleted. If children love learning, as parents, they can't always play mobile phones alone, but do meaningful things. My son sometimes secretly stands behind me and watches me go to class or read books online. He glanced at it and obediently returned to the study to do his homework.

Give children trust and don't supervise "Eye of the Sky"

I remember watching a reality show with my son once, saying that an adolescent boy liked to shut himself in his room, so his mother unlocked the room and left a hole. His mother often "looks" from the hole. The boy said that every time I see eyes like "eye of heaven" in a locked hole, I feel sick. Sometimes I can't help sneaking to the door of my child's house to see if he is "cheating" and the child will laugh at me as "the eye of the sky". I also restrained myself from staring at him.

Trust your child and don't stare at him all the time, but I will always remind my child that learning is your own business and you must work hard on your own! At the same time, I also told him that mom and dad will accompany you and we will give you help and support if you need it. Parents can't always supervise their children without drilling, but we should guide them to cultivate good habits of self-discipline

Trust is the cornerstone and soil of various relationships.

Self-confidence in life for 200 years will be a blow to the flow of three thousand miles.

A few days ago, I saw my son's essay "Tell me about my advantages" and wrote two poor points. I think it is the worst way to cultivate my son's self-confidence on his way to growth. I hope it is not too late to wake up. Children go to school when they are very young, and they go to the first grade when they are over five years old, which is relatively young in the class. In addition, he is an ignorant child, so most of what the teacher told him was not done well, and he was criticized by the teacher more than other children. In addition, his eyesight was not good since he was a child, and because of anxiety, I also gave the child too much blame and pressure, and the child felt a little inferior. Besides, I am not a confident mother myself. Only those who are confident are happy. I want to have confidence in my children!

Always see hope

I think every child's heart is full of sunshine! They see more hope than we adults. The child's grades are average, but he has been trying hard to get into a prestigious school. Other children don't want to go to the training class, but he wants to go to the best class. I think he is "overreaching" until one time he took the elective exam until after ten o'clock in the evening. After the exam, he saw that his face was full of disappointment. Because he has not received special training, his grades are still not ideal. I was about to comfort him when he smiled and said to me, Never mind, I still have a chance. I am surprised that this child is optimistic and positive, and I am also infected by him! We adults have too many considerations of gain and loss to face these worldly things. Children are pure, as long as there is hope, we can bravely rush forward! Besides, learning doesn't happen overnight. As long as you make unremitting efforts, there will always be hope!

Come on! My child!

Boys must be steady, not anxious or impulsive.

Mothers talk about their children's studies together. If their children get good grades, their faces will glow and they will "show off" each other. Learning well seems to represent all Excellence and perfection. I used to pay attention to my children's grades, which are a barometer of my mood. But my children's class teacher and classmates who are engaged in education told me that children's character education is better than learning, especially in junior high school. I also gradually understand that bad grades can make up for it, but boys can't be sloppy for a moment. In this year's senior high school entrance examination, there was a student fight in the examination room, and the boy who learned of his death was admitted to the key high school in advance. I am more convinced.

After the incident, I looked at the boy whose blood was 1.75 meters 13 years old, and said with great anxiety, "Hey, be careful what you say and do." "Hey, don't be impulsive when you encounter something." "Hey, tell your mother that you didn't bully anyone at school." ..... In the children's later compositions, it was said that the class teacher spent a class discussing the matter with the children. The teacher guides the children to establish the correct three views, and at the same time teaches them to keep the bottom line, know how to fear and be alert! Don't be impulsive, be responsible for your actions. I felt a sort of surge of relief.

"Floating life is like tea, falling like lotus, and it can be stable and far away." May the children remember the inculcation of their parents and teachers and live a safe life!

There is no perfect mother or excellent son, but we work together on the road of life!