What did your first boss at work teach you?

My first boss at work, for me, although he was not a leader in name, he actually exercised the right of leadership. Anyway, I worked for him and he gave me RMB. I did learn a lot from the time I worked with him.

First, people cannot believe too much. I won’t tell you the specific story. Anyway, just pretend that you have never heard of the things your leader promised you, or the pie and blueprint he drew for you.

Second, strength is the last word. In any group, the so-called playing both sides and flattering others can only be controlled for a while. The key to achieving results is strength. You have to make yourself the person who controls the core. It is the group that needs you, not you that need to integrate into the group.

Third, don’t do what the leader says. You have to guide the leader’s thinking. To be honest, because most leaders focus on the general direction, they often don’t know much about technical details and how difficult the technology is. Some often change their minds. Therefore, you must learn to persuade leaders, and you must despise them mentally and pay attention to them verbally. You have to take the initiative in the project. You and the leader are not equal in daily life, but when it comes to solving specific problems, you need to communicate equally and learn to persuade the leader to accept you and identify with you

Fourth, Don't make excuses. If you're wrong, you're wrong. Don't talk nonsense and excuse yourself, it's meaningless. Making excuses is just to cover up your own unreliability, just say something and admit your mistake, and then refute it when you one day reach a higher level than him. Of course, when you reach a higher level, you won't care about this kind of problem anymore, and your perspective will be different.

There are also some things, such as persistence and not being afraid of setbacks, which everyone knows, so I won’t talk about them