"My son is so excellent, you have to marry 200,000 to get in." Can such a person still marry?

What's wrong with a second married woman? Does she deserve to be despised? Is it necessary to be picked on when you remarry? I don't understand why the world is so tolerant of men and so harsh on women. It is normal for a man to divorce and remarry, and he is praised to the sky, saying how good this man is. It is unreasonable for a woman to be called fall in price when she marries for the second time. I believe that no woman will easily choose to end her marriage, but when there is only pain and torture in marriage, what is wrong with a woman choosing to leave and pursuing happiness after her second marriage?

My name is Wang Jing, and I'm thirty-two years old. There was a failed marriage, so now the second marriage is despised. I am really speechless. What a shame it is for a woman to get married twice. Isn't it everyone's right to pursue happiness? If the last marriage can be good, will I get a divorce? I won't get divorced. Will I get married again now? The second marriage is despised and rejected, which is unbearable.

At the age of 22, my ex-husband and I got married. My ex-husband and I talked by ourselves, and our feelings are still very good. I thought I would be happy all my life after I got married. But who ever thought that I married a good man, but I didn't marry a good family, let alone meet a good mother-in-law. As for my ex-husband, I didn't find out before marriage. Only after marriage did I know that she was a mother-in-law who listened to her parents. My former mother-in-law hates me and makes things difficult for me everywhere. My ex-husband is indifferent, even when I have a problem with his mother, he is still facing his mother. He once warned me to be nice to his mother.

Hehe, I really think it's ridiculous. Really not a family. This family is a virtue if you don't enter the house. Later, at the instigation of his mother, my ex-husband bullied others and made family rules to let me serve their family like a cow and a horse. I can't stand it. My ex-husband and I filed for divorce. Our marriage ended after only one year. Without children, we divorced happily. The ex-husband's family is more eager for divorce. My former mother-in-law doesn't like me, and this divorce is more in her heart.

That failed marriage hit me so hard that I no longer believe in love and marriage. So after the divorce, I focused on my career. In short, I am frustrated in love and proud in my career. After the divorce, my parents sponsored me to do business with my friends. We were very successful and made a lot of money over the years. Because I have been busy with my work and the shadow of my previous marriage, I have never managed my emotional affairs. Seeing that people are almost thirty years old, life events have not yet been decided. My parents are very anxious and always ask someone to arrange a blind date for me. I took one photo after another without feeling, which made my parents very anxious.

Later, at another party, I met my current boyfriend. We got along well, and later he expressed his affection for me. This is his first marriage. He is one year younger than me, a leftover man in his thirties. I told him that I got married for the second time, and he didn't mind. I think it's not bad, too It is better to talk by yourself than to arrange a blind date with your parents. If you can't find it, your parents will be anxious. I think so, too. Let's talk about it. If appropriate, get married. I talked about it for two years, and my feelings were neither deep nor shallow. Anyway, we know each other better, and we are all the kind of people who are suitable for marriage. It's just that his mother doesn't seem very satisfied with me, but he always comforts me. It doesn't matter. We will live together in the future. I was poisoned by the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, which cast a shadow over me. But I think so. Anyway, it's just the two of us. It's good to buy a house by ourselves in the future.

Later, we were going to get married, and our parents discussed our marriage together. My parents are very happy because I finally married myself. However, my boyfriend's parents' faces are pale, but they are still passable. In this way, when it comes to marriage and bride price, the problem comes. What my parents mean is that this marriage is a big deal or something. The bride price and the wedding are indispensable. The bride price is given to our family and then he gets married. What about the wedding? It is also a lively event. But what does my prospective mother-in-law say? She said that this is my second marriage, so don't care so much. What about the bride price? This is just a formality. I won't give it. What about the wedding? I won't do it for fear that others will laugh.

I really think it's ridiculous. What does this mean? I just want to get a certificate. It's better not to marry that paper. I smiled and said, auntie, the bride price and the wedding are indispensable, which is necessary for marriage. What did she say? You still want a bride price and a wedding. Aren't you afraid to be ashamed of your second marriage? No bride price, no wedding. "My son is so good that you have to marry him for 200,000 to get in", which really annoys me. This posture is not a fuel-efficient lamp. I'm afraid it belongs to a bad mother-in-law. I think even if I compromise now and don't want these things, I will still marry 200 thousand as she said. I'm afraid it will be difficult for me to get married in the future. What is the significance of this marriage? I don't want to suffer from my last marriage. I sneered at her and said, "Your son should marry another one." I can't afford a second marriage. After that, I dragged my parents away. I disdain to enter such a house, I can't afford it.